Hi,
I'm a 20 year old guy, and in april I lost my virginitiy to a hot american exchange student, and we spent a lot of time together until she left (1 month timespan). The first few weeks were purely about sex, and she would spend the night at my place, however after a few weeks we started to develop emotions for each other. My emotions were stronger than hers even though I tried not to show it, but she read me like an open book. I went on a few dates with her in the end, where sex was not the focus, so we bonded a lot. Even though this girl is a party girl, she is just my type. Therefore I suggested an open long distance relationship, after a drunk conversation with her, where she was talking about how her parents met each other. She declined, and basically said in a polite way, that she thinks it's better we fnd partners in our local area. The last few days before she left, she was crying, so obviously she had emotions for me and I got approval from her friends at the night club "ohhh this is the guy that treats you so well?"
I had just learned how to pick up girls at my favourite night club, so I thought that I will get over her quickly as soon as I find a hot girl again. I was wrong.
I have slept with 3 girls since she left, and gotten intimate with a fourth. It has not helped me forget her at all, probably because the girls I slept with were not as attractive.
Since she left I have messaged her on facebook, suggesting that I come to the US and visit since I had saved up some money (she left in late may). Initially, she was interested in that, but in the end she told me that the dates I suggested were not possible for her because of sorority pledging, and she didn't suggest alternative dates, so I guess she simply wasn't interested in meeting me again. Even though this was a strong hint to just back off, I messaged her again after a month or so, and got a very short reply. Then I tried again after 4 months, and she simply ignored my message. As stupid as I am I messaged her again a few months later, and she limited my acces to her page, so I deleted her to try and move on. FInally, a drunken night I got home from the club, and I found her page on facebook and I messaged her again with some bullshit about how much I miss her... She blocked me.
Obviously, I'm never going to see this girl again, and the thought of that makes me she has been in my head like every day since she left. However, I have 2 questions:
1. Why did she go from being so much into me to simply ignoring my messages?
2. Any tips to move on? I'm already trying to hook up with girls and I try to keep as busy as possible.
Thanks
cphchaser
I'm a 20 year old guy, and in april I lost my virginitiy to a hot american exchange student, and we spent a lot of time together until she left (1 month timespan). The first few weeks were purely about sex, and she would spend the night at my place, however after a few weeks we started to develop emotions for each other. My emotions were stronger than hers even though I tried not to show it, but she read me like an open book. I went on a few dates with her in the end, where sex was not the focus, so we bonded a lot. Even though this girl is a party girl, she is just my type. Therefore I suggested an open long distance relationship, after a drunk conversation with her, where she was talking about how her parents met each other. She declined, and basically said in a polite way, that she thinks it's better we fnd partners in our local area. The last few days before she left, she was crying, so obviously she had emotions for me and I got approval from her friends at the night club "ohhh this is the guy that treats you so well?"
I had just learned how to pick up girls at my favourite night club, so I thought that I will get over her quickly as soon as I find a hot girl again. I was wrong.
I have slept with 3 girls since she left, and gotten intimate with a fourth. It has not helped me forget her at all, probably because the girls I slept with were not as attractive.
Since she left I have messaged her on facebook, suggesting that I come to the US and visit since I had saved up some money (she left in late may). Initially, she was interested in that, but in the end she told me that the dates I suggested were not possible for her because of sorority pledging, and she didn't suggest alternative dates, so I guess she simply wasn't interested in meeting me again. Even though this was a strong hint to just back off, I messaged her again after a month or so, and got a very short reply. Then I tried again after 4 months, and she simply ignored my message. As stupid as I am I messaged her again a few months later, and she limited my acces to her page, so I deleted her to try and move on. FInally, a drunken night I got home from the club, and I found her page on facebook and I messaged her again with some bullshit about how much I miss her... She blocked me.
Obviously, I'm never going to see this girl again, and the thought of that makes me she has been in my head like every day since she left. However, I have 2 questions:
1. Why did she go from being so much into me to simply ignoring my messages?
2. Any tips to move on? I'm already trying to hook up with girls and I try to keep as busy as possible.
Thanks
cphchaser