Calls & Texts how to text a girl away to another country for extended period (2 MONTHS) due to citizenship issues?

[greenjade816]

hi all,

i met a girl through a close friend of mine who is also close friend with said girl. we hit it off, and i could tell the interest was there. i tried asking her out before she left the country but she was too busy to meet and promised the drink is on her when she's available.

now how do i text her during the next 2 months? it's quite honestly a long time and she hasn't really responsed to my last messages... when she's back she's gonna be joining me and my friends for a boat party which im sorta hosting... but with her slow respond times im honestly not looking forward to the party as much...

i am talking to other girls as well, but was just wondering if i should jsut stop texting her altogether for the next 2 months?

thanks guys

 

[Chad Tyrone]

Sure could drop off her radar and maybe check in on her in between.You don't have to back and forth till she's back .I mean it's not like you will be "on top of her list" just cause u were pinging her most of the time.

You lose your scarcity that way .So yeah drop off and check in later .If she hasn't been responding to your texts lately ,don't keep sending even more of them instead switch to calls, video messages or audio... whatever floats ur boat.

If those don't work maybe try the resurrection text or run into her by chance .

Wish you luck,
Chad Tyrone

 

[Gladiator]

hi all,

i met a girl through a close friend of mine who is also close friend with said girl.

So, this is basically a social circle chic. Why do you want to keep her warm when you can meet her if she's in touch with your friend?

when she's back she's gonna be joining me and my friends for a boat party which im sorta hosting...

You're investing a loooot more than her already without even having fucked her. She should be the one chasing you, at least for being invited for the boat party. 2 months is a long time to keep her warm and she'll get all the free attention during that time.

This is what I would do:
1. Go Radio silent
2. If possible, somehow let her know through her friend that I'm going ahead with the boat party with or without her
3. If she gets in touch with me:
a. I won't flirt. Talk like I'm talking to a friend.
b. Make it sound like I'm having the party
with or without her but also let her know
that I'll be really happy if she makes it.
4. When she meets me, I'll start flirting as usual and go from there.

 

[Zoro]

I met an amazing girl the night before I left for a 2 month trip. We hooked up that night so that might have helped the situation.

I really wanted to see her again, so I thought, “what would an attractive man do in this in this situation? Would he fret over this texting business, or would he be too busy on his adventure to even bother texting at all?”

I texted her a little bit the first couple days, then not at all until about 10 days before coming home to let her know I’d love to see her again and that I’d be back soon.

When I got home, I set up a date (come to my place) and we got together. Dated her for about 6 months.

The key? Be busy in your own life, don’t pine after any girl, especially not one who’s currently unable to meet with you.

 

[Skills]

hi all,

i met a girl through a close friend of mine who is also close friend with said girl. we hit it off, and i could tell the interest was there. i tried asking her out before she left the country but she was too busy to meet and promised the drink is on her when she's available.

now how do i text her during the next 2 months? it's quite honestly a long time and she hasn't really responsed to my last messages... when she's back she's gonna be joining me and my friends for a boat party which im sorta hosting... but with her slow respond times im honestly not looking forward to the party as much...

i am talking to other girls as well, but was just wondering if i should jsut stop texting her altogether for the next 2 months?

thanks guys

the problem here is she is very low interest, no much to do with being away for 2 months... You probably asked her out with a hard close, she rejected, which is negative compliance.... You texted her multiple times (word "messages" and she did not responded....

it seems momentum gone, she is out of town, she rejected your last invitation, she has not responded to your messages.... If she is away or in town this is bad, you are in chase/recovery mode....

https://www.skilledseducer.com/threads/how-to-deal-with-radio-silence-and-flakiness.24703/