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Don Giovanni

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Hey guys, hope everyone is keeping up.

Haven't posted in a while, since my country is in almost complete lockdown. So....I don't want to screw up the few opportunities I get :)

A girl I friendzoned myself 3 years back and started seeing her last month and am slowly turning it around came to my place to drink wine, maybe take a walk. We were drinking on the rooftop and then met 2 girls who live in the same building and also came on the rooftop to drink. Instead of making a move on my girl, I decided to rather 'network' that evening.

Long story short, we ended up drinking together.

The first girl, who lives in my building as well is my personal ten, curly hair, graphic design student, was cool but nothing more than social. Got her number, so we can catch up for a coffee.

It's quite obvious I'm going to see her, since we're neighbours. I'm going to invite her over to my place for a coffee or a smoke on the rooftop. Then try to go from there to a glass or wine or doing something fun. She's yellow, as far as the traffic light system is concerned, but smoking hot. I want to shoot my shot.

The second girl is her friend, not from my building. Shes in between cute and hot-ish, studies medicine abroad. She seemed interested and invested. I showed her my flat on the way out, we exchanged facebook (she has a foreign number) as she said ''text me''. I think I have a better chance with her (but hey, you never know).

I plan to text her casually like she said and then invite her over or for a walk.

Here's where I get lost. They're friends and girls talk. It would be awkward to start hitting on one girl then if that fails start hitting on her friend haha
I mean, inspired by Aleks recent series I want to practice indirect.... But I don't want to friendzone myself with both in the end either haha

I hope I'm not nitpicking or overthinking here.

Thoughts?
 

Velasco

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It would be awkward to start hitting on one girl then if that fails start hitting on her friend haha
You're less likely to fuck it up with the more interested one, so based on this I'd go for the second girl first. Use the amplified attraction from the preselection of banging her (as you say, "girls talk") to bang the other one.
 

FunkMaster69

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hookup with the med student first, use her to get to know your neighbor more by hanging out, once the med student leaves to go back abroad, you ask out the graphics student.
 
a good date brings a smile to your lips... and hers

Derek da man

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It depends how you frame yourself.

If you want both then go for them in fairly quick succession to reduce the changes of them talking and putting the other off. If they find talk and out that you've had them both then they can't really judge each other or you as they are just the same. Alternatively if you want one as a GF then focus on her.

If you set your frame as BF material to get the lay then then take the other as well they will likely see you as fake or a cheat etc. which will kill everything.

I agree with @Velasco though that you stand a better chance with the second girl. Personally I don't go just on a girls looks, I like a personality that I can connect with and she will be open and honest with me as this will usually help to bring out her naughty/kinky side that you won't get without the connection. Then again, for me, sex is about the quality of the experience not just that she looks good. (Don't anyone think that I'm passing a judgement on anyone who goes for looks - it's down to what works best for you)

I'm pleased that you've still got options despite lockdown.
 

Skills

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Go for the hotter one but be very indirect and keep it ambiguous till is a go if the score is not there, start talking a lot about the other friend and show interest on the other friend, the less hot probably know the first dude interest is her hotter friend in the back of her mind. But once with the less hot sell how you were more interested in her than her friend. The whole point of learning all this is to get hotter women
 

Don Giovanni

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I texted both.

hbMEDICINE

DG: hey hb
DG: i was just working on a piece (i mentioned i’m a musician, she was impressed) thought you would like it
DG: how are things going

She didn’t reply for a whole day, then replied couple minutes after I wrote to hb10 .

Didn’t open her fb message yet.

hb10

DG: hey
DG: up for a neighbourhood coffee today or this weekend
DG: don giovanni (first text)

she replied after 20min

hb10: hey! i dont have any time this evening, i have a class till 20.30, but we can do it tomorrow, like 18.00? can i invite hbMEDICINE also?

after an hour

DG: theyre pushing you hard... (the classes, bad translation)
DG: sure
DG: i can invite my roommate

after 5min

hb10: great!
hb10: and also great!

My roommate is a girl also, if that changes anything.

Thanks for the replies, everyone!
 

Don Giovanni

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I outlined our meeting in my new journaly.


Long story short HBBourdeaux was qualifying to me, but wasn’t receptive to my touch. Verbaly very interested but physicaly not so much.

Any idea why?

Should I work on being more smooth?
 

Skills

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I outlined our meeting in my new journaly.


Long story short HBBourdeaux was qualifying to me, but wasn’t receptive to my touch. Verbaly very interested but physicaly not so much.

Any idea why?

Should I work on being more smooth?

funny thing, is last night i was with girl into me made out and everything and her friend was taping(and text me the video, facepalm)... But her friend was my type, i took a risk went for her friend, it was way harder, but i got her lol...

you failed to escalate, you play it safe, you friendzone yourself by not physical escalating and pussing out... You had her on isolation and did not make a move, now you made things 50 times harder on yourself....

Check list:

-coming to your house
- ios( laughing are your comments and jokes
-drinking
-isolation...

you did not make moves = friendzone

^ you can not miss chances like this you need to make moves..

Last night, i had to take multiple attempts to get the friends, till i broke her.
 

Don Giovanni

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funny thing, is last night i was with girl into me made out and everything and her friend was taping(and text me the video, facepalm)... But her friend was my type, i took a risk went for her friend, it was way harder, but i got her lol...

you failed to escalate, you play it safe, you friendzone yourself by not physical escalating and pussing out... You had her on isolation and did not make a move, now you made things 50 times harder on yourself....

Check list:

-coming to your house
- ios( laughing are your comments and jokes
-drinking
-isolation...

you did not make moves = friendzone

^ you can not miss chances like this you need to make moves..

Last night, i had to take multiple attempts to get the friends, till i broke her.

She was unreceptive to touch, what could I have done? Just kept pushing things? I had a feeling I should have made her more comftarble, but didn’t know how...
 

Skills

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She was unreceptive to touch, what could I have done? Just kept pushing things? I had a feeling I should have made her more comftarble, but didn’t know how...
Oh so you tried and she pushed back, my bad, didn't see that, so yeah I guess, last thing to try was second generation verbals
 
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