"Stay focused" doesn't imply a specific goal or plan of action so much as it seems to describe a general state of mind or attitude. It's more like:
What am I doing?
I'm going out to meet a girl, bring her home and sleep with her.
--What am I doing now?
--I'm going to talk to that girl over there.
--What is my purpose in that interaction?
--To open her up, build solid rapport, and get her to move somewhere with me [with a focus on addressing resistance to transitions/moves].
-------She's sending a couple of IOI's, looks good, what do I do now?
-------Build on it, chase frame her.
-------She's accepted the frame, she's mirroring me and letting me lead the interaction.
-------Secure her information, move her.
--Moved her, what now?
--Deep dive, keep it light with chase/sexual framing
-------She's really opening up, what now?
-------Try to escalate a bit physically
-------She's responding really well, seems excited
-------Try to move her home.
-------She's resisting
-------[dealing with resistance: remain confident and warm, diminish her resistance, be persistent without being needy]
-------success
--Moved her home, what now?
--Close
-------No resistance.
-------Proceed to close.
Mission accomplished.
At each stage, I am focused like a heavy duty laser on the specific step at hand, I'm surreptitiously checking for all kinds of signals and nuances from the girl to judge her "temperature", all the while maintaining an outward facade of relaxed confidence and a sexy vibe. This is hard to do when I'm so cold and calculating inside, but when I say "stay on target", I mean moving strategically from point to point to point, and assessing at each one. That kind of highly targeted behavior.
Of course it never goes down that cut and dry, but it has gone
pretty much that way in at least two of my interactions (
[Kate],
[Rose]).