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Humble over Narcissism anytime.

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Cro-Magnon Man
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Hi Guys,

I like to write a short post. Humbleness over Narcissism. Genuine over Jerk.

Famous example: Messi vs Ronaldo.

One inspires, the other puts himself first

Real-life experience: I have personally beat a jerk with less effort. So yea, bring others up.

Zac
 

Rage

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Peoples champ vs. the phallic narcissist, who seems to be in it for himself and dthe money yand the things he gets on the other end. A recent example that looked kind of like this was Mayweather v. Pacquiao.

However, it is important I think to note too that the world isnt black and white, and while media and the people trying to sell tickets and boost publiicty would have you think and believe that these guys hate each other and are so much one end or the other (they are polar eith erthe good guy or the bad guy), there are shades of gray and the bad guys have other good in them and good guys have other bad in them. Everyone is on a spectrum kinda and even the people really trying in the public eye to act like one solid consistent dogmatic way have other shades to them. They're human and have sides of themselves that they downplay, or dont show, or try not to have come up with the feelings and emotions that they involve (but regardless they are there adn wiill come up some way or another, whether they let them or not and whether they show that publicly or not).

People are complex and as much as each of us would want to split poeple up that quickly and like one and hate the other, there are always in fact more to each individual person. And in that way, even serial killers on one end of spectrum and say monks on another end of spectrum both have their own virtues and vices. And can deviate too; someties do good things sometimes do bad.

We are all human and the mix of parts makes us that, and only that :)

Rage
 
you miss 100% of the shots you don't take

trashKENNUT

Cro-Magnon Man
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Rage,

Quickie. lolx. I have Seen enough examples. Here's here.

1)Soccer in middle school. All my friends are ego. Attack no defense. Lose, badly

2)Soccer outside of school. Team is great. One person not happy, change formation. Never the same. This can also be expectation setting.

3)Messi vs Ronaldo. Messi will always be better. Others are delusional if you say otherwise.

4)RSD Tyler noted on PUA companies split apart because of narcissism.

5)Chase noted on narcissism and how it destroys success

6)Jerks narcissism and how it kills your friends in public

7)Parent narcissism hinder child's development

and many more. Narcissism is good but you can only go so far.

Zac
 

Rage

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Oh I see what you're saying haha yes that is out there.

See it a lot with higher testosterone and more aggressive guys who are butting heads. I'd be guilty here at times though too; while naturally will ovserve others, I'll try to make sure I look at myself periodically too and ask friends of mine about myself who'll be honest so that I don't fall blind to my own lackings at times

Rage
 

trashKENNUT

Cro-Magnon Man
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Rage,

Butting heads, yes. I am so pissed that my soccer team failed because of ego. We were playing so well that many people praise us. One ego from an influential guy and everything's gone just like that.

Pathetic but it is what it is.

Zac
 
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