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jaythedon

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I'm 35, Asian, living in the states currently. I've traveled a lot and have some experiences in dating, but not as much as I would like. I hope to fix that in the next 2 years or so going out and learning as much as I can.

I'm on a journey to fix my fitness, finances, dating life, and social life as I don't have much going for myself right now.

Thanks for everyone's support as I start on this new journey hoping to achieve great results in the next 2 years
 

jaythedon

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After posting this, I started working out again and just signed up for a free judo class. As I approach girls out there, I want to be prepared for any type of physical conflict. I do have some experience in boxing but I want to know how to handle bigger guys as they are more likely to try and test me out there me being only 5'10.

Workouts are mostly consisting of incline bench, wide pull ups, overhead press, squats, and deadlifts as well as arms and other workouts to widen my shoulders as much as possible.

Currently weight 180lbs - probably around 25% or more body fat.

Starting to look for places to go out around the area to approach as I'm new to the area.
 

AspiringStoic

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After posting this, I started working out again and just signed up for a free judo class. As I approach girls out there, I want to be prepared for any type of physical conflict. I do have some experience in boxing but I want to know how to handle bigger guys as they are more likely to try and test me out there me being only 5'10.

Workouts are mostly consisting of incline bench, wide pull ups, overhead press, squats, and deadlifts as well as arms and other workouts to widen my shoulders as much as possible.

Currently weight 180lbs - probably around 25% or more body fat.

Starting to look for places to go out around the area to approach as I'm new to the area.
You are joking right? 😀

Approaching girls does not = fighting guys.

What fucked up thing are you planning on doing that is going to make guys want to "test" you.

Are you talking about AMOGing?
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake
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