Since I am confined in Paris, I will take some pleasure to open up.
How I meet girls:
I have tried all types of places to meet girls, with the wildest place being at the STD clinic back in 2011 (I think). I Started out doing doing social circle and home parties when I was 15 (the age of which I joined the pick up community - the mASF forum back in 2007). I could not go to clubs, so homeparties was the way to go. At 16 I had a fake ID, so I started clubbing quite a bit. This was a rough time, because at first I went to 18 + places (i.e. the girls rarely have their own place) and I mostly stuck to wild bathroom sex and so on. I had a bunch of bathroom pulls back then (they called me the Bathroom Wizard). I also was the guy who had bathroom anal pulls for petite girls, since fucking their pussy would force me to bend my knees in order to reach their pussies - which was painful.
I had a period of daygame, and honestly I was doing quite well. But then I got a fake ID listing me as 24 y old (I was 17) which allowed me to frequent any venue (20+, 23+ etc). I remember going out alone, at 17, sober, to a club where everybody was older than me. I will be honest, I froze up quite often during that transitional period. Then I got used to it, and managed to get some results.
Then I discovered, at 18, gay clubs - mostly by accident. I was walking out of a club to buy chewing gum and smoke, until I bumped into a girl standing outside a club with her gay friends. We got along, and she invited me in. It turned out it was a gay club, which made me uncomfortable at first, and then I realized how cool and nice these people were. I ended up going to a gay afterparty.... lots of booze and fun. As I was trying to screen for logistics, I checked each room of the flat... and in each of them I saw dick sucking, and people riding each other's ass. After a while, some of dudes dudes had finished fucking each other, they came out yelling "hey hetero man, your turn now". I brought the chick with me, and fucked her. That was the beginning. After that I started hanging in gay clubs A LOT, pulling off a lot of wile stories. I learned so much from this environment. I also made a lot of gay friends.
Eventually, when I moved to Denmark I started doing super high end venues (like those with pickers, and guestlist mostly). Getting access to those clubs was hard but worth it, since it allowed my sexual game to shine, even in venue where social status was everything. It was a big boost to my ego to see my game destroy the typical dogma of the community that social value was everything.
Closing both normal and nude models, influencers, a miss Denmark contestant and fucking the local news anchor in the ass was for me reaching the next level. I also had the chance to meet some local celebrities as well as partying with the singer of this song:
I also stuck to the gay environment - even getting a VIP card to the cities MOST GAYISH CLUB. It was a freakshow of a place.
At the side, I always had a thing for house/techno clubs, but more of musical interests. Sadly, I never found any of those clubs to be good for pick up, until I moved to Paris. There I found one in the building where I live! But I still occasionally do gay clubs, sadly I was banned from the best one in Pris under suspicion of being a drug dealer because of my overly social behaviour (I am not a drug dealer and we suspect the bouncer boss banned me because he hated seing me pull).
Meanwhile I am slowly building my way to the top of the high end venues in Paris, just getting access to one of Paris' most high end place (did so with Pablo when he was visiting). I am not quite there yet, but eventually I plan "conquering" the city.
Type of girl I do best with:
Scandinavian girls. I grew up with them, I know how they work. I am also really good at handling introverted girls who say nothing (they allow me to bombard them with juicy material). I can also handle strippers quite well (last year I oftentimes ended up with strippers after partying at afterhour gay places). Models too - I tend to not be affected by their looks. . I am very good at handling freaks too, but less so than Pablo.
In general I can handle most girls.All types, all races. As I tend to say "my bed has no borders".
Although I struggle with more "hood girls" or "ghetto girls". But Again, I am not their stereotype - and neither are they mine.
My appearance:
Oh god... So I am brownhaired dude, with currently pretty long hair (very long now!) . Either I put it in a bun but usually in clubs I let it loose, or put it in a halfbun. I look central European. I am 1m 78 tall and at times I have a bit of gut (I do not work out - but I should!). I also have some trimmed facial hair.
My clothing style is VERY flashy. LIKE so flashy that fashion influencers get inferiority complexes - those who know me know that my hobby next to pick up is in fact FASHION (yes I go to fashion shows and stuff). I wear red bombers with chinese dragons on, purple sequin bomber jackets, golden sequin leapard jackets, Jaquard shaped patterned jackets, floral patterned jackets (including a long coat with flower patterns on). I also love velvet jackets - bombers etc. Recently I like to wear Satin or velvet kimonos. It looks so swag.
I usually wear black skinny jeans, and chelsea boots, some with flashy details.
I also wear a lot of jewelry.
How do I really open women? well truth is, I rarely open women, they open me because of my clothes when I go out. Sadly, a lot of guys comment on my style too, which is annoying when I am in set.
Personality:
Extremely flamboyant and extravagant. Very verbose, and very expressive vibe. Think jack sparrow ish, but not quite there. However post hook, I have a very hypnotic vibe.
I have very expressive hand gestures, but usually calibrated and slowed down.
My voice is apparently less seductive than bacchus' but women tend to find my voice more comforting.
Otherwise I tend to act like this aloof rockstar. This is what girls have told me.
Maybe some of you who know can chime in perhaps give me your version of my personality.
Game Style:
S.E.X.U.A.L
But usually my game is very strategic and technical. I tend to focus on getting sexual - that's how I get laid most of the time. My preferred method has not changed since 2008 - it is still sex talk. I have only perfected it over the years. Basically, what I do in a nutshell:
1. Reframing sex as not a big deal, display lowkeyness and non-judgementalism.
2. Share knowledge and experience about sex and communicate sexual authority towards women. Sexual prizing is the name of this concept.
However, I also gone deep into the physical game rabbit hole, focusing on sexual tension (much like glow) inspired by Cody Lyans (personal friend), sleazy (used to be a good friend before he became weird), PerfectMoxie, TheLetter and Sixty (who I have discussed a lot with). I had my own opinions and take on this type of game. I also have been greatly inspired by Gunwitch (the importance of logistics, persistence, sexual state, and later on, the importance of social frames - see below).
Beside this, I really like to be inspired by the good old mystery method - i.e. the focus on social dynamics, social proof, and social value. But unlike Mystery, I use social value, social proof and dynamic as a mean to get sexual (i.e. to get to escalate or to open her up to sex talk), whereas mystery, displaying high value and creating social proof is the end (and based on this get laid). But more overall, I tend to follow the Mystery Method as a model - i.e. the indirect method of only reciprocating the women's interest - now showing interest, before she shows any, and only show as much interest as she shows.The major difference between classic MM and my style is that I display higher sexual value instead of higher social value.
Beside this, I am also very inspired by Swinggcat and especially when it comes to the importance of frame and getting the girl to chase you (although I find his model oversimplified and his inner game material to be totally shit). But unlike Swinggcat, I use sexuality as a mean to make her Chase. Again his inspiration was more on a framework level. However, I do enjoy some of his concept, such as the concept of open loops and push and pull, which is also something I use.
After I moved to France, I struggled with my verbals, since despite talking French, it was not on the level of my English. So my sexual verbals were off (i.e. my strongest tool). But This was not an issue because I started focusing on other aspects such as social proof, social value, logistics, physical game, push and pull. It was fun getting laid without your favourite and most powerful "go-to tool". After a few month in France, my french is almost perfect and I finally manage to use my sexual verbals (sex talk) again. Damn that felt good! It was like getting your powers back.
Favorite girl experience:
Oh where do I start? I have many sick stories. I will share my favorites.
1. Well I remember being on a bootcamp with some local instructors (2010). It was a free bootcamp. We then went out to the field. I hid my identity - acting like I was some beginner guy. That night I was one fire (the bootcamp effect is a real thing). I pulled a hot girl (19 y old, I was 17) to the bathroom infront of every bootcamp participants and fucked her in every hole (ass too). The instructor got mad, and claimed I needed coaching, since I could only get laid from being sexual. I remember, I told him - FUCK YOU. Good times. The lay report was posted on mASF and the local lair (where carousel was a moderator).
2. Another good experience was my first threesome at 17! I remember a random girl called me a night I was stuck at home alone (mum was away). She was a stranger... and I was like WTF? Apparently she was a friend of a fuck buddy, and the fuck buddy was with her. I then talked with my fuckbuddy and they asked me if they could come over. They came and bough over beer, and a cowboy hat (the fuck?). I was so affraid to escalate... especially considering that the girl my fuckbuddy brought over only have had 1 sex partner before, but my fuckbuddy took care of things (cred to her! - I did not cred her enough in my original lay report). My fuckbuddy went to the bathroom, took of her top, oiled her tits. She came to my room where I was chatting with her friend, and with her tits out wearing a cowboy hat, she pushed her friend into the wall and made out with her and dragged her to the living room.
There I was standing with a beer in my hand, seeing two hot girls having a 69. I joined in. Every possible position took place. My fuckbuddy even made me fuck her friends ass. Weird night. I managed to get a condom break... and both girls had to get the day after pill. LOLZ.
3. Other memorable stories was in a club (Summer 2018), I met this chick and went home with her to her friend's. Her friend (even hotter than the girl I went home with) was living next to the beach. At her place we had jack daniels cigarettes and coke. We snorted, drank and talked about sex. Then the girls stripped for me, and made out with each other before I waved them over. A 3 some took place. The best part was the aftermath.... they wanted to go to the beach. They spent 1 hour trying to figure out what bikini to wear. For me, they found a girl speedo (female underwear). There I was on the beach in a small speedo (with my balls hanging out), long hair, pilot sun glasses... high on coke (rockstar level x10000). One girl was laying on me, equally drunk and high and the other was stroking my hair... on the beach, while eating berries from each other. People were taking pics of me... thinking WTF is this guy with a speedo, long hair, pilot glasses and a beergut doing with those two girls. Pablo called me and he can tell you more about this...
4. The night where Pablo and I dressed like superstars (fur coat, sequin) and met two strippers (last April - 2019). The strippers tought we were from the group "swedish house mafia". We pulled them to pablo's airbnb (it was actually his hook). His girl got mad when I offered her a beer - and claimed that she was not here for drinking but fucking and pulled pablo into his room. I was stuck with this hot blond stripper. Went home with her, and after a lot of resistance I got drunk and all with her and made her strip for me... the whole vibe was amazing. I then fucked her. There was no happy ending to this story, since condom broke. I did an STD test, which gave me a false positive HIV diagnosis, which put me into a serious depression. But gladly, my tests were mixed up with somebody else's. Is this a good story? in itself yes, but the ending, not so good. The story has marked me a lot. It is also the reason for why I left the country and moved to France (yes it is recent). I still live with the traumas from that event, but it has made me reflect over my life, and made me stronger.
5. Me and Pablo pulling two Eskimo twins (june 2019). Just LOLZ (a month after the previous story). After I got cleared from being HIV positive (and getting my beloved "HIV-negative" status back), Pablo came visiting me to help me get back on track (my game took a hit, and I was constantly depressed). He managed to get me going on the third night, and I got my game back. We both did amazing, pulled those two eskimos. Of course I get the one with the boyfriend.
6. From April last year (2019): Fucking a Portuguese girl next to her gay friend, who was getting ass-destroyed by a big black cock. The black guy was wearing sun glasses and was over excited about this. The black guy gave the Portuguese guy a cumshot, and some reached my knee. I got mad. Still shocked to see how that portuguese dude managed to take that big dick in. I had problems focusing on my girl during the process.
7. After joining the community (2007), I met my childhood love (from when I was 11) that I never managed to get anywhere with back then (too affraid at a party. I ended up fucking her next to my friend who was fucking her friend. I was 15. First wild story. I guess no romantic ending to that love story.
8. Pulling two girls to my flat, put on a velvet bathroom, a glass of whisky and not touch the girls, but make them lick each other off while I watch. Such beautiful view. Best sexual experience so far (February 2017)
9. I went to this open microphone night (as per recommended by Glow), where you go on stage to share a sex story and win sex toys (basically giving me an audience and a microphone to my sex talk). I got second place from telling my first threesome (story I shared above - above the winner won after sharing his first cuckold story, the fuck...). The girl who shared her story before me (who won third place), shared a story about cheating on her ex.... who... she claimed was into "the game" (pick up). The crowd boohooed.... Well I did not feel great there. But then I went on stage, shared my story, and that girl liked it so much. I ended up chatting her up later on, and pulled her that night. So poetic.
I also won a pair of squirting sheets and a vibrator. And a dick shaped lollipop that I gave to a lesbian girl attending.
10. I once met a girl in a club (
see report here). I met this girl again... but... in a weird way. After I had met her, she went on a euro-trip (a train trip around europe). She called me on night, and told me she was going to Poland - Warsaw actually. She joked about me coming... and eventually I did! Her friend changed their minds last minute and wanted to go to Berlin instead of Warsaw. Sadly, I had already booked an AirBnB and a flight. The girl dumped her friends and took a nighttrain from the Czech republic to meet me in Poland. She lived with me for 4 days. It was romantic and fun. Then we parted ways. Never to be seen again.
And those are my top favorite stories. I have many others....
What got me into "game"
Being a loser in Junior high was not fun. Then one day I met this guy who was throwing parties and was doing pretty good with girls. Gave me the info about the community. Fastseduction.com (mASF) was the place I went to to learn. I got hooked right away. It has been my passion since I was 15. It changed me, and was probably the best thing ever happening to me. I truly went from zero to hero, with a lot of fun, tears, frustration, and pleaure along the way. The road to success is VERY bumpy.
One thing I wish I knew before:
I was 15 - I knew very little at that time. I learned everything in the community. As some people used to say - I grew up in the community.
Best,
Teevster