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Troy

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My 2014 Resolution

As 2013 comes to an end and tomorrow is the last day of the year, i decided its time for me to put great focus into my self-improvement. I spent most of my life with no direction and not much accomplished. Ive had many good times in my young life but also went through many failures, rejection and embarrassing situations. Situations that many people go through but many never find the strength to get past. As this year ends i have a few goals to work on:
1) Passing all my exams and learning more in school.

2) Going to the gym and getting stronger, well toned and a sexier body.

3) Im doing penis exercises ( the advice from pegym.com ) to get a bigger penis. I'm around average (5 inches) but i want to get at least 1 to 2 more inches then i can set a new target.

4) And finally, i want to improve my social skills in general. my main focus is on getting over my approach anxiety, making and maintaining friends, and getting good at conversation.

Thats all my goals. Keep it at 5 or less as Chase says to help keep motivation instead of writing a whole lot of new year goals then quitting after 2 months in the year when you still haven't achieved anything.

In terms of improving my social skills, my plan is:

1) Starting January to the end of February i putting most of my focus on the girls chase diagnostic beginner eBook, dealing with my general anxiety and beating it to the ground learning to get better at having interesting conversations with everyone!

Is that too much? I'm not sure but i have 2 more years in high school and so i going to have to burn the house down to achieve them. Of course i wont push non-stop, ill just be doing enough without burnout while rapidly improving.

After February, i plan to do this schedule as closely as possible:

1) Going to meet girls 3 times a week.

2) Going to the gym 2 times a week.

3) doing my studies when i arrive home every night.

4) getting up about 4am for my penis exercises 2 days on and 1 day off intervals (to prevent injury and maximize gains.

I'm going to do my best to stick to this rough plan and ill be updating how these are going on this thread as the year goes by!
 

metomeya

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Good luck!

You are still in high school? You are way ahead of the curve.

I think more than 5 goals is okay if you only do them sequentially. Meaning, you don't even think about goal 2 until you do goal 1. But in your case sounds like you'll have a lot of overlap since approach anxiety takes months or even years to beat (it never completely goes away), less than 5 should do you best.
 
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Troy

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metomeya said:
Good luck!

You are still in high school? You are way ahead of the curve.

I think more than 5 goals is okay if you only do them sequentially. Meaning, you don't even think about goal 2 until you do goal 1. But in your case sounds like you'll have a lot of overlap since approach anxiety takes months or even years to beat (it never completely goes away), less than 5 should do you best.


Metomeya, yes that's true, anxiety dies take a while to go away even though it doesn't completely. Couldn't agree more. Sorry for taking so long to post here.

Troy
 

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It's a bit late at night now but I decided to stay up and watch a movie. I enjoy watching both real life and animation movies and so I've long awaited to see the movie "cloudy with a chance of meatballs 2". In the movie, the young, talented and aspiring scientist, flint Lockwood had been inspired by his role model scientist named Chester v. Lockwood grows up and creates a machine that turns water into food but the food I the end becomes way too much and covering the entire cities. Chester v then sent one of his scientific holograms to convince everyone in town to move to for a little while. while there, Chester v had a secret mission up his sleeves all along and decided to send Lockwood I a journey to stop the monster food from swimming across the ocean and destroying the world. Chester v talk worked and before long he and his father and friends end up back there. shortly after, Lockwood female friend tries to convince him that Chester v is wrong and something is wrong.


So soon Chester v decides to visit the city and meet so with them to do evil in separating Lockwood from his friends. To do this, he tried very hard to manipulate Lockwood I into believing his story by us if what Lockwood wanted to hear and show him his objective. Chester v said this to Lockwood "you need to focus on saving the world, be a hero" .


,The moral of the story and that line I just phrased above is that an objective is very important in achieving your goals. I'm glad I picked this movie to watch not only because of the message but it was also entertaining so watch.






So today, I'll be writing down what are my objectives in seduction to keep me on track. You know the old saying ; any road will take a man to his destination if he didn't know where to go". I don't want any road to take me anywhere in seduction so I'll correct what now. After this post, I'll post another one similar to this titled, finding your niche.



I was thinking what if I don't know or have a clue what I want in seduction and learning the Social arts? is it to find a:

Girlfriend
Wife
Make friends
Build a good Social Circle
Have casual sex with many girls
Improve my skills so help push me up a he ladder when I get a a old job and get a one good money to build an empire

etcetera


Now as time goes by and I improve, my goals may change but for now, I will write down what I think is a the best objectives I see myself achieving and want to achieve in the future.


Troy`s Objectives



Really, all I want out of all the work I am putting in us to get two girlfriends at the same time and probably a few casual sex partners on the side. I have a pretty high sex drive but I don't feel the urge to practise that drive on a pipeline of pussies. I just never felt it that way. In fact, I'd I just had two girlfriends and occasionally to very rarely a new sex partners, then I would guess I would be happy. I don't feel the urge to have slept with 200 women by the time I'm 30. I would say if I got up to feeling for more sex partners then I wouldn't want to sleep with more than 50 girls by the time I reach 30.


Personally, I find having female friends to be a rewarding part of my life, assuming that they aren't just taking up my time and waiving nothing back in return and that I already have my sex and love life fulfilled that I wouldn't feel bad having a cute female fried and not slept with her.

I realize a that a lot of persons an the boards find social circle a waste of time and I agree that in most circumstances it is. However, as much as cold approaching might be rewarding in terms of finding new girls easily, I believe that social circle is more rewarding long term. Picture yourself at 80 years old walking around in the bars and clubs with a walking slick and you are half deaf and blind. And on top of that, you are dragging yourself and your walking stick to go chat to a cute 20 something girl who is 30 feet away. 10 minutes later you just reach up to the spot (only) where the girl was standing.

Not going to happen. I have been thinking recently about what are the differences between having friends and having a social circle. Aren't the two things basically the same? If anyone knows the difference, then you are free to drop it below.

I want to have a social circle, friends and women. I want a good group of a life friends who are my social circle as well; and as Chase discussed in " True Freedom means Many Weak Ties and Few Strong Ones" article, that is exactly what I want to do as well. Every social circle eventually becomes stale antilock anew people.are added so I rather expand as time goes by.



Wrap Up


So I established that what I want in seduction is to :

Get two girlfriends and occasionally another new girl
Have friends and a social circle
Yes! Actually just be friends with girls who add value to my life, as I do the same for them.


Tomorrow I will continue this by writing about "Finding My Niche".

Until next,

Troy
 

Troy

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It's really late now and I can't keep up much longer to write anything sensible I'll.just make a note here that I'm starting to slack off again with writing daily or at least three times a week in my journal here.

Sometimes I force myself to write my field reports. It sometimes takes about one hour to do this and many times when I come from work or school, all I want to do is go sleep or watch a movie and eat food or listen music.

Nevertheless, I am reinforcing my pledge that I will write more often until I love it. In fact I went out today to approach some girls and I had quite a journey. I'll talk about that outing tomorrow.I should have posted "Finding My Niche" from Monday and I still haven't done it when it's Friday. No more promises. Either I will "Do or Do not" but I'll ALWAYS REMEMBER TO PUSH. So

Until my next post (as soon as before this week ends)

Troy
 

Troy

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2014 is coming down to an end and this thread of mine hasn't been updated frequently by myself. As is a norm now, people make new year resolutions and end up throwing them out shortly into the year by about February. I didn't throw out my plan completely but I made a few changes to it. My overall plan now is building social calibration. But you know what I realized?


Every year comes with it's own challenges, and every day as well. So making a plan at the start of the year is not worth it anymore to me. Instead I'll just make short term goals so I can be a lot more flexible in handling the situation at hand.

So a few changes to my journal will be more daily goals, short term goals, updates on how I'm doing and progress made, sticking points listed, and summary writing on things I've learnt recently: how the game of rugby is played, how to cook spaghetti, the latest celebrity news e.t.c. ( to aid in making me more interesting in conversation )

Also I won't bother making promises and saying things like " tomorrow I will make a post on xyz" or " I will go out and report back to you later tonight". Instead I'll just do it and report back my results.

Troy
 

Troy

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