How to Reengage with a Girl Who Got Socially Stigmatized for Flirting with Me for Being "Too Old"?

[Noitard]

Is there a specific way to do it? Should I tease her somewhere to the effect of, "You shouldn't let others dictate what you think of me," of something such as that?

Beyond that, I've been doing a lot of talking to strangers in general, but it also has a tendency to fall flat, and I have a tendency to quickly eject. I need to make my conversations consistently more interesting; what to do about it?

 

[Chase]

@Noitard,

Was this the one where your mother cockblocked you?

Unless you're getting strong indications from the girl, it's likely done. Letting someone else make things awkward and you not fixing the vibe then and there is usually going to be the death sentence for attraction. If you're in a small town and the girl doesn't have many other options though, or if you're in some circle where you run into each other a lot and she starts shooting you more signals, maybe you can still work it out.

Personally I'd just re-open her with something casual and make like it never happened. Only way I'd address it is if the brought it up or there was an awkwardness there that wasn't there before, in which case you just do the ol' "Sorry about my Mom last time, she's pretty traditional, but she means well" then put it to bed.

Aside from that...

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Chase