If you were to use a good looking guy's picture on Tinder to get matches and use your 'verbal game' to get her on a date, how can you do this in RL?

[DaVinciMatrixStyle]

So I help my friend out all the time because he's in the top 20% of looks and gets a lot of matches. What he lacks is game. So after he matches, he just lets me do all the texting and he goes on the date.

This got me thinking a bit. I'm able to 'game' these girls after the match and the 'matching' part in real life would be (attraction + hooking) phase of the interaction. And from there I can game normally as if I matched a girl in real life.

My question to you guys is, when you meet a girl in real life, what are some attraction materials to get a girl attracted if you're not the best looking after you open her?

 

[Toby2030]

You can't compare tinder and real life like that. The guy has a lot more compliance because of his looks on tinder, which makes it a lot easier for you to make her meet up. At least if he's really hot.

Check out Alek's hooking series https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-hook-girls-pt1-pre-opener

 

[Velasco]

The guy has a lot more compliance because of his looks on tinder, which makes it a lot easier for you to make her meet up.

if it were easy, DaVinci's friend (top 20% in looks) wouldn't need his help.

Again looks get your foot in the door, game converts that foot in the door to sex.

The article you linked talks about Approach Invitations (looks), testing the waters (walking up to her without an Approach Invitation, and delivering a statement about something in the environment to see if she's compliant or not (looks) and screening for DTF girls (availability).

what are some attraction materials to get a girl attracted if you're not the best looking after you open her?

You don't have to be the 'best' looking. Just good looking enough (fundamentals).

 

[DaVinciMatrixStyle]

if it were easy, DaVinci's friend (top 20% in looks) wouldn't need his help.

Again looks get your foot in the door, game converts that foot in the door to sex.

The article you linked talks about Approach Invitations (looks), testing the waters (walking up to her without an Approach Invitation, and delivering a statement about something in the environment to see if she's compliant or not (looks) and screening for DTF girls (availability).

You don't have to be the 'best' looking. Just good looking enough (fundamentals).

I always thought this. Tinder or online game is like a platform where looks is magnified as the sole determinant. But in real life, looks might be like 15-20% while there's fundamentals and conversation that could belike 80%.

 

[West_Indian_Archie]

Are you trying to catfish, bait and switch, or Tinder Guy gets caught in Traffic while Real You is at the venue and you charm her?

The first 2 don't work. And third is some stuff you might see in a sitcom. Does it happen in real life? Do girls get stood up and then glom onto the coolest guy at the venue?

Yes, guys do pick up girls that have been stood up.

But if you had that level of game - to outclass all the other guys there, quickly get her into the attraction phase, and then deal with her "3rd party" worries - you wouldn't do this complicated shit in the first place.

WIA

 

[Slick]

Well if you’re not good looking on tinder it doesn’t matter what “game” you use

 

[DaVinciMatrixStyle]

Well if you’re not good looking on tinder it doesn’t matter what “game” you use

Thank you Captain Obvious.

 

[DaVinciMatrixStyle]

Are you trying to catfish, bait and switch, or Tinder Guy gets caught in Traffic while Real You is at the venue and you charm her?

The first 2 don't work. And third is some stuff you might see in a sitcom. Does it happen in real life? Do girls get stood up and then glom onto the coolest guy at the venue?

Yes, guys do pick up girls that have been stood up.

But if you had that level of game - to outclass all the other guys there, quickly get her into the attraction phase, and then deal with her "3rd party" worries - you wouldn't do this complicated shit in the first place.

WIA

As I said to previous, read what I posted instead of assuming. On Tinder, if the good looking guy is getting matches consistently (attraction and girl getting hooked), what is the equivalent to that in real life? Or what are the combinations of steps to get to the hook phase more consistently. Those were my questions and I got the answer above with the link.

If you think it's complicated, move on. That's your opinion. This is how I think about this process and game.

 

[Skills]

I had a dude once using my text (copy one of my lay reports texting, out of context) banged a tinder girl... But he only bang her once, once she saw he was not congruent, that was it.... He got lucky i sexualized a lot so she was sold... IN npua forum i had a sex routine that i posted from a dude name sexaddict911 and a bunch of people got laid... so is possible if is sexualized.

But,If he is not congruent to the texting (unless she already made the decision to do him based on the texting... He will lose the girl...

p.s. there was a french dude that went to jail... He used fake pics, and had them do 50 shades of grey types stuff, did not let them see him (blindfolded) the dude got caught and went to jail (but he never raped them, it was bait and switch)

 

[DaVinciMatrixStyle]

I had a dude once using my text (copy one of my lay reports texting, out of context) banged a tinder girl... But he only bang her once, once she saw he was not congruent, that was it.... He got lucky i sexualized a lot so she was sold... IN npua forum i had a sex routine that i posted from a dude name sexaddict911 and a bunch of people got laid... so is possible if is sexualized.

But,If he is not congruent to the texting (unless she already made the decision to do him based on the texting... He will lose the girl...

p.s. there was a french dude that went to jail... He used fake pics, and had them do 50 shades of grey types stuff, did not let them see him (blindfolded) the dude got caught and went to jail (but he never raped them, it was bait and switch)

Yeah good point Skills. He's a close friend of mine that I grew up with! So I know the ins and outs of his personality and adapt it as much as I can to his personality (and it's been working great for him!)

 

[Skills]

Yeah good point Skills. He's a close friend of mine that I grew up with! So I know the ins and outs of his personality and adapt it as much as I can to his personality (and it's been working great for him!)

he will be fine, but what is the point, you are handicapping him and yourself in a way, since you don't look like him... This is a useless experiment for you and him...

some of the best texters were puahaters (virgins most of them)...

 

[Velasco]

This is a useless experiment for you and him...

its not an experiment. He's just helping his friend get laid. I did this for my friend back in 2016. in return he paid for my drinks when we went out clubbing.

 

[DaVinciMatrixStyle]

he will be fine, but what is the point, you are handicapping him and yourself in a way, since you don't look like him... This is a useless experiment for you and him...

some of the best texters were puahaters (virgins most of them)...

That's your opinion and you do what makes you happy. I'll do what I do.

 

[Skills]

its not an experiment. He's just helping his friend get laid. I did this for my friend back in 2016. in return he paid for my drinks when we went out clubbing.

helping a friend get laid, is showing him how to do it, instead of doing it for him, not the same thing... Giving a dude fish, is not the same of teaching him how to fish...

 

[DaVinciMatrixStyle]

helping a friend get laid, is showing him how to do it, instead of doing it for him, not the same thing... Giving a dude fish, is not the same of teaching him how to fish...

Perhaps. And sometimes it's helpful just to fish for them.

 

[Velasco]

helping a friend get laid, is showing him how to do it, instead of doing it for him, not the same thing... Giving a dude fish, is not the same of teaching him how to fish...

He's friend is very likely not a PUA so he has no interest in learning "test the waters" "spike her buying temperature" "soft close" "day2" "set a sexual frame".... It will only make his friend think DaVinci's autistic. Better for the friend who gets laid from this, to give Davinci benefits for helping. Principle of Reciprocity.

 

[Skills]

He's friend is very likely not a PUA so he has no interest in learning "test the waters" "spike her buying temperature" "soft close" "day2" "set a sexual frame".... It will only make his friend think DaVinci's autistic. Better for the friend who gets laid from this, to give Davinci benefits for helping. Principle of Reciprocity.

100% not true, i taught the 3 bounce method to a civilian that could not get laid that i work with, was spending a bunch of money getting going on dates ($60), and not getting laid... Taught it to him, lay every girl he went out with after, got a gf, got her prego... leave happily ever after... True story...

I taught another one dark seduction, save him from paying 18 years child support, i can go on and on... if you sound autistic that means you are uncalibrated to talking to a civilian...

 

[DaVinciMatrixStyle]

100% not true, i taught the 3 bounce method to a civilian that could not get laid that i work with, was spending a bunch of money getting going on dates ($60), and not getting laid... Taught it to him, lay every girl he went out with after, got a gf, got her prego... leave happily ever after... True story...

I taught another one dark seduction, save him from paying 18 years child support, i can go on and on... if you sound autistic that means you are uncalibrated to talking to a civilian...

As I said, if I was curious about your experiences, I would've asked. If that works for you, that's great!

 

[Skills]

As I said, if I was curious about your experiences, I would've asked. If that works for you, that's great!

dude i was not talking to you...

 

[DaVinciMatrixStyle]

dude i was not talking to you...

Well I'm talking to you because obviously Skills is also talking about my situation.