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First post here, but have read many articles in years past. As the topic suggests, I keep catching my fiancé lying about masturbating....
In the past year, I have caught my fiancé (just got engaged a couple weeks ago) lying about masturbating and watching porn. First time - she asked me to look up a recipe on her phone, and as I was typing in the search bar a "recent website suggestion" came up for pornhub. She said she had been at home alone and was horny and had been masturbating about once a week for the last month or so... told her it wasn't a big deal but requested the next time she was horny to text me and I will be there in a hurry to satisfied her desires...
Second time - In an effort to make her feel more comfortable about masturbating, two months ago I bought her a vibrator for us to use and for her to use when I am traveling for work. We've used it together multiple times, and although she is very shy about it she loves it. In the last three weeks I have been out of town for work traveling for 2/3 weeks. While out of town I would text her flirty things and asked if she had been horny and wanting to use her toy. She would always say no, she's been busy and hasn't had time to feel horny. When I got back in town, I asked her again if she had used it. By her response, it was obvious she was lying (we've been together 5 years, I know when she lies lol). So I told her the vibrator I bought was connected to an app and that I knew she had been using it. So she gave me the oh shit look and admitted to using it multiple times.
Here's the issue, she has always claimed that she hates masturbating and it makes her feel uncomfortable and dirty... She never tells me when she is horny and I am always the one having to make the first move. I have tried many things to change her behavior, such as not making a move for 6 weeks and she still never came on to me, but nothing works. My question is this - Why does she continually lie to me about constantly about masturbating and why is she afraid to be comfortable doing it with me and telling me she did it.
In the past year, I have caught my fiancé (just got engaged a couple weeks ago) lying about masturbating and watching porn. First time - she asked me to look up a recipe on her phone, and as I was typing in the search bar a "recent website suggestion" came up for pornhub. She said she had been at home alone and was horny and had been masturbating about once a week for the last month or so... told her it wasn't a big deal but requested the next time she was horny to text me and I will be there in a hurry to satisfied her desires...
Second time - In an effort to make her feel more comfortable about masturbating, two months ago I bought her a vibrator for us to use and for her to use when I am traveling for work. We've used it together multiple times, and although she is very shy about it she loves it. In the last three weeks I have been out of town for work traveling for 2/3 weeks. While out of town I would text her flirty things and asked if she had been horny and wanting to use her toy. She would always say no, she's been busy and hasn't had time to feel horny. When I got back in town, I asked her again if she had used it. By her response, it was obvious she was lying (we've been together 5 years, I know when she lies lol). So I told her the vibrator I bought was connected to an app and that I knew she had been using it. So she gave me the oh shit look and admitted to using it multiple times.
Here's the issue, she has always claimed that she hates masturbating and it makes her feel uncomfortable and dirty... She never tells me when she is horny and I am always the one having to make the first move. I have tried many things to change her behavior, such as not making a move for 6 weeks and she still never came on to me, but nothing works. My question is this - Why does she continually lie to me about constantly about masturbating and why is she afraid to be comfortable doing it with me and telling me she did it.