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The stronger the initial frame set, the easier it is to re-affirm it when challenged.

So it's not a question of how to deal with shit tests but rather, how to set the clearest, strongest frame at start and re-affirm it rigourously when tested (also usually at start) and then surf on that later on.

You're doing one sided monogamy too?


My texting game is decent but I like to keep things minimal on text. I genuinely ain't got time to text and as long as I'm not making major mistakes, I find that I'm good.

As for flakes, surprisingly less and less. I think I'm getting instinctively better at target selection + making a memorable first impression.

I make few approaches these days, except when I need lots of warms ups or I'm genuinely in the flow.
Ahh got it yeah… I have found as long as first impression is good chances of flakes reduce.

Also, like involving them a bit in decision making of setting the date.

One-sided monogamy yeah I want to try. I think I will be soon in a situation to try it so preparing myself for it.
 

James D

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One-sided monogamy yeah I want to try. I think I will be soon in a situation to try it so preparing myself for it.
Nice man!

It's definitely fun. Hope you don't experience the same lack of motivation as I face.

Unless you're a lovey dovey like me and don't mind the occasional dip cuz it's compensated with a great relationship :LOL:
 
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James D

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do you ever give the girl space to chase if she’s not doing that herself.
Yes, especially on the date.

I find the pausing with a poker face I've been working on works perfectly for that.
 

empath

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Nice man!

It's definitely fun. Hope you don't experience the same lack of motivation as I face.

Unless you're a lovey dovey like me and don't mind the occasional dip cuz it's compensated with a great relationship :LOL:
Well I’m but I will just chill out this time and enjoy the ride as much as I can.
 
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