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Hey guys,
Came across this situation awhile back. Still unsure what was the best way to handle it. Appreciate feedback.
Matched with a girl on Hinge and found out we go to the same studio but she stopped going before I joined. We make plans to bump into each other at an event by the studio a couple weeks later because she's still traveling.
Fast forward 3 weeks later. I'm already there enjoying the event. She walks in with another girl. I can't believe myself. It's this hot girl that I've been eyeing for a way to open for sometime now but she always runs off before I can catch her. Apparently they've known each other for more than a year now and they're something like BFFs.
I invite both to grab a bite post event. Conversation goes ok, sometimes feels like an interrogation because of the tag team. I think I handled the shit testing pretty well but struggled with fielding questions between two people. I can't isolate either of them because we're sitting at the same table. I also don't want to focus on her friend because I'm afraid of triggering some girl code moment?
Anyway, during the interaction it comes up that her friend lives 5 mins from me. I seize the opportunity to create the excuse to drop Hinge girl off first.
Fast forward to alone time with the star. I jump straight into the important questions. Lots of things in common. She's investing in the conversation. Seeded some potential future date ideas. But I'm driving so I can't do the usual stuff with eye contact and casual touching. I want to just pull over somewhere and do a face to face but it's 2am, I'm super tired and she probably is as well. I'm also worried that she'll bail because she doesn't want to steal her friend's date. I know I need to find some reason to ask her out alone another day but I definitely dropped the ball because I missed multiple excuses to get her number. I blame the hour of the night.
Needless to say I spent the night sitting in bed alone hating myself. I'll definitely see her again soon so I'd love some pointers now so that I don't fuck it up again.
Came across this situation awhile back. Still unsure what was the best way to handle it. Appreciate feedback.
Matched with a girl on Hinge and found out we go to the same studio but she stopped going before I joined. We make plans to bump into each other at an event by the studio a couple weeks later because she's still traveling.
Fast forward 3 weeks later. I'm already there enjoying the event. She walks in with another girl. I can't believe myself. It's this hot girl that I've been eyeing for a way to open for sometime now but she always runs off before I can catch her. Apparently they've known each other for more than a year now and they're something like BFFs.
I invite both to grab a bite post event. Conversation goes ok, sometimes feels like an interrogation because of the tag team. I think I handled the shit testing pretty well but struggled with fielding questions between two people. I can't isolate either of them because we're sitting at the same table. I also don't want to focus on her friend because I'm afraid of triggering some girl code moment?
Anyway, during the interaction it comes up that her friend lives 5 mins from me. I seize the opportunity to create the excuse to drop Hinge girl off first.
Fast forward to alone time with the star. I jump straight into the important questions. Lots of things in common. She's investing in the conversation. Seeded some potential future date ideas. But I'm driving so I can't do the usual stuff with eye contact and casual touching. I want to just pull over somewhere and do a face to face but it's 2am, I'm super tired and she probably is as well. I'm also worried that she'll bail because she doesn't want to steal her friend's date. I know I need to find some reason to ask her out alone another day but I definitely dropped the ball because I missed multiple excuses to get her number. I blame the hour of the night.
Needless to say I spent the night sitting in bed alone hating myself. I'll definitely see her again soon so I'd love some pointers now so that I don't fuck it up again.