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Went back to the same bar, last time this summer, was more of a bar hopping experience, I visited 3 different bars.
I went out with one friend, pink t shirt and black jeans, simple/basic fit tbh, we met up with another friend.
Bar 1:
We started going up to groups with openers, at first they were polite but clearly not interested.
Finally, one of the other guys approached a group of 3 girls, and I slid in to talk to one of the girls.
This girl seemed receptive, flirting back at my teases, she was talking with me, but bouncers of that club got their attention and they never came back.
Tbh not enough interest so we just left it.
He went up to another group of 3, and I did the same thing, this girl seemed way more receptive.
This girl and I started talking, I flirted with her, run the “let me see your hands routine” delivered some teases. She said she’s talking to someone, I said “oh so there’s no ring on it.” She said she’s talking was the one holding commitment. Hugged her goodbye, got insta and gave her a cheek kiss.
Tbh it was ok interest, nothing special and would have just wasted more time.
Bar 2:
We go to the second bar, where it’s a much different vibe, our first time here as well.
Talked to one girl, who seemed receptive, unfortunately, she had a bf, and were with a group of girls and guys all dating.
Talked to someone girls, not many interested or had bfs, though I was 21 in a 23+ old bar, and it was my first time.
Bar 3:
We got to this bar, and just started to chill for a bit. Approached some girls, none that receptive immediately.
Finally, wing and I approached 2 girls,
My opener was “you stole my outfit!” She played along, however she tried to get shots from me, to which I said no, not right now. I think I won the frame battle since she kept talking and complying, instead of running away or dismissing me. Called her a naught girl for trying to get shots out of me, which she denied(bad frame I know). Mostly kept teasing her, and asked her some questions in between, and ran the “let me see your hands routine” after asking her job, did good amount of kino, she was comfortable with me touching her hair and brushing it aside. Tbh I was being a bit over the top sexual with this one, I wanted to see how far I could push my limits. Imo this girl was super hot, 9/10 yesterday, tbh looking at her insta more like 8/10 today. At one point I said she “had to do something from the heart” and slightly poked her tit. Tbh she didn’t really react or call me out on it, was a quick movement, like half a second. Eventually, I said “I wanna do something right now, but it’s a bit too soon.” She picked up that I wanted to kiss her, and she said “it’s too soon” I repeated that’s literally what I said. I had to tell her that three times cuz she just didn’t hear me. Women sometimes. Eventually I insta closed with the (false) promise of an after party, and getting drinks another time, to which she seemed very receptive.
I ran into her later, and her friend was pulling her a bit from me, even though she was clearly comfortable with me, though the friend was trying to shoo me a bit when I first met them until my wing came in. Tbh I think the girl was a bit salty that I wasn’t giving her attention, and wanted her friend.
Maybe there’s a chance the girl I was talking to was slightly uncomfortable, but every time I did something sexual, she responded neutral or was receptive to me being sexual, seeming to like it, and the most important thing was, she was still staying there, not trying to create any distance between us.
Near the end, I met a 23 year old girl on her birthday, used the love island can I pull you line, ran some kino, when I went to grab her numbers she said she’s was married.
Any tips to work or improve on, also should I tone down the sexual actions, like with that one girl. She never seemed uncomfortable, so I think I can try it on other receptive girls.
I went out with one friend, pink t shirt and black jeans, simple/basic fit tbh, we met up with another friend.
Bar 1:
We started going up to groups with openers, at first they were polite but clearly not interested.
Finally, one of the other guys approached a group of 3 girls, and I slid in to talk to one of the girls.
This girl seemed receptive, flirting back at my teases, she was talking with me, but bouncers of that club got their attention and they never came back.
Tbh not enough interest so we just left it.
He went up to another group of 3, and I did the same thing, this girl seemed way more receptive.
This girl and I started talking, I flirted with her, run the “let me see your hands routine” delivered some teases. She said she’s talking to someone, I said “oh so there’s no ring on it.” She said she’s talking was the one holding commitment. Hugged her goodbye, got insta and gave her a cheek kiss.
Tbh it was ok interest, nothing special and would have just wasted more time.
Bar 2:
We go to the second bar, where it’s a much different vibe, our first time here as well.
Talked to one girl, who seemed receptive, unfortunately, she had a bf, and were with a group of girls and guys all dating.
Talked to someone girls, not many interested or had bfs, though I was 21 in a 23+ old bar, and it was my first time.
Bar 3:
We got to this bar, and just started to chill for a bit. Approached some girls, none that receptive immediately.
Finally, wing and I approached 2 girls,
My opener was “you stole my outfit!” She played along, however she tried to get shots from me, to which I said no, not right now. I think I won the frame battle since she kept talking and complying, instead of running away or dismissing me. Called her a naught girl for trying to get shots out of me, which she denied(bad frame I know). Mostly kept teasing her, and asked her some questions in between, and ran the “let me see your hands routine” after asking her job, did good amount of kino, she was comfortable with me touching her hair and brushing it aside. Tbh I was being a bit over the top sexual with this one, I wanted to see how far I could push my limits. Imo this girl was super hot, 9/10 yesterday, tbh looking at her insta more like 8/10 today. At one point I said she “had to do something from the heart” and slightly poked her tit. Tbh she didn’t really react or call me out on it, was a quick movement, like half a second. Eventually, I said “I wanna do something right now, but it’s a bit too soon.” She picked up that I wanted to kiss her, and she said “it’s too soon” I repeated that’s literally what I said. I had to tell her that three times cuz she just didn’t hear me. Women sometimes. Eventually I insta closed with the (false) promise of an after party, and getting drinks another time, to which she seemed very receptive.
I ran into her later, and her friend was pulling her a bit from me, even though she was clearly comfortable with me, though the friend was trying to shoo me a bit when I first met them until my wing came in. Tbh I think the girl was a bit salty that I wasn’t giving her attention, and wanted her friend.
Maybe there’s a chance the girl I was talking to was slightly uncomfortable, but every time I did something sexual, she responded neutral or was receptive to me being sexual, seeming to like it, and the most important thing was, she was still staying there, not trying to create any distance between us.
Near the end, I met a 23 year old girl on her birthday, used the love island can I pull you line, ran some kino, when I went to grab her numbers she said she’s was married.
Any tips to work or improve on, also should I tone down the sexual actions, like with that one girl. She never seemed uncomfortable, so I think I can try it on other receptive girls.
