Knowing the girls that don't like to be touched

zeroman2

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Hi beginning here.

I'm the type of person that likes to give almost every female he knows a hug. And about 97% don't have a problem with that. But it's those 3% that ruin it for everybody. By that I mean they don't like to be hugged or touch at all. I was thinking about just giving hugs to the people I know very well and using it at night game. Also I feel like if I completely cut off the hugs it would be a step back from showing women my masculine / sexual side.

My question is:
How can you tell the difference between a woman that likes to be touched and the ones that don't? (from both a seduction and a friendship standpoint)
 

Overdoze

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in my experience its a lot more than 3 % that doesnt like to me touched by a stranger until they reach certain states.
I would say more than 50% maybe even more.
but thats not the way to think about it.

Hugging like that needs to be done at the right time of the seduction imo.
It is a strong display of physicality as you depict.
At certain times of the interaction its great
Other places its a disaster.

I think of it as a tool in my escalatory arsenal - not a must use.

theres a place where shes sorta into you but waiting for something or hesitant. moments like that are great for it.
Sometimes i use it when the girls are a bit hesitant, yellows type too
 

zeroman2

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Thank you.

Now I'm just going to use it for seduction and just friends I know for a very long time and are comfortable with me.
 

Overdoze

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ok - just fyi "seduction" for me starts when she sees me - so i could use it early too if shes timid but interested eg.

and hugging can also be a social thing which i sense it is for you which can be great so i wouldnt stop doing it.

some social profiles like the teddy bear guy uses this sorta physicality a lot and effectively.

i think its more about staying w it and seeing what happens while considering our inputs.
 

zeroman2

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But don't you want to fill her out a little bit. See how she responds to you before you just start hugging/touching her. Or do you just go straight for the hugging and touching?
 

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if i was to do it thinking how you seem to be - i would do like this:
- Since youre already doing it socially just continue doing so in your ways. just be more attentive to girls responses and vibes.
- With girls your attracted to do it too as part of the social being you are. Key is to initially treat her the same as others. And just consider it a compliance test. if she respons well you can go up a notch. Look at how they respond and start getting a sense of this. I dont need stuff like that as i can sense where she is before - but it might be good for you atm.
- or if you wanna engage a target more seductively i would do something like 1) hold eye contact as you walk in proximity to her( i use sexual tension here), or do the same just low key 2) move side to side w. her and engage 3) react to her with it like a kneejerk reaction and hug her at a given time when she does something you like (eg drama say WUT?! to some response she gives and then go in ok, i love you+hug).
- you could do it as pushpull too. where the hug is a pull. Or a pullpush. Check cajun at 8.20 + he does it later again w the adopt you gambit.

Give it some time - work on it for a month or so. Do it together with other things as part of a flow of things.
 
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