It totally sucks? That's pretty extreme, don't you think?
If sex with anyone totally sucks, you may want to rethink what you're doing altogether.
I'm not that familiar with this term but I did look it up and see
@Chase's article on it. I'm not sure if that really applies in this case since I haven't mentioned anything about women who aren't virgins not being valuable... but I'm guessing you're implying that I have this complex?
I've been in relationships with a lot of different types of women... earlier in my life, I didn't care as much about her character and personality and basically fucked anything I was attracted to and tried to get a "prize" of the hottest girls I could find.
I left the community (one of the reasons) because I kept ending up with really fucked up women... I'm guessing a large part of that had to do with me, my mindset, her, and her background.
When I got into college was when I started finding virgins, completely by accident.
And while I definitely don't think that just because a girl is a virgin that she's somehow better than other girls... I do think there's a strong correlation between the number of sexual partners a girl has and the likelihood that she's fucked in the head and someone you wouldn't want to be in a relationship with.
My guess is that if a woman values her body and sex very lowly or she uses sex as a way to quell her pain or whatever... basically, if she has a really high sex partner count, there's probably a lot of fucked up things going on in her head... she's also probably a lot more likely to cheat and not worry about it. And she's probably not someone you want to be in a relationship with, with very few exceptions.
I don't know that for a fact but I have seen some studies that support it and my experience would dictate this to be true as well.
If she's had a low number of sexual partners, she's more likely to value the sexual act more highly, she's more likely to have a healthy pair bonding mechanism in her brain, and she's less likely to have a bunch of crazy trauma from past experiences with men.
Obviously, that's not always true... she could have been raped as a child or her virginity could have been lost from rape (I had a gf back in the day where this was the case) and have a lot of fucked up trauma from that... or it could be from a variety of other problems, since our society is a total fucking shit show these days.
Are virgins a madonna? I don't think so... are they more likely to be healthy mentally? I'd say less sexual partners is a good indication that she's less fucked in the head... but it's just one of many different indications that you should probably look at, if you care about being in relationships.
Have you experienced something different or have you not really thought about it?