I have a few questions about having success on dating apps.
1. I used different apps before, and have gotten many matches with attractive women. Some apps had way more than others.
I took a break from apps and since I’ve signed back on, I barely getting any matches, and it’s mind boggling.
I used the same pics and everything from when I was getting many matches.
I’ve even asked girls what they thought of my pics and they all told me they liked them and that’s why we matched.
Anyway, this has been going on for some time, so I decided to keep deleting the apps after a week, and even used different information while signing up.
My question is: WTF is going on and what can I do to get the matches I once had?
2. A huge majority of my matches are Black Women, I’m fine with that, but not being able to get all different races of women bothers me.
I can get a few, but you can tell they like Black Men specifically.
So I want to be able to match with all women.
I have no idea where to start though? Should I dress more professional or what?
I summed it up that they aren’t looking for Black Men, which is whatever, but I still would like to see if I can succeed.
3. What would be the best age range for a man to get the most matches?
I’m thinking it would probably be mid-20s, but I’d like to know if that’s true.
4. Should I lie about my age? So I’m at the point now where girls my age to even younger want to claim they want a man to settle down with.
It’s getting redundant, so I figure why not go for younger women? Then I think, what if younger women can’t find me because of their search preferences? Maybe I need to be younger.
I wonder if I do lie, will previous girls that I have matched before see this.
That’s it.
All advice appreciated.
1. I used different apps before, and have gotten many matches with attractive women. Some apps had way more than others.
I took a break from apps and since I’ve signed back on, I barely getting any matches, and it’s mind boggling.
I used the same pics and everything from when I was getting many matches.
I’ve even asked girls what they thought of my pics and they all told me they liked them and that’s why we matched.
Anyway, this has been going on for some time, so I decided to keep deleting the apps after a week, and even used different information while signing up.
My question is: WTF is going on and what can I do to get the matches I once had?
2. A huge majority of my matches are Black Women, I’m fine with that, but not being able to get all different races of women bothers me.
I can get a few, but you can tell they like Black Men specifically.
So I want to be able to match with all women.
I have no idea where to start though? Should I dress more professional or what?
I summed it up that they aren’t looking for Black Men, which is whatever, but I still would like to see if I can succeed.
3. What would be the best age range for a man to get the most matches?
I’m thinking it would probably be mid-20s, but I’d like to know if that’s true.
4. Should I lie about my age? So I’m at the point now where girls my age to even younger want to claim they want a man to settle down with.
It’s getting redundant, so I figure why not go for younger women? Then I think, what if younger women can’t find me because of their search preferences? Maybe I need to be younger.
I wonder if I do lie, will previous girls that I have matched before see this.
That’s it.
All advice appreciated.
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