Low vs High Body Count - What's Ideal? cont.

[Spike]

there are places you can go if you want to see what that world looks like

Also see: Scaling fallacy

 

[POB]

Honestly, didn't have the time to read everything.
That said, I think for a first moment, her body count is irrelevant to me because:
A) mine is probably higher, even if she is promiscous;
B) I'm not a hypocrite, and I truly believe in equal rights when it comes to sex;

Now for a relationship, it heavily depends on what you desire:
- if you want mono, probably close to the medium is better;
- if you want open, then it is a double-edged sword...if it's low, she will probably want to experiment a lot...if it's high, probably means she has a high sex drive an will constantly exercise her options. So again, close to the medium must be the best option.

Now unless you've been with her for a long time, and know you can trust what she says, you will never know for sure.
Then my question is: why care?

P.S. It only matters if you want to be really serious with her, and most women you meet won't fall in that category.

 

[StrayDog]

Then my question is: why care?

it would seem that some guys would think that this can be a certain indicator that she would be his downfall. But I'm like come on guys she'll probably be your downfall either way.

But then again she probably won't at all. y'all are smart cookies.

 

[Skills]

it would seem that some guys would think that this can be a certain indicator that she would be his downfall. But I'm like come on guys she'll probably be your downfall either way.

But then again she probably won't at all. y'all are smart cookies.

Yes the context is guys that want to get serious and no cheated on

 

[Spike]

my question is: why care?

P.S. It only matters if you want to be really serious with her, and most women you meet won't fall in that category

Yeah

 

[POB]

it would seem that some guys would think that this can be a certain indicator that she would be his downfall.

100% irrational thinking...thx red pill

But I'm like come on guys she'll probably be your downfall either way.

Only if you let her....and her body count will be irrelevant if it comes to pass

But then again she probably won't at all. y'all are smart cookies.

Precisely....just be smart and have some self-control...not that hard

 

[StrayDog]

thx red pill

predates red pill by centuries. but yeah, red pill made it in vogue again.

 

[StrayDog]

I don’t use condoms with the girls I sleep with. In that society I would catch a million diseases in no time Vs the current one where girls are more picky (due to slut shaming among other reasons) about who they let inside them.

man you're tempting fate out here. whatever society you're living in

 

[Skills]

As it should be. Imagine living in a society where every girl you sleep with carries a high risk of catching an STD. And each girl your with that does end up getting pregnant, becomes a “cross
your fingers, hope that kid is mine”gamble because you’re only just one of the 12 guys that came inside her that month. That’s what a no slut shaming society would devolve into.

Brah

 

[POB]

I don’t use condoms with the girls I sleep with.

This is not the 70s man, g-zus.

 

[Spike]

This is not the 70s man, g-zus.

There’s quite a few raw doggers in this thread. Hint: they’re tribe elders

 

[Spike]

Brah

Yes. Thankfully we do not live in a world where being a whore as a girl is high value

 

[POB]

There’s quite a few raw doggers in this thread. Hint: they’re tribe elders

Well, playing russian roulette with that shit is not for me.
I only go raw on women I'm already seeing for a while and know I can trust.

 

[StrayDog]

Well, playing russian roulette with that shit is not for me.
I only go raw on women I'm already seeing for a while and know I can trust.

STD risk aside. unwanted pregnancy. so much for choosing a girl, that is or isn't a slut, to mother your children

 

[Rakehell]

Atleast 2-3, nothing over 5-6 relationship wise. But it’s mostly ego and not really a psycho analysis.

It’s hard for me to take a girl seriously when shes sitting on 15+ lays, like claiming something that’s been tossed around and tossed out.

Whereas a low count girl hasn’t been tossed around as throughly yet.

It’s a double standard I kinda don’t want to change, and it arguably makes no difference. Have banged low count girls in the woods, while their boyfriend waited for them, in public bathrooms etc.

 

[Skills]

STD risk aside. unwanted pregnancy. so much for choosing a girl, that is or isn't a slut, to mother your children

Is no logical most players go raw...

 

[Rakehell]

Why is low body count desirable to you? Just a curious question.

I think relationship wise most guys want the ego boost of having something not easily obtainable.

If you get with a girl who has a low to moderate count, she hasn’t been as field tested. Not to say that she can’t be in terms of the extent of those sexual encounters, but not to the extent of a high count girl.

Takes a really secure, openminded, or insane kind of dude to not at some point think about the amount of times someone has had this girl in a compromising position and didn’t make her his.

It’s kind of like a guys version of negative preselection, i’m not really giddy about wifing someone 20+ guys could have but didn’t.

It’s like buying something for 1000$ that was on sale for 10 bucks in my mind.

 

[POB]

Is no logical most players go raw...

Pull-out doesnt prevent anything...
For the record, I absolutely hate condoms.
To be real, I kinda go raw the first 2-3 pumps if she is really hot...then plastic man takes over.

 

[Skills]

Atleast 2-3, nothing over 5-6 relationship wise. But it’s mostly ego and not really a psycho analysis.

It’s hard for me to take a girl seriously when shes sitting on 15+ lays, like claiming something that’s been tossed around and tossed out.

Whereas a low count girl hasn’t been tossed around as throughly yet.

It’s a double standard I kinda don’t want to change, and it arguably makes no difference. Have banged low count girls in the woods, while their boyfriend waited for them, in public bathrooms etc.

Brother it depends on the context if she went to college and slept with 10 guys when in sorority and now she is 30 and slept with 5 boyfriend lasting each 2 years... You turn 38 and you are looking for someone a bit more mature for compatibility and family and shit and she is still attractive, life together and you fall in love is irrelevant...

If you meet a girl in Eastern Europe with 1 lay count and conservative values and come to America you hook up and she tells you the truth she just got here all of a sudden she lives in South Beach and she discovered the scene and want to experience and go into a cock carousel... Makes no difference..

Lay count in my experience no a good indication of probability of stability including guys i helped... Hoc is the closest...

To achieve hoc you can not allow the lay count bias to infiltrate she will eventually catch it, and adjust..

You guys focus should be on allow women to fully trust and open up sexually with 0 judgement during vetting periods...

The above more important than lay count...

Lay count only is not of enough indicator..

You have a 3 lay count that is a piece of shit... That probably adjusted to your liking

And a 15 lay count that is an amazing girlfriend...an honest

I am taking the 15...

I know what chase saying most guys project... This is no the case...

For example in the financial industry we have people that look like rich full of debt and broke..

People actually rich that you have no idea they have money

 

[Spike]

You guys focus should be on allow women to fully trust and open up sexually with 0 judgement during vetting periods...

Yeah but this is not difficult

Lay count only is not of enough indicator.

Good thing I never said it’s the only thing that matters