How to spend time with girls you date?

[AramisDaygm]

Hi, what do you usually do on dates with girls you are seeing regularly and not only for sex? I mean on second, third etc. date.

How it changes with time as relationship progresses, for example first dates are more outside, then is it mostly at your place watching movies or something?

 

[AramisDaygm]

Anyone go on dates?

 

[KJ Francis]

I follow the Chase strategy to delay a long time so you can set low expectations and slowly give progression rather than setting a high early bar.

So for a long as possible I just have her come over. "Dates" are her cooking in my kitchen for us and usually getting fucked at the sink, etc.

Next step is taking her on errands with me, starting with groceries. Some girls reach cooking stage but not leave the house stage. The pure fuck buddies I don't have cook. So the time spent is sex only, not dinner conversation.

Next phase is little day trips, like out to the countryside waterfront, picnic, small town diner, etc.

I have never progressed things with a girl to going out to eat at a proper restaurant. Typically if she is pushing me to meet her friends I withdraw the investment and the relationship will end.

So I am not the person to ask.

But I would highly suggest starting as a lover and slowly make her earn it over a couple months before taking her out.

 

[Skills]

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[KJ Francis]

Oh and I'm talking post lay

I assumed you meant someone you are already having sex with

Otherwise "what would Skills do" is always a good step 1