but the compliance wasn't there to move the interactions forward to an instant date? could be an issue with the texting too. if you use android there's an app qksms or quiksms that lets you copy paste messages
there's a GC article about reactions vs. results. a lot of people are going to keep an interaction social and positive, whether for safety with a stranger or just general humanity.
how often are you drinking alcohol during day game?
"but the compliance wasn't there to move the interactions forward to an instant date?" - Exactly.
I had so, so many women say something like "I am flattered", or "more people should do this", or smile at me, acknowledge my approach, blah blah blah, followed by inevitable "I have a boyfriend", or any other excuse.
I mean fuck, I even had some women say stuff like "You are a really handsome guy by the way...But no, don't take this as an invitation...I don't date strangers from the street".
Also, most of the time instant date isn't really possible - remember I did, and do, most of my approaches on busy London streets where most women are rushing around on the way somewhere. There is no time for instant dates most of the time, regardless if compliance is there or not.
Alcohol, are you questioning because you think this affects me? Lol, this is not an issue.
I think the more pressing problem is that the current demographics in London aren't really suitable for me a lot of the time. I am pretty particular about the background of women I am interested in (for long term, at least), and it's like half the women on the streets, bars, transport I see, they are not the right ethnic origin / nationality / culture for me. Ironically, women from these background are actually more open to me, but I am not interested in them. I am pretty much exclusively interested in white women from southern or eastern Europe (and not all countries, just certain specific ones in that region), USA , Canada, Israel, and also Hispanic / Latina women from South and Central America. And that's just for a start. She has to have the right hair colour (dark-ish brunette), right age (under 30), right height (not too short, not too tall), be spiritual / somewhat religious, good education, come from a good family, etc etc... This means I don't even see that many women who I can say wholeheartedly I'd be deeply interested in...
I treat them all as unique individuals, and would I fuck all the women I approach? Sure. Would I want to invest serious time on multiple dates with them before sex? No. I like adventures and fast sex with minimal dates. I've been on so many "dates " prior to 2014 (when I got into 3 year LTR) that I had enough of dates for a lifetime. Would I be open to to marry them? Definitely not, only a very small proportion...
It got so bad that over the last several years I started losing hope that I will ever find a normal girlfriend, let alone marriage material woman in UK, in London at least. My ex (I am still hoping she'll be back) was the closest I got to somewhat marriage material woman (from my viewpoint, as she somewhat hit at least several of important criteria) over maybe last 7 years or so - after thousands and thousands of approaches...
