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Rode solo to a new bar. Had a $15 gift card to this place, was gonna go to either this place or some other dive bar where I knew the bartender who is hot but I stay away from bartenders cuz they can just be friendly for the tip. I walk in and immediately see a woman who I recognize from the complex where I work. Maybe she saw me maybe she didn't, I aloofly go to the bar and get to ordering. My back is to her, she's at a table with two other women. I turn around every once in a while and because there was TVs everywhere I was watching a little bit of everything and it looked like I was just enjoying myself and not necessarily catching a peek at her table every once in a while which was exactly what I was doing. After drinking 4 or so beers I turn around once again and this time we catch each other looking at each other and she says "hey don't you work at XXX location?".
Flame on.
I walk over and it begins. I approach from the opposite end of the table from her so that she was furthest from me. I engage all three girls by myself and really there's no better way to harden yourself and feel like a warrior than to talk to 3 girls by yourself. You have to have charm and a personality to keep all 3 engaged. It doesn't hurt to look good. Let's continue. Despite talking to all three it becomes very apparent which one I'm focusing on - the woman who recognized me from my work bldg. I always thought she didn't like me but dammit her titties were big. She herself was about a 6ish but the titties bumped her to like a 6.8.
Fast forward about 1 hour. She says she's going to go outside for a cigarette. I don't smoke. Quite the conundrum it would appear.
Sidebar: What I've learned from GC...this is an escalation window. She was looking to be isolated from her friends. I wouldn't have picked up on this had I not been for GC.
So I go outside with her. The only place to smoke is beside the entrance which for some reason is in the back where the parking lot also is.
She's smoking a cigarette. We're chatting. It's cold. We live in NY and it's chilly and the blizzard is not too far away. Heavy eye contact on my part. I'm waiting for a good opportunity but none seems to be there. She's finished with her cigarette and starts to motion for us to go in and I decide I didn't read GC all this time to not capitalize on everything I've learned. I pull her in by the waist and go for the kiss. She puts up a resistance. "You're married...I can't."
Sidebar: What I learned from GC...Don't use logic on a girl which only engages their rational brain. Girls like mystery in a guy so use path of least effort and keep them guessing by not saying more than is needed. Less words is always best. And the big lesson - even if she says no if she isn't leaving then it's a shit test to see how strong your frame is.
I nod my head in agreement and give a sexy smile. "Um-hmmm."
"Um-hmmm...? That's all you have to say?"
Funny thing is she's saying this and isn't trying to get out of my arms and I'm not even holding her that strong so if she wanted to leave she easily could.
"If you want to go inside then go", I say in a sexy deep voice.
"I will", she says with a smile she's trying to conceal.
"Then go," as my arms tighten around her. I go for the kiss again and this time we make out. Ppl are passing us to get inside. "Aren't you embarrassed to have all these ppl seeing us ?" she asks. I look her in the eyes and kiss her harder and grab her ass in both hands and let ppl watch. I'm an exhibitionist so I get more turned on by being watched anyway.
She says nothing can happen cuz I'm married. "If I didn't know you were married it'd be a different story. You look so good but I just can't." She says for us to rejoin her friends cuz they were celebrating her friend's birthday and she didn't want to be rude.
We rejoin and I act totally and completely cool and chill and sit next to her.
Sidebar: What I learned from GC...when rejected don't take it personal. Take it in stride and be chill about it.
"You're being really cool about outside, you're not acting weird or anything", she says quietly to me.
I tell her about how we got to make out so it wasn't a total loss.
"You think that was making out?", she says with a sexy look, "i can make it much hotter than that, we were outside...in front of ppl".
Still in the game.
Eventually we go out for a second time and make out more, this time more passionately. Lots of fun. I get more hands on. No resistance from her at all the second time. I mention for us to go to her car to listen to music (I don't drink and drive anymore so I didn't have my car). She says "it's not going to happen. We're not going to have sex".
"Um-hmmm".
"There goes that 'Um-hmmm' again!"
We go inside, that's when we deep dive a lot. She's very non-judgmental about my relationship and why I'm looking for sexual attention outside of it. Anyway, outside again for one last cigarette and before its time to say goodbye.
Outside we're back to making out again. "Let's go to your car", I say. "We're not going to have sex, you're married", she passively says back. She can't even look me in the eyes to say this because she's unsure of it.
Sidebar: What I learned from GC...just lead. Always be leading. They'll follow."
"We're going to your car", I tell her and I put my hand on the small of her back and we walk to her car.
Long story short we didn't wind up having sex. I got as far as my shirt off and her bra off her sexy fucking titties. In the backseat. Every time she gave me resistance from trying to rub between her legs she's move my hand out of the way so I'd go touch something else. Rinse and repeat. At every resistence I would make out with her passionately to shut her up. Everytime she would mention my being married i would go back to kissing her. She kept saying she was going to lose control so I took that as an invitation to keep going but she just couldn't get past it. I then pause and say "listen if you don't want to do it then I'll stop. I don't want to stop. I want you so bad right now (I really forgot to use the phrase someone made famous here, "I want you to come so hard on my dick", such a hot line but hey you have to be in the moment and can't remember everything you read), I want to fuck but if I keep going and if you don't really want to do it then something awkward might happen (i.e., possible rape cuz in the end no means no, boys) and I'd rather we remember tonite as a fun nite." She agreed and we made out some more and then put our shirts on. I call an Uber and tell her I'd hang with her till it arrived. We fluff talk.
I texted her next day jokingly commending her for her willpower and tell her I'll see her around. Next time I text her will be whenever I'm riding solo again and want some company. Maybe in a week or two. I will make sure things go as I want next time. Gonna get that car sex next time.
Anyway I did this more to show that GC and Chase have a wealth of information *that works*. This isn't theory, boys, it works. Read reports and articles, keep doing it till it becomes second nature. Good luck to you.
Flame on.
I walk over and it begins. I approach from the opposite end of the table from her so that she was furthest from me. I engage all three girls by myself and really there's no better way to harden yourself and feel like a warrior than to talk to 3 girls by yourself. You have to have charm and a personality to keep all 3 engaged. It doesn't hurt to look good. Let's continue. Despite talking to all three it becomes very apparent which one I'm focusing on - the woman who recognized me from my work bldg. I always thought she didn't like me but dammit her titties were big. She herself was about a 6ish but the titties bumped her to like a 6.8.
Fast forward about 1 hour. She says she's going to go outside for a cigarette. I don't smoke. Quite the conundrum it would appear.
Sidebar: What I've learned from GC...this is an escalation window. She was looking to be isolated from her friends. I wouldn't have picked up on this had I not been for GC.
So I go outside with her. The only place to smoke is beside the entrance which for some reason is in the back where the parking lot also is.
She's smoking a cigarette. We're chatting. It's cold. We live in NY and it's chilly and the blizzard is not too far away. Heavy eye contact on my part. I'm waiting for a good opportunity but none seems to be there. She's finished with her cigarette and starts to motion for us to go in and I decide I didn't read GC all this time to not capitalize on everything I've learned. I pull her in by the waist and go for the kiss. She puts up a resistance. "You're married...I can't."
Sidebar: What I learned from GC...Don't use logic on a girl which only engages their rational brain. Girls like mystery in a guy so use path of least effort and keep them guessing by not saying more than is needed. Less words is always best. And the big lesson - even if she says no if she isn't leaving then it's a shit test to see how strong your frame is.
I nod my head in agreement and give a sexy smile. "Um-hmmm."
"Um-hmmm...? That's all you have to say?"
Funny thing is she's saying this and isn't trying to get out of my arms and I'm not even holding her that strong so if she wanted to leave she easily could.
"If you want to go inside then go", I say in a sexy deep voice.
"I will", she says with a smile she's trying to conceal.
"Then go," as my arms tighten around her. I go for the kiss again and this time we make out. Ppl are passing us to get inside. "Aren't you embarrassed to have all these ppl seeing us ?" she asks. I look her in the eyes and kiss her harder and grab her ass in both hands and let ppl watch. I'm an exhibitionist so I get more turned on by being watched anyway.
She says nothing can happen cuz I'm married. "If I didn't know you were married it'd be a different story. You look so good but I just can't." She says for us to rejoin her friends cuz they were celebrating her friend's birthday and she didn't want to be rude.
We rejoin and I act totally and completely cool and chill and sit next to her.
Sidebar: What I learned from GC...when rejected don't take it personal. Take it in stride and be chill about it.
"You're being really cool about outside, you're not acting weird or anything", she says quietly to me.
I tell her about how we got to make out so it wasn't a total loss.
"You think that was making out?", she says with a sexy look, "i can make it much hotter than that, we were outside...in front of ppl".
Still in the game.
Eventually we go out for a second time and make out more, this time more passionately. Lots of fun. I get more hands on. No resistance from her at all the second time. I mention for us to go to her car to listen to music (I don't drink and drive anymore so I didn't have my car). She says "it's not going to happen. We're not going to have sex".
"Um-hmmm".
"There goes that 'Um-hmmm' again!"
We go inside, that's when we deep dive a lot. She's very non-judgmental about my relationship and why I'm looking for sexual attention outside of it. Anyway, outside again for one last cigarette and before its time to say goodbye.
Outside we're back to making out again. "Let's go to your car", I say. "We're not going to have sex, you're married", she passively says back. She can't even look me in the eyes to say this because she's unsure of it.
Sidebar: What I learned from GC...just lead. Always be leading. They'll follow."
"We're going to your car", I tell her and I put my hand on the small of her back and we walk to her car.
Long story short we didn't wind up having sex. I got as far as my shirt off and her bra off her sexy fucking titties. In the backseat. Every time she gave me resistance from trying to rub between her legs she's move my hand out of the way so I'd go touch something else. Rinse and repeat. At every resistence I would make out with her passionately to shut her up. Everytime she would mention my being married i would go back to kissing her. She kept saying she was going to lose control so I took that as an invitation to keep going but she just couldn't get past it. I then pause and say "listen if you don't want to do it then I'll stop. I don't want to stop. I want you so bad right now (I really forgot to use the phrase someone made famous here, "I want you to come so hard on my dick", such a hot line but hey you have to be in the moment and can't remember everything you read), I want to fuck but if I keep going and if you don't really want to do it then something awkward might happen (i.e., possible rape cuz in the end no means no, boys) and I'd rather we remember tonite as a fun nite." She agreed and we made out some more and then put our shirts on. I call an Uber and tell her I'd hang with her till it arrived. We fluff talk.
I texted her next day jokingly commending her for her willpower and tell her I'll see her around. Next time I text her will be whenever I'm riding solo again and want some company. Maybe in a week or two. I will make sure things go as I want next time. Gonna get that car sex next time.
Anyway I did this more to show that GC and Chase have a wealth of information *that works*. This isn't theory, boys, it works. Read reports and articles, keep doing it till it becomes second nature. Good luck to you.
Maybe treat yourself to an Android model