Just started Uni, tons of hot girls here! HELP!

[nexus321]

Okay so today was orientation day and oh my god! So many hot girls!!!
What do I do? How do I get one of them??? I've tried pickup for years but it's never worked for me. I have zero clue on how to create attraction. Just go up to them one by one and say you're hot? Please guys help me out, I've never kissed or had sex. I feel like I'm wasting my youth.


-25 year old kissless virgin

 

[ray_zorse]

This.

 

[Skid]

Just on a side note regarding expectations. You said you're a virgin , but you've done pickup for years , so I'm going to assume that most of it was the casual stuff that guys who haven't read up on game do. Cold approach is literally probably the most difficult way to get laid if you're starting out as a virgin and you've never kissed a girl because from what you said , I'm assuming you've got very low base social skills like I did and your fundamentals are probably weak. My goal isn't to put you off since when I started I'd never kissed a girl , just to give you realistic expectations. I know of guys that it took them months to get their first phone number, now obviously that's rare usually its not that long , but it did take me ages to get my first date. Initially I thought it was going to be a walk in the park. Set some goals for what you want out of pickup , then just jump between theory and doing sets opening girls and you'll get there.

Good luck

 

[Go10]

Orientation lasts a couple of days, right?
Anyway just had mine 2 weeks back, and just wanted to say this

Talk to everyone. Guys and girls both. Nobody knows anybody this time and they are much more open to meeting new people.

If your uni is huge with lots of students i guess you could go direct if you feel like it.
Or if its small like mine (only 3k :| ) situational or indirect would be better unless you know what you're doing.

you're lucky you have so many hot girls there. I can count the number of good looking girls on one hand in my college.

Point is, don't waste the first week of college. get to know everyone. If anything it'll atleast help you become popular and you'll be invited to parties and shit where you can meet more girls.

Go10

 

[Fuck This]

Point is, don't waste the first week of college. get to know everyone. If anything it'll atleast help you become popular and you'll be invited to parties and shit where you can meet more girls.

Go10

This +1. Fraternities generally have a social advantage, but unless you are a member don't expect to go to their parties unless it is set up as a joint event with your residence hall.

How to host a Joint Mixer with a Female Resident hall:
Now if you are in a Residence hall, you can still do mixers with sororities or female Residence halls. Usually each one will have a social chair. Find out who is the social chairman for each female res. hall and sorority..

Get their names and cell #. Then follow up with a joint party/mixer plan. Set a solid date. Plan some icebreaker activities, have some hor d'oeuvres, Have a raffle for one cool prize and a bunch of white elephant gifts. Might take everyone pitching in a few bucks into the social fund.

Then either work with another person in your hall or take on the Social Chair role yourself to get everyone from each of the respective halls to a location for a mixer.

Use the rec room for a Dry function and if permitted have alcohol in the dorm rooms. Alcohol is not necessary, but if it is the common social currency, follow custom. But stay sober....you are networking here.

If inviting a female hall, get 3 or 4 guys together to personally give a party flyer to each of the rooms. Use this as an opportunity to introduce yourself to each resident. Give them a ticket for the raffle and have it relatively early in the night to get people there tell them the time of the raffle.

At the party, give each person a name tag so conversation is easier. Then use your god given ability to smile and converse to meet as many people as possible. You are creating a foundation here.