Had a different girl join me in my bed every day for a week -more than one a day at least in my room-, none ugly though some below my usual average -indeed just fingered the first-, but some very pretty and some also naturally beautiful with big boobs.
But in spite of it sounding like an achievement, the main lesson learned here is that, in the Philippines, it's really not: they were almost all from online dating and almost all very easy.
But I still did learn something with some food for thoughts which confirmed some ideas or gave birth to some new realization:
1. ENVIRONMENT ONE OF BIGGEST FACTORS
As much as people with a "you can do anything you want" mantra don't wanna hear, it seems to me that a radical change in environment / location has such a huge effect it's probably the equivalent of taking to the next level, all at once, each single one of your fundementals and mindsets.
ie: being, foreigner, white and with cute-looking pics in your online dating in the Philippines was enough to line up more than one date per day for almost as long as I wanted. With the same profile which barely gets any matches in Europe.
At least, this was my experience.
2. KEEPING HER HORNY MAKES HER FALL HARDER FOR YOU
This is a bit of an unconfirmed theory, an idea recently blossomed which tied back to a third instance happened some time ago.
Basically it happened twice to me in a few days span that either because of time constraint or because I didn't have another condom I didn't go for a second round in spite of the fact we both were very much in the mood. Both time the girl fell hard for me.
Here we're both horny but I only let her give me a BJ in the bathroom of the swimming pool.
I feel it's because during the time you keep spending together she will have both romantic AND sexual feelings going on for you at the same time (compare: if she's fully satisfied it will be "only" romantic). If you're still enjoying the time together and you're a cool guy, it's a super powerful explosive mix.
Ie.: you're still fooling around as she gets horny and, even better, you're also hard, but you tell her "now stop or you get horny again".
3. WOMEN IN THIRD WORLD COUNTRIES ARE LESS TRUSTWORTHY
This is a very controversial topic for sure, and I might open a thread about it.
But living in a rich northern European country where so many women publicly profess high moral codes of wanting to save the world eating vegetarian and buying organic, it seems to me that women there are more honest and trustworthy than their counter parties in similarly liberal poorer countries (ie.: holds true when comparing Denmark and Philippines, for example, as both sexually open minded, but can’t compare with India/China which are NOT very liberal).
ie: it's common around here for women to profess never ending love to a (often foreign) guy and doing the exact same to another one. I've also seen women with two facebooks or phonea (one for BF, one for "the others")
P.S.: it's a tendency, millions of exceptions apply.
4. LAYCOUNT FOR LAYCOUNT'S SAKE WON'T MAKE YOU HAPPY
Sounding trite right?
This was probably the first week in my life I focused on having a girl per day and nothing else (no sightseeing, no meeting again a girl I liked, no sharing great moments with the woman but moving quick to either schedule for tomorrow or meet another one later.. ).
Well, it’s not like I’m sad for having done it, but now I know first hand that one lay with a single girl you connect and vibe with is worth more than any number of meaningless lays you can string. You can reach a point where you've had your fill of (third world) easy lays and don't even wanna look for more. I know it's like this for me right no and actually happy for soon moving on from the Philippines
. So yeah, it's a silly-sounding cliche but it's true it can leave you hollow.
Note: this is probably something which holds true only after a certain lay count and mindset: someone at a different stage might still be glowing after any lay, no matter how it happened.
And of course, you can also have a high laycount with women you vibed and connected with amazingly, and then you got both quantity and quality, but doing it in a tightly compressed way is difficult.
5. THE QUICKER YOU GO HOME THE HIGHER THE LMR
I seem to be seeing empirical evidence of a relation -a bit, not a 1:1!- between how quickly you move home and the resistances to sex you might expect (not necessarily LMR).
I seem to notice indeed how it's possible to often go home straight away and insta-pull in different crazy ways, but you're then more likely to be dealing with jittery women as you approach home.
And if you're the kind of guy who "as soon as we walk in I escalate", then it's also more likely you'll see stronger resistance from girls you didn't spend any amount of time connecting with.
P.S.: Plenty of exceptions apply and this isn't to say you shouldn't try to move to your place asap.
6. LADYBOYS IN THE PHILIPPINES ARE SNEAKY MOFOS
Well, a spanner in the works was thrown at me in a 3 dates’ day where I only got the cherry on the last one met at almost midnight.
Little did I know the second one that day was a ladyboy.
Well, I’ll cut the story short and maybe make a more detailed FR about that if there’s any interest. Just so you know it ended up being one of those crazy scenes where an insane sounding ladyboy screams in the streets like a fucking maniac.
Here’s the main heads up: contrary to what I experienced in Thailand, the issue in the Philippines is that many of them fucking ladyboys lie about their gender status. They’ll swear to you they’re girls and, heard and experienced it myself, even pretend of having their days!
Good experience overall, now ride on..
But in spite of it sounding like an achievement, the main lesson learned here is that, in the Philippines, it's really not: they were almost all from online dating and almost all very easy.
But I still did learn something with some food for thoughts which confirmed some ideas or gave birth to some new realization:
1. ENVIRONMENT ONE OF BIGGEST FACTORS
As much as people with a "you can do anything you want" mantra don't wanna hear, it seems to me that a radical change in environment / location has such a huge effect it's probably the equivalent of taking to the next level, all at once, each single one of your fundementals and mindsets.
ie: being, foreigner, white and with cute-looking pics in your online dating in the Philippines was enough to line up more than one date per day for almost as long as I wanted. With the same profile which barely gets any matches in Europe.
At least, this was my experience.
2. KEEPING HER HORNY MAKES HER FALL HARDER FOR YOU
This is a bit of an unconfirmed theory, an idea recently blossomed which tied back to a third instance happened some time ago.
Basically it happened twice to me in a few days span that either because of time constraint or because I didn't have another condom I didn't go for a second round in spite of the fact we both were very much in the mood. Both time the girl fell hard for me.
Here we're both horny but I only let her give me a BJ in the bathroom of the swimming pool.
I feel it's because during the time you keep spending together she will have both romantic AND sexual feelings going on for you at the same time (compare: if she's fully satisfied it will be "only" romantic). If you're still enjoying the time together and you're a cool guy, it's a super powerful explosive mix.
Ie.: you're still fooling around as she gets horny and, even better, you're also hard, but you tell her "now stop or you get horny again".
3. WOMEN IN THIRD WORLD COUNTRIES ARE LESS TRUSTWORTHY
This is a very controversial topic for sure, and I might open a thread about it.
But living in a rich northern European country where so many women publicly profess high moral codes of wanting to save the world eating vegetarian and buying organic, it seems to me that women there are more honest and trustworthy than their counter parties in similarly liberal poorer countries (ie.: holds true when comparing Denmark and Philippines, for example, as both sexually open minded, but can’t compare with India/China which are NOT very liberal).
ie: it's common around here for women to profess never ending love to a (often foreign) guy and doing the exact same to another one. I've also seen women with two facebooks or phonea (one for BF, one for "the others")
P.S.: it's a tendency, millions of exceptions apply.
4. LAYCOUNT FOR LAYCOUNT'S SAKE WON'T MAKE YOU HAPPY
Sounding trite right?
This was probably the first week in my life I focused on having a girl per day and nothing else (no sightseeing, no meeting again a girl I liked, no sharing great moments with the woman but moving quick to either schedule for tomorrow or meet another one later.. ).
Well, it’s not like I’m sad for having done it, but now I know first hand that one lay with a single girl you connect and vibe with is worth more than any number of meaningless lays you can string. You can reach a point where you've had your fill of (third world) easy lays and don't even wanna look for more. I know it's like this for me right no and actually happy for soon moving on from the Philippines
. So yeah, it's a silly-sounding cliche but it's true it can leave you hollow.Note: this is probably something which holds true only after a certain lay count and mindset: someone at a different stage might still be glowing after any lay, no matter how it happened.
And of course, you can also have a high laycount with women you vibed and connected with amazingly, and then you got both quantity and quality, but doing it in a tightly compressed way is difficult.
5. THE QUICKER YOU GO HOME THE HIGHER THE LMR
I seem to be seeing empirical evidence of a relation -a bit, not a 1:1!- between how quickly you move home and the resistances to sex you might expect (not necessarily LMR).
I seem to notice indeed how it's possible to often go home straight away and insta-pull in different crazy ways, but you're then more likely to be dealing with jittery women as you approach home.
And if you're the kind of guy who "as soon as we walk in I escalate", then it's also more likely you'll see stronger resistance from girls you didn't spend any amount of time connecting with.
P.S.: Plenty of exceptions apply and this isn't to say you shouldn't try to move to your place asap.
6. LADYBOYS IN THE PHILIPPINES ARE SNEAKY MOFOS
Well, a spanner in the works was thrown at me in a 3 dates’ day where I only got the cherry on the last one met at almost midnight
.Little did I know the second one that day was a ladyboy.
Well, I’ll cut the story short and maybe make a more detailed FR about that if there’s any interest. Just so you know it ended up being one of those crazy scenes where an insane sounding ladyboy screams in the streets like a fucking maniac
.Here’s the main heads up: contrary to what I experienced in Thailand, the issue in the Philippines is that many of them fucking ladyboys lie about their gender status. They’ll swear to you they’re girls and, heard and experienced it myself, even pretend of having their days!
Good experience overall, now ride on..
