Is it me, or are single women at night currently tough to find?

[ElderPrice]

This weekend I was at a venue I go to occasionally. It's basically a bar that gets one to two thousand people to go through it each Friday night. I was hanging with some friends and looking around, when something struck me. I was seeing a LOT of couples, especially among the attractive girls there. There were some 'girls night out' groups, but most of them were doing that 'stand in a circle' thing where they give off 'not interested in meeting anyone' body language, and shoot down seemingly every guy that approaches. Of what was left, I was seeing a huge ratio favoring guys.

I told a buddy there what I saw, asked for his thoughts to check if I was crazy, and he agreed with my assessment. He actually went off into a rant, something to the effect of: 'Because of how easy it is to meet a guy on an app, girls just don't *have* to go out to meet someone like guys do. Also, it's cold out, and also it's cuffing season. So yes, even at one of the most popular venues in town, there are very few single girls out." (or at least, single and looking)

I went to a couple other venues this weekend, bumped into other friends, asked for their thoughts, and they agreed.

But because these guys aren't expert seducers, I'm curious to hear how night game is going for you guys right now.

Are you still going to venues packed with single women and not having any significant slow down in your results? Or are you also noticing a big drop off in single women out and about, and it has you in a cold streak?

 

[Regal Tiger]

It's cuffing season mate. Single women are harder to find in general

Though I didn't see anything about where you're from, I'm in the states. It's cold. There are a buhjillion holidays. Nobody is out. Nobody wants to be alone and a ton of people have all paired up

If I'm being honest I've basically even given up until January lol

Not impossible to find single women. But more annoying than I wanna put up with. Personally speaking. Plus, when it comes to the cold I'm a total bitch. No lie

 

[Warped Mindless]

Cold, COVID, cuffing season.

Those combine to make cold approaching right now more difficult. That said, day game! No ring on her finger? Single enough for me to approach!

 

[Starboy]

Cold, COVID, cuffing season.

Those combine to make cold approaching right now more difficult. That said, day game! No ring on her finger? Single enough for me to approach!

Daygame isn't much easier than nightgame to find single girls. Imo it's harder because a lot of girls are on their way somewhere and if they're attractive they usually already are seeing a guy. If it's cold they'll be less receptive to meeting a stranger. Even if you approach a girl who seems open to you and get her contact info,getting her to meet up later is a whole another issue.

At least in bars if a girl is out there's more of a chance it's cuz she's more open to socializing and meeting a guy potentially. Otherwise it takes a really dedicated girl to go out when it's cold just to drink and party.

 

[h8tehh8ers]

The last two weekends have been like that in Chicago. It's hard to find available women at night.

 

[Skills]

This weekend I was at a venue I go to occasionally. It's basically a bar that gets one to two thousand people to go through it each Friday night. I was hanging with some friends and looking around, when something struck me. I was seeing a LOT of couples, especially among the attractive girls there. There were some 'girls night out' groups, but most of them were doing that 'stand in a circle' thing where they give off 'not interested in meeting anyone' body language, and shoot down seemingly every guy that approaches. Of what was left, I was seeing a huge ratio favoring guys.

I told a buddy there what I saw, asked for his thoughts to check if I was crazy, and he agreed with my assessment. He actually went off into a rant, something to the effect of: 'Because of how easy it is to meet a guy on an app, girls just don't *have* to go out to meet someone like guys do. Also, it's cold out, and also it's cuffing season. So yes, even at one of the most popular venues in town, there are very few single girls out." (or at least, single and looking)

I went to a couple other venues this weekend, bumped into other friends, asked for their thoughts, and they agreed.

But because these guys aren't expert seducers, I'm curious to hear how night game is going for you guys right now.

Are you still going to venues packed with single women and not having any significant slow down in your results? Or are you also noticing a big drop off in single women out and about, and it has you in a cold streak?

^ we have been talking about this for a month?? There is also something that the girl i am dating said, like the people during corona got in the habit of staying home, for some that is the new habit and reality... So the theory of some of after corona is going to be this huge orgies on the street, just lol, just flawed.... After restrictions huge spike on women coming out, it was awesome...... Then it drop of and never went up again.... You need to go out more, more venues, more nights out, is more work....

The app mentality is meh, women have app. fatigue... but yeah social media/apps place a factor/bottle services/netflix all that shit.... night game in general has not been what it used to be and getting worst for a while now... But you can still get laid and plenty, just more hustle, more patience, more work...

 

[Tim Iron]

Daygame isn't much easier than nightgame to find single girls. Imo it's harder because a lot of girls are on their way somewhere and if they're attractive they usually already are seeing a guy. If it's cold they'll be less receptive to meeting a stranger. Even if you approach a girl who seems open to you and get her contact info,getting her to meet up later is a whole another issue.

At least in bars if a girl is out there's more of a chance it's cuz she's more open to socializing and meeting a guy potentially. Otherwise it takes a really dedicated girl to go out when it's cold just to drink and party.

Day game is just an opener for you to meet up later in the day or the next day. I prefer that and laid-back bars/lounges (where everyone is seated - no dancing).

 

[D. Gately]

Last weekend up here in the city there were the most single girls I've seen out in a while. College girls everywhere.

 

[ElderPrice]

Interesting responses. Seems like in general it's a trend everywhere. Yes, I'm in the US.

@DonGately - Did you talk to any of them? Did they seem receptive to meeting new guys?

@Skills - Do you have any recommendations on how to adjust to the worsening night game overall? Just bite the bullet and hustle harder or are there other workarounds in your experience?

 

[moom]

I’ve felt this a little- thought definitely because of cuffing season. I live in the south so not nearly as cold. Have had some good approaches / lays via night game already in the past month and a half.

But obviously Covid + cuffing season + cold + holidays really dwindle down the numbers. But unless we have another outbreak twice as deadly as covid in the next few months, I see no issues next summer. Night game back to normal, with the new normal.

 

[moom]

Went out last week. was packed and full of women everywhere. I strolled from set to set. Was in 3 two sets and mingled through a few others, before i closed one.

Closed girls circles are manageable. Mostly an early in the night or just arrived tendency. Lockin next to them open over shoulder (oldschool mystery) etc. Mingle by. Eye fuck one of them. Force iois (eg stick your tounge out mimicking a little brat to one of them when they look) use gesutres while in proxy to make them look, vibe bomb, use proximity, have fun, let them notice you etc etc).

Haha sticking out the tongue move- gonna try that one

 

[Skills]

Interesting responses. Seems like in general it's a trend everywhere. Yes, I'm in the US.

@DonGately - Did you talk to any of them? Did they seem receptive to meeting new guys?

@Skills - Do you have any recommendations on how to adjust to the worsening night game overall? Just bite the bullet and hustle harder or are there other workarounds in your experience?

You just need to keep going out, and again there are ways to minimize problem by what i have always recommended club hoping... Also is not every night but is just not consistant... With corona now getting worst again, is another issue.... Just keep going out, and don't be negative stop discussing it with friends just will bring a negative loop....... With women that are in circles that tend to happen more on the early stages (warm up) make that time not count, warm up etc... At leater stages does groups tend to break, mingle... By the way most nightgamers have their best pulls on bad nights! you never know where the night will lead... ( i met all of my mains in bad nights)....

 

[dingdong]

i walked the street last night and the volume is abysmal. dont quite see the amount of lone wolves out there that you used to (almost only guys, families or groups of closed off girls). i did manage to approach 8-10 girls last saturday night however, but again, all are unavailable except one who flaked whereas in spring and summer i can approach 10 girls and get 5 numbers and 2 dates. it's like playing the lottery sometimes lol.

 

[Skills]

i walked the street last night and the volume is abysmal. dont quite see the amount of lone wolves out there that you used to (almost only guys, families or groups of closed off girls). i did manage to approach 8-10 girls last saturday night however, but again, all are unavailable except one who flaked whereas in spring and summer i can approach 10 girls and get 5 numbers and 2 dates. it's like playing the lottery sometimes lol.

You ca n not live on lone wolf, attractive women are seldom alone in night game....This has always been the case...

 

[dingdong]

You ca n not live on lone wolf, attractive women are seldom alone in night game....This has always been the case...

i know, i meant street game specifically. daygame mostly. it is the same stuff. low volume

 

[trashKENNUT]

attractive women are seldom alone in night game....This has always been the case...

Night game, yea. They have their orbiters and other girls.

SIdenote:

I was excited to call this people as 'pieces of shitz'. People who just leech off pretty girls or using the friendzone route or work route. They exist of course.

but recently I met a girl whom I sell off my item on a platform.

The girl who need the item is just too meek. She is like really "soft" based on the first interaction. And that her friend is the sidekick who is like the aggressor.

I used to think that this group of people are asshole and only keen to ruin lifes of others, and yea, they exist. There's a lot of them.

But there's also a lot of people that wants you to take care of their friend. And only when I self reflect, and actually tone down that confrontational vibe which may or may not exist, depending on the person.

I realize that most of this problems tend to disappear.

z@c+

 

[Troy]

I took vacation last week Wednesday and went to the beach on Friday and Sunday. Im from the Caribbean and even down here where it is warmer than the US and other countries up north, single women are rare. I stayed at the beach from 11am to 4:30pm. The setting was either:

Baby momas with their very young kids
very hot women holding their men hands
families
groups of male friends bundled up together chilling

Thats pretty much the beach scene. Yeah its cuffing season. Probably about 300 - 700 people visited the beach on each day I was there. Best thing you can do when going out is to take a lady on a date.

I learnt my lesson to ensure I go with a woman the next time lol.

 

[pancakemouse]

COVID has accelerated a trend that was long in progress: http://aaronsleazy.blogspot.com/2016/09/clubs-seem-to-be-having-harder-time.html

Gen Z isn't going out as much as previous generations. This has been known for a while. The idea of "going outside" to meet strangers is slowly drying up. Sure, cold approach will never die completely, but it's being supplanted by anything online.

Best to invest in both.