inner game

Some time ago I read statistics of approach-to-lay ratio in day game among advanced day gamers. I don't recall the exact numbers but at that I was negatively surpised about these numbers. Something like 1 lay out of 50 approaches. I thought: 'What the fuck? So much work to get just one girl?"...

Introduction I've been having rough time these days. I made a couple of posts which were immensely helpful. (Thanks @Wick for recommending Psycho-cybernetics book. I highly recommend it for everyone, which kind of pointed me to a lot of my messed up thinking. I came to realise how having goals...

I'm reading 'Alabaster Girl' by Zan Perrion these days and one quote sticked in, but I can't really fully comprehend it. "Every great life has in it a great renunciation." Anyone keen on explaining what it means. Has any one of you actually experienced it?

I would like to share the best explanation between Wanting/Neediness and Having/Abundance mentality I have ever seen. WANTING = NEEDINESS = RADIATES VALUE TAKING => OTHER PEOPLE GETTING DEFENSIVE If you 'want' something (mentally speaking) you don't have this thing in the present moment...

According to my experience, when talking about beliefs people tend to polarize quite a lot. Some people are very pro beliefs (thinking about hard-core law of attraction aka do nothing and just wait until you attract what you want). Other, completely discard this notion claiming that law of...

I used to ask this to my friends for fun and sometimes on dates too. I never gave it enough serious thought. Recently, I met a chic and she asked something along these lines. I gave a funny reply.. but I felt like, this is something very important for most chics and I haven't figured that out...

Hi guys, A bit of background about me, 33M, has been mentoring guys in lifestyle and dating for a long. Recently, many unfortunate things have happened to me, from my mother's death to losing my job due to the recession. Anyways, one of my mentees, he's international, and his English level is...

I am of an opinion that keeping score of your lay count is something which makes you a less effective seducer. Why do we keep score of lays? I believe, because of validation. We either want to be validated by: - others - when we share our lay count with other people, we are happy when we hear...

Hey guys, Hope you're doing well. I'm on a break after hitting burnout at the end of last year, but I'm going back out there this weekend. And I shall implement the advice @Chase gave me here - especially the part where he mentioned he took 9 months to work on becoming as sexy as possible...

ON SELF-AMUSEMENT I think I have understood self-amusement on a deeper level today. I would like to share my insights with you. A LITTLE BIT OF HISTORY I have learned about self-amusement concept from RSD's videos. And it seems I completely misunderstood it or it was just conveyed badly...

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Here, I express opinion that it's beneficial for you to express anger, both from seduction point of view and most importantly from general wellbeing point of view. WHY IS EXPRESSING ANGER GOOD? Firstly, it's your inner emotional compass. In psychological circle, anger is described as an...

Some call it momentum. Some call it success. Either way, I have realised that after a period of time when I had made progress both in the process and outcome, it comes a period when my success drops fast and steep. This happens several times in the past. If you drew a success chart on a...

Hey guys! I read "No more Mr Nice guy" book 3 years ago and one of the things that hit me hard was that I didn't want to settle down was because of my insecurities which I hadn't realized until I read the book. So, I trained my mind to think that I'll do pickup to overcome my insecurities, which...

What is your "Inner Game Routine" before going out? This is a routine which you use to BRING YOURSELF INTO A DESIRED STATE OF MIND as part of preparation process. MY ROUTINE: 1. Mindfulness and Relation. This is a simple, 5-10" breathing routine used to process my current emotions, get in...

I think I have an inner game issue. When I date women of equal or lower value (relative my own perceived value), I can date or bed them with ease. When I deal with women of higher value I fail almost every time. I think I become more hesitant/fearful/unwilling to take the same risks/more needy...

Hi all, i am a construction worker 29yo who lives in Eastern Europe has an average salary, no car, no high fashion clothes and cant afford too much I have improved my game a lot, i know how to get a "6-7" average girls, but this is not a game, because we had a same value "naturally" This year...

After some therapy, lonely nights, and deep introspection, I've come the realization that many of my pursuits are an attempt to gain validation from others. And yet, not matter how high I go, it's never enough. I always need more. Will it ever be enough? Does anyone else suffer from this, or not...

Hello everyone, I've recently gotten a bit disappointed with the number and quality of women that I am meeting through social circle and tinder. And, there are a number of things that I want to iron out when it comes to my vibe, which I think will require a lot of trial and error to get right...

Hello everyone, Stupid thread incoming but one that I cannot shake off. I fucked up with my ex a ton, and acted in ways that were really stupid. My emotions got the best of me, I got weak and before I broke it off with her I essentially ended up dropping all sense of reason, chasing her and...