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Hey gents!
Commented on an old classmate's IG story, and she was very warm in her response. She jumped into sending me several large threads at once and being pretty supportive.
Backstory: she knew me when I was in a relationship, so I never did much with her but be part of a group project and be my super outspoken self in class (EVERYONE in my major knew who I was lol). I don't know her super well, but she seems like my ex minus 5 years (both are 2nd gen Chinese/Southeast Asian with similar demeanors). She's right where I'd like a future partner to be: just out of college, some work experience (and we're in the same field), and always seemed pretty innocent. I wouldn't be surprised if she was still a virgin like my ex was when she was in the same position as this girl.
The kicker is she's 1.5k miles away... Any thoughts on setting things up to create/hold interest in case we one day can cross paths? In my mind she could be a solid partner (assuming we actually have good dynamics), but I'm not ride or die to make it work. Colt's article seemed too hardline sexual for someone who may very well be a virgin with a conservative Asian upbringing.
Open to all thoughts and feedback! Including dealing with interest with a maybe virgin.
Thanks all!
Commented on an old classmate's IG story, and she was very warm in her response. She jumped into sending me several large threads at once and being pretty supportive.
Backstory: she knew me when I was in a relationship, so I never did much with her but be part of a group project and be my super outspoken self in class (EVERYONE in my major knew who I was lol). I don't know her super well, but she seems like my ex minus 5 years (both are 2nd gen Chinese/Southeast Asian with similar demeanors). She's right where I'd like a future partner to be: just out of college, some work experience (and we're in the same field), and always seemed pretty innocent. I wouldn't be surprised if she was still a virgin like my ex was when she was in the same position as this girl.
The kicker is she's 1.5k miles away... Any thoughts on setting things up to create/hold interest in case we one day can cross paths? In my mind she could be a solid partner (assuming we actually have good dynamics), but I'm not ride or die to make it work. Colt's article seemed too hardline sexual for someone who may very well be a virgin with a conservative Asian upbringing.
Open to all thoughts and feedback! Including dealing with interest with a maybe virgin.
Thanks all!
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