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Hey guys, hope everyone is keeping up.
Haven't posted in a while, since my country is in almost complete lockdown. So....I don't want to screw up the few opportunities I get
A girl I friendzoned myself 3 years back and started seeing her last month and am slowly turning it around came to my place to drink wine, maybe take a walk. We were drinking on the rooftop and then met 2 girls who live in the same building and also came on the rooftop to drink. Instead of making a move on my girl, I decided to rather 'network' that evening.
Long story short, we ended up drinking together.
The first girl, who lives in my building as well is my personal ten, curly hair, graphic design student, was cool but nothing more than social. Got her number, so we can catch up for a coffee.
It's quite obvious I'm going to see her, since we're neighbours. I'm going to invite her over to my place for a coffee or a smoke on the rooftop. Then try to go from there to a glass or wine or doing something fun. She's yellow, as far as the traffic light system is concerned, but smoking hot. I want to shoot my shot.
The second girl is her friend, not from my building. Shes in between cute and hot-ish, studies medicine abroad. She seemed interested and invested. I showed her my flat on the way out, we exchanged facebook (she has a foreign number) as she said ''text me''. I think I have a better chance with her (but hey, you never know).
I plan to text her casually like she said and then invite her over or for a walk.
Here's where I get lost. They're friends and girls talk. It would be awkward to start hitting on one girl then if that fails start hitting on her friend haha
I mean, inspired by Aleks recent series I want to practice indirect.... But I don't want to friendzone myself with both in the end either haha
I hope I'm not nitpicking or overthinking here.
Thoughts?
Haven't posted in a while, since my country is in almost complete lockdown. So....I don't want to screw up the few opportunities I get
A girl I friendzoned myself 3 years back and started seeing her last month and am slowly turning it around came to my place to drink wine, maybe take a walk. We were drinking on the rooftop and then met 2 girls who live in the same building and also came on the rooftop to drink. Instead of making a move on my girl, I decided to rather 'network' that evening.
Long story short, we ended up drinking together.
The first girl, who lives in my building as well is my personal ten, curly hair, graphic design student, was cool but nothing more than social. Got her number, so we can catch up for a coffee.
It's quite obvious I'm going to see her, since we're neighbours. I'm going to invite her over to my place for a coffee or a smoke on the rooftop. Then try to go from there to a glass or wine or doing something fun. She's yellow, as far as the traffic light system is concerned, but smoking hot. I want to shoot my shot.
The second girl is her friend, not from my building. Shes in between cute and hot-ish, studies medicine abroad. She seemed interested and invested. I showed her my flat on the way out, we exchanged facebook (she has a foreign number) as she said ''text me''. I think I have a better chance with her (but hey, you never know).
I plan to text her casually like she said and then invite her over or for a walk.
Here's where I get lost. They're friends and girls talk. It would be awkward to start hitting on one girl then if that fails start hitting on her friend haha
I mean, inspired by Aleks recent series I want to practice indirect.... But I don't want to friendzone myself with both in the end either haha
I hope I'm not nitpicking or overthinking here.
Thoughts?

