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I've been in Europe and for the past few years and recently came back to the states. It's shocking to see the differences in quality of women.
When I was in Europe, I met and slept with many beautiful, sweet, intelligent women. Lawyers, teachers, and students. It never felt like a chore, and in fact I enjoyed the whole process of getting to know the girl, learning her story, and legitimately sharing an intimate connection with her. I still talk to a few of these girls today.
Since I've come back to the states, I've been seriously disappointed with girls. Many are downright repulsive: either fat, stupid or lazy.
I am a handsome, intelligent, funny guy. I've been told this by girls I've dated. But in the US it is like pulling teeth with women who have impossibly high standards. No guy should have to go through so much bullshit to end up with a mediocre girl.
Why should a western guy need to learn game to talk to women? Why is it a necessity? Because their standards are so ridiculously high, and they themselves don't know what they want. When I was in Europe, I had some game, sure. But in the west it's a requirement.
Dating western girls is like esting at mcdonalds. It's fake. The whole thing feels fake and vacuous. You play a bunch of games so you can have sex that is unfulfilling. Just like the mcdonalds worker makes a sad little burger that you eat and quickly regret. In contrast, sleeping with european women was enjoyable the whole way through, like a chef who makes a meal he is proud of, to be enjoyed by you. The whole process is enjoyable.
Maybe it's culture shock, and maybe I'll grow out of it. But for now, I can't see the point in pursuing western girls. The tiny payoff for the amount of work required is too much. They're just not worth it.
When I was in Europe, I met and slept with many beautiful, sweet, intelligent women. Lawyers, teachers, and students. It never felt like a chore, and in fact I enjoyed the whole process of getting to know the girl, learning her story, and legitimately sharing an intimate connection with her. I still talk to a few of these girls today.
Since I've come back to the states, I've been seriously disappointed with girls. Many are downright repulsive: either fat, stupid or lazy.
I am a handsome, intelligent, funny guy. I've been told this by girls I've dated. But in the US it is like pulling teeth with women who have impossibly high standards. No guy should have to go through so much bullshit to end up with a mediocre girl.
Why should a western guy need to learn game to talk to women? Why is it a necessity? Because their standards are so ridiculously high, and they themselves don't know what they want. When I was in Europe, I had some game, sure. But in the west it's a requirement.
Dating western girls is like esting at mcdonalds. It's fake. The whole thing feels fake and vacuous. You play a bunch of games so you can have sex that is unfulfilling. Just like the mcdonalds worker makes a sad little burger that you eat and quickly regret. In contrast, sleeping with european women was enjoyable the whole way through, like a chef who makes a meal he is proud of, to be enjoyed by you. The whole process is enjoyable.
Maybe it's culture shock, and maybe I'll grow out of it. But for now, I can't see the point in pursuing western girls. The tiny payoff for the amount of work required is too much. They're just not worth it.