Socializing I am a Secret society member. Why don’t women want me?

[TrailBlazer]

I don’t judge anyone for having sex, I’m open to new crazy experiences, and I like to talk about sex. That is supposed to make me a very rare man and a secret society member.

However somehow women don’t pick up on this and I don’t have any sex.

Where is the problem?

For those of you who don’t know, here is what the Secret Society is (from RSDTyler) :

WHAT IS THE SECRET SOCIETY?


Women are repressed by men, and so must look out for themselves. They will take care of:

1. ⁠Their own sexual needs.
2. ⁠The sexual needs of anyone in the secret society.
3. ⁠The sexual needs of the few males who make the secret society possible ("players").


The secret society is what allows women to appear wholesome and allows them to screen for a long term provider/emotionaltampon.

Women hold off to find the perfect boyfriend, while sleeping with a guy who is likely sleeping with all of their friends, and their friends friends.

They also fuck their gay boyfriends or jerk them off or give them head. They're part of the secret society too, so they can't be left out.

SOME RULES OF THE SECRET SOCIETY:
1. ⁠Don't talk about the secret society.
2. ⁠The priority of the secret society is to have perpetually good emotions in all members.
3. ⁠Create shrowds around the secret society, like "all men are dogs". Hide the truth that women are far more likely to cheat than men.
4. ⁠If you are part of the secret society, you will never be denied anything at any point.
5. ⁠If you are not part of the secret society, you will scrap and beg for everything you get.
6. ⁠Communication in the secret society is less often verbal, and more often spoken through bodylanguage subcommunications, and verbal subcommunications that would only make sense to members. Any other way, and the 48% of men would pick up on it, and it would no longer be a secret.
7. ⁠At the first sign that someone who is not part of the secret society is possibly trying to pretend that he is, barate him with both love-rhetoric, and accusations of chauvanism and nit-witted-ness.

It's OK to cheat on someone who is not a part of the secret society, so long as it is for the purpose of fulfilling the needs of someone who is, or if it to fulfill your own needs and it is with someone who is a part of the secret society. Sleeping with a rare guy from the secret society is no worse than grinding with a girlfriend at a club and making out with her. "It doesn't count".

9) Nobody judges eachother in the secret society. There is no such thing as a slut. A slut is only as slutty as people who are NOT in the secret society are aware of.

10) Secret society members COME FIRST. If someone in the society is not having fun with an interaction, it is cut off. Conversely, if a secret society male is with a non-secret-society male, and a secret society female (all females) decides she wants sex from the secret society male, the friend of the female may have sex with the non-secret-society male, because EVERYONE in the interaction must feel good. However, if the non-secret-society male is blowing himself out so badly that he makes the female member feel very bad emotions, then the secret-society-male must face the consequences of bringing negative emotions into the equation, and lose out on his privilege for sex in that interaction, until he ditches the non-secret-society male. Bear minimum requirements for non-secret-society males being grandfathered in with the male member, is that he not qualify himself or make anyone feel uncomfortable. Failing to meet those requirements, both are blown out.

 

[StrayDog]

what moves are you making on women?

how many women are you approaching each day and striking up a conversation with them?

what sort of new tech are you trying each time you approach?

how many women are you attempting to number close?

what is your texting strategy to get them on dates?

how are you structuring your dates?

what is your strategy for pulling?

how often are you pulling?

what is your strategy for escalating?

how often are you escalating?

how do you manage objections?

what sort of objections are you getting?

start answering some of these questions and maybe you will have an improvement plan that is actually workable instead of living in a world of abstractions.

if there is a bottleneck at any of these points along the way you start from position 1 and go through the process again.

approach-hook-number/date close-text to set up date-run date structure-pull-escalte

wash rinse and repeat

 

[StrayDog]

p.s post clear field reports of the steps you are taking and maybe some of the guys here can offer actionable insights. otherwise it's all kind of abstract and masturbatory.

you want to be "secret society"? become a man of action who speaks from experience. Even if that experience is at first limited. This is how every man who is "secret society" has found himself there

 

[OldGuy]

This "secret society" does not exist! The one that we talk about on the forum is no secret, just requires new learning. Read the threads and Chase's articles. (There are some other sources, but you are here already.)

 

[Will_V]

Where is the problem?

You are not presenting yourself as a sexually attractive guy.

It's not enough to be 'on women's side'. She also has to want your dick.

I’m open to new crazy experiences

I'm not entirely sure you are, or you'd be banging these women instead of talking about them.

 

[topcat]

However somehow women don’t pick up on this and I don’t have any sex.

lol then you ain’t a member…

members have sex, understand sex first hand and have opinions of sex borne of having lots of sex.

what makes you qualify?

 

[StrayDog]

I think about golf everyday, I'm supportive of people who golf, I even bought a golf club and everything. how come I'm not a member of the PGA already?

 

[StrayDog]

I think about golf everyday, I'm supportive of people who golf, I even bought a golf club and everything. how come I'm not a member of the PGA already?

mean while, Tigers Woods be like

 

[Chase]

lol then you ain’t a member…

members have sex, understand sex first hand and have opinions of sex borne of having lots of sex.

what makes you qualify?

If you have to ask:

"I am a member of this club. Why won't the club let me in?"

... then you are not a member of the club.

I don’t judge anyone for having sex, I’m open to new crazy experiences, and I like to talk about sex. That is supposed to make me a very rare man and a secret society member.

Every needy, thirsty guy does this. "Hey, hey -- I don't judge, I don't judge. It's all good. Let's talk about sex. Are you getting horny yet?"

That is not "secret society." That is "thirsty dude who is trying to say what he thinks she wants to hear."

 

[Atlas IV]

SOME RULES OF THE SECRET SOCIETY:
1. ⁠Don't talk about the secret society.
2. ⁠The priority of the secret society is to have perpetually good emotions in all members.
3. ⁠Create shrowds around the secret society, like "all men are dogs". Hide the truth that women are far more likely to cheat than men.
4. ⁠If you are part of the secret society, you will never be denied anything at any point.
5. ⁠If you are not part of the secret society, you will scrap and beg for everything you get.
6. ⁠Communication in the secret society is less often verbal, and more often spoken through bodylanguage subcommunications, and verbal subcommunications that would only make sense to members. Any other way, and the 48% of men would pick up on it, and it would no longer be a secret.
7. ⁠At the first sign that someone who is not part of the secret society is possibly trying to pretend that he is, barate him with both love-rhetoric, and accusations of chauvanism and nit-witted-ness.

This is fascinating. I wonder who came up with it or what fictional work it was drawn from? Certainly doesn't sound like something based in any reality I know of.

But I guess it's a good way to sell courses to sexually frustrated guys who are already sold on the "red pill" worldview.

 

[Skills]

This is fascinating. I wonder who came up with it or what fictional work it was drawn from? Certainly doesn't sound like something based in any reality I know of.

But I guess it's a good way to sell courses to sexually frustrated guys who are already sold on the "red pill" worldview.

wrong is actually correct, is not to sell courses, is an old school way to address Madonna whore, is not really applicable to gen z, it was more a gen x stuff, that was teevester favorite article (teevester introduce me to the article) and came out with his own 2.0 adaptation...... it is satirical in nature... when teevester was promoting it, he was not even part of chase, had no commercial interest... when i was promoting it was not sell courses either, you don't get it... Just like op does not get it....

teevester adaptation:

 

[James D]

You have to get laid first then we can talk about membership.