Lack of sexual motivation

[The Improviser]

I have a problem: I don't know what to talk about during a first date after we've finished building a comfortable atmosphere (work, hobbies, travel).

What do you talk about on a date to discuss male-female topics, female fantasies, and topics that trigger a woman's sexual motivation to respond to an invitation to your apartment or a second date?

I know it's very important to look for sexual innuendos, strong eye contact, and bold escalation of touch, but I don't know what topics to discuss at this stage of the date.

My only idea is what type of guys do you like? Sometimes we start talking about women, but it's ineffective. I'd love to learn from your experience: what topics you introduce and what questions you ask.

 

[mirror]

My only idea is what type of guys do you like? Sometimes we start talking about women, but it's ineffective. I'd love to learn from your experience: what topics you introduce and what questions you ask.

it's honestly not about the topic but about the kino, tone of voice, the rhythm you talk with

Hell you can even talk about your pets and make it sexual :')

Edit: don't talk about women, a lot of women would turn insecure or move away. unless you actually want to talk about something you have had happen while you simulteanously show her how it is done ofcourse