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Sparked by the recent FR thread I posted in about self-affirmation, I thought I'd do a short write-up on in-field visualisation techniques.
I call this "advanced" because I've honestly only had intermittent success with it. But when I've had success, it's been in the "whoa there wtf just happened" category of success.
The gist of it goes like this:
When you're sarging, or going out on the town, or moving about in the real world among (preferably hot) women, you start visualising that you're surrounded by sexy, naked women doing lewd and sexual stuff to you. The idea is that you don't need real women, because you already have what you need all around you. So, you can just kick back and chill, and try to not get a boner while out in public.
This also works well when talking to some hot girl. Visualize these other girls around you, and experiment with making her part of it or not. Then observe how she reacts. I'm sure you'll be amazed...
That's basically it. Make it as lifelike and real as possible. Really make an effort in living in that moment. Then try doing stuff near - heh - real women. Or interact with real women while you do these visualisations.
As I said, this is very hit-and-miss and experimental. But here are some of my experiences while doing this.
I was in a club, and this girl came in while I was busy visualizing. Sure, she was kinda drunk but... When she noticed me, she immediately went wide eyed, and then she bee-lined straight over to me and started humping my leg a.k.a. dancing hot with me and grinding my thigh with her crotch... As if that wasn't enough, she started ripping off her clothes and stripping right in front of me, right there on the dance floor. I almost didn't believe my own eyes. Sadly, the guards swooped in and ripped her off me before she was able to take off her bra, and then threw her out. Truly a wtf moment.
In general, when doing this on the dance floor, women will try to get my attention. They will boob-bump into me, or grab me or whatever. It's a mixed bag, though. Doesn't always work. But it seems to happen way more when I visualize. Sometimes make-outs out of the blue, instigated by them and not me. So IMHO this is proof enough that it does something but I've as of yet to find out how to hone this into a real weapon of seduction. Perhaps some of you more experienced guys can help me a bit here? Either way, I'm fairly sure that I'm onto something. A diamond in the rough or whatever. And if nothing else, it's jolly good passtime when going out lol.
My experience from doing this while talking to hot girls, has also been somewhat mixed. Certainly it has often helped in increasing sexual tension. One time this girl said out of the blue to me that "But you're way too old for me!" I went "Huh?" and almost blushed. It's as if she just heard my dirty, dirty mind. But then few seconds later she was already giggling and punching me in the arm for other things. Mirror neurons? Idk. Again, it seems to do something but you've gotta move things forward yourself, most of the time.
IMHO it's worthwhile experimenting with, although it's probably not a reliable technique to get laid.
I call this "advanced" because I've honestly only had intermittent success with it. But when I've had success, it's been in the "whoa there wtf just happened" category of success.
The gist of it goes like this:
When you're sarging, or going out on the town, or moving about in the real world among (preferably hot) women, you start visualising that you're surrounded by sexy, naked women doing lewd and sexual stuff to you. The idea is that you don't need real women, because you already have what you need all around you. So, you can just kick back and chill, and try to not get a boner while out in public.
This also works well when talking to some hot girl. Visualize these other girls around you, and experiment with making her part of it or not. Then observe how she reacts. I'm sure you'll be amazed...
That's basically it. Make it as lifelike and real as possible. Really make an effort in living in that moment. Then try doing stuff near - heh - real women. Or interact with real women while you do these visualisations.
As I said, this is very hit-and-miss and experimental. But here are some of my experiences while doing this.
I was in a club, and this girl came in while I was busy visualizing. Sure, she was kinda drunk but... When she noticed me, she immediately went wide eyed, and then she bee-lined straight over to me and started humping my leg a.k.a. dancing hot with me and grinding my thigh with her crotch... As if that wasn't enough, she started ripping off her clothes and stripping right in front of me, right there on the dance floor. I almost didn't believe my own eyes. Sadly, the guards swooped in and ripped her off me before she was able to take off her bra, and then threw her out. Truly a wtf moment.
In general, when doing this on the dance floor, women will try to get my attention. They will boob-bump into me, or grab me or whatever. It's a mixed bag, though. Doesn't always work. But it seems to happen way more when I visualize. Sometimes make-outs out of the blue, instigated by them and not me. So IMHO this is proof enough that it does something but I've as of yet to find out how to hone this into a real weapon of seduction. Perhaps some of you more experienced guys can help me a bit here? Either way, I'm fairly sure that I'm onto something. A diamond in the rough or whatever. And if nothing else, it's jolly good passtime when going out lol.
My experience from doing this while talking to hot girls, has also been somewhat mixed. Certainly it has often helped in increasing sexual tension. One time this girl said out of the blue to me that "But you're way too old for me!" I went "Huh?" and almost blushed. It's as if she just heard my dirty, dirty mind. But then few seconds later she was already giggling and punching me in the arm for other things. Mirror neurons? Idk. Again, it seems to do something but you've gotta move things forward yourself, most of the time.
IMHO it's worthwhile experimenting with, although it's probably not a reliable technique to get laid.
