- Joined
- Jan 21, 2024
- Messages
- 134
Hello!
Soooo, I am looking for a Lover for the 4th of July, and I’m hitting the pavement hard both in Daygame and a little Nightgame to find her. But…
I am really having trouble Hooking a Girl and understanding the successful conversation part after I open through to a “value proposition” which would give a reason as to why she and I should continue the conversation via a “Meet-Up.”
My openers are good, and I get good reactions to continue, but then I trip over - the next line, or transition line. Almost brain farting as to what to say next. My fundamentals are pretty good because I get complimented on my dress, looks, and speak well - I've done sales before, so I know how to talk.
When I “trip here” that’s when I fall into the boring typical, what I call interview questions. Or I stumble into generic - “so what do you do?” Fuckin’ boring conversation…
I’ve read many of the articles on the site, for how to hook, how to be a conversationalist, etcetera… And it’s just not clicking.
I wish there was script to follow, at least for now that could help get structure for how a good DayGame set should go.
And/or - if there is some really good “Infield Video” from Open to “meet up” close that I could match and apply right now!
One person said to look up “The Mystery Method,” but when I google that, the results are something like “Mystery House Theatre,” or “The Crystal Method…” I think google blocks out anything involving PUA.
Here are some examples of where I’m hitting a wall.
A scenario from this afternoon at Whole Foods.
And, from last Saturday night, doing a little bit of Night Game.
Mind you - I’m approaching very high caliber females!
Folks on this site say you need to handle them a bit different than regular girls. Another person who suggested the “Mystery Method,” said he doesn’t treat them any different…
The girl at Whole Foods was 6 ft tall (I’m 6’1) and obviously an “al natural” model (meaning no plastic surgery). I didn’t say anything about she being a model, although she must be good one based on the wealthy lifestyle she hinted in our conversation.
I opened her in the checkout with - “Excuse me, but I totally have to tell you how you remind me so much of this Lithuanian girl who I dated for like 2 months, but it ended about a month ago when she had to go back to Norway, even though she’s Lithuanian…
The Model replied “Oh, so all those romantic feeling about her must have to come to mind when you saw me?”
And I was like - “Kinda, yeah…
And then I tripped on what the next line should’ve been after that, and just started winging whatever conversation I keep going until we were “cock-blocked” by the checkout clerk who opened a new register for her. She said “Nice talking to ya.” “I threw a “hail-mary-pass” - “Hey we should continue this sometime. “ She was like - “NO. This was just a grocery - ?something?” She had a phrase for it, but it meant getting hit on at the grocery store….
I walked out of the store, and was like a Batter who just got struck out for the 5th time, slamming his bat into the sand saying - FUCK - Fucking Struck out again - “what am I Fucking Doing wrong…”
Again, I’m not going to write a transcript, so it might be hard to diagnose, but somehow we got into if she was a Dog or a Cat personality. She said she was more of a cat, because they are independent, don’t need validation like a dog, and they are curious. I asked if she was an adventurer. She said yes, and in fact she just came from a test drive for some brand new Range Rover sport - cuz she’s getting board with her (fancy sports) convertible BMW. Then I tried to insert a push pull by saying “we wouldn’t get along” since I’m a domestic car guy, and she likes foreign. I commented how growing up, and even now, my Father had is Camero, and Corvette he raced, and I have my mustang. Then I tried to jump onto the adventure thing by telling her a story about a Chris Pratt movie I recently worked on in which I connected with one of the head Stunt Driver guys, who’s Australian and does Stunt Driving Courses. She came back with - “Ohh, I’m going to be doing the Porsche Racing school soon…”
Do you know that, that Porsche Racing school runs somewhere between $3 - 5GRAND!
I had an older friend who was looking into it…
Anyway, that was when the checker cockblocked us.
As for the girl on Saturday, again not a book but:
My buddy’s DJ crew was spinning Funk and Soul at this club and The main DJ told me later - “Man, she was the hottest girl at the club!”
She walked by me at the bar on her way to the patio and gave me a look.
I had to approach especially since she was alone out there. After opening her:
I asked her what she was about - she replied “I’m about nothing…”
A little later I tried to qualify her by asking - So is there anything interesting I should know about you? She replied - “Nope. There’s nothing interesting about me. In Fact I’m invisible…”
It was like a Quarterback Sack.
I asked her about her accent and she finished the interaction by saying - “Actually I’m here for me-time, so I’m going back to the dancefloor, nice to meet you…”
So to recap!
How do you Hook a Girl?
Is there a quality script to follow from opener to meet-up value proposition I could follow.
Are there any good Infield Videos to watch an interaction from Opener to meet-up request?
Where can I find this “Mystery Method” to “edjucate” myself?
Any constructive criticism appreciated...
(Please no - you suck, you're lame, etc.. since that doesn't help create any solution, it kinda wastes time instead - thanks)
Soooo, I am looking for a Lover for the 4th of July, and I’m hitting the pavement hard both in Daygame and a little Nightgame to find her. But…
I am really having trouble Hooking a Girl and understanding the successful conversation part after I open through to a “value proposition” which would give a reason as to why she and I should continue the conversation via a “Meet-Up.”
My openers are good, and I get good reactions to continue, but then I trip over - the next line, or transition line. Almost brain farting as to what to say next. My fundamentals are pretty good because I get complimented on my dress, looks, and speak well - I've done sales before, so I know how to talk.
When I “trip here” that’s when I fall into the boring typical, what I call interview questions. Or I stumble into generic - “so what do you do?” Fuckin’ boring conversation…
I’ve read many of the articles on the site, for how to hook, how to be a conversationalist, etcetera… And it’s just not clicking.
I wish there was script to follow, at least for now that could help get structure for how a good DayGame set should go.
And/or - if there is some really good “Infield Video” from Open to “meet up” close that I could match and apply right now!
One person said to look up “The Mystery Method,” but when I google that, the results are something like “Mystery House Theatre,” or “The Crystal Method…” I think google blocks out anything involving PUA.
Here are some examples of where I’m hitting a wall.
A scenario from this afternoon at Whole Foods.
And, from last Saturday night, doing a little bit of Night Game.
Mind you - I’m approaching very high caliber females!
Folks on this site say you need to handle them a bit different than regular girls. Another person who suggested the “Mystery Method,” said he doesn’t treat them any different…
The girl at Whole Foods was 6 ft tall (I’m 6’1) and obviously an “al natural” model (meaning no plastic surgery). I didn’t say anything about she being a model, although she must be good one based on the wealthy lifestyle she hinted in our conversation.
I opened her in the checkout with - “Excuse me, but I totally have to tell you how you remind me so much of this Lithuanian girl who I dated for like 2 months, but it ended about a month ago when she had to go back to Norway, even though she’s Lithuanian…
The Model replied “Oh, so all those romantic feeling about her must have to come to mind when you saw me?”
And I was like - “Kinda, yeah…
And then I tripped on what the next line should’ve been after that, and just started winging whatever conversation I keep going until we were “cock-blocked” by the checkout clerk who opened a new register for her. She said “Nice talking to ya.” “I threw a “hail-mary-pass” - “Hey we should continue this sometime. “ She was like - “NO. This was just a grocery - ?something?” She had a phrase for it, but it meant getting hit on at the grocery store….
I walked out of the store, and was like a Batter who just got struck out for the 5th time, slamming his bat into the sand saying - FUCK - Fucking Struck out again - “what am I Fucking Doing wrong…”
Again, I’m not going to write a transcript, so it might be hard to diagnose, but somehow we got into if she was a Dog or a Cat personality. She said she was more of a cat, because they are independent, don’t need validation like a dog, and they are curious. I asked if she was an adventurer. She said yes, and in fact she just came from a test drive for some brand new Range Rover sport - cuz she’s getting board with her (fancy sports) convertible BMW. Then I tried to insert a push pull by saying “we wouldn’t get along” since I’m a domestic car guy, and she likes foreign. I commented how growing up, and even now, my Father had is Camero, and Corvette he raced, and I have my mustang. Then I tried to jump onto the adventure thing by telling her a story about a Chris Pratt movie I recently worked on in which I connected with one of the head Stunt Driver guys, who’s Australian and does Stunt Driving Courses. She came back with - “Ohh, I’m going to be doing the Porsche Racing school soon…”
Do you know that, that Porsche Racing school runs somewhere between $3 - 5GRAND!
I had an older friend who was looking into it…
Anyway, that was when the checker cockblocked us.
As for the girl on Saturday, again not a book but:
My buddy’s DJ crew was spinning Funk and Soul at this club and The main DJ told me later - “Man, she was the hottest girl at the club!”
She walked by me at the bar on her way to the patio and gave me a look.
I had to approach especially since she was alone out there. After opening her:
I asked her what she was about - she replied “I’m about nothing…”
A little later I tried to qualify her by asking - So is there anything interesting I should know about you? She replied - “Nope. There’s nothing interesting about me. In Fact I’m invisible…”
It was like a Quarterback Sack.
I asked her about her accent and she finished the interaction by saying - “Actually I’m here for me-time, so I’m going back to the dancefloor, nice to meet you…”
So to recap!
How do you Hook a Girl?
Is there a quality script to follow from opener to meet-up value proposition I could follow.
Are there any good Infield Videos to watch an interaction from Opener to meet-up request?
Where can I find this “Mystery Method” to “edjucate” myself?
Any constructive criticism appreciated...
(Please no - you suck, you're lame, etc.. since that doesn't help create any solution, it kinda wastes time instead - thanks)
