Ahh got it yeah… I have found as long as first impression is good chances of flakes reduce.The stronger the initial frame set, the easier it is to re-affirm it when challenged.
So it's not a question of how to deal with shit tests but rather, how to set the clearest, strongest frame at start and re-affirm it rigourously when tested (also usually at start) and then surf on that later on.
You're doing one sided monogamy too?
My texting game is decent but I like to keep things minimal on text. I genuinely ain't got time to text and as long as I'm not making major mistakes, I find that I'm good.
As for flakes, surprisingly less and less. I think I'm getting instinctively better at target selection + making a memorable first impression.
I make few approaches these days, except when I need lots of warms ups or I'm genuinely in the flow.
Also, like involving them a bit in decision making of setting the date.
One-sided monogamy yeah I want to try. I think I will be soon in a situation to try it so preparing myself for it.