Objectives: do two cold approaches on quality girls, focus on pre-open and slowness and deep voice
Plan of action: park at mall, do one approach there, grant a pause by buying one item at a store outside, do another approach while exploring less frequented streets
Exfil: visit park for cool down
No Joy. The idea of opening another girl in the mall makes me very nervous. Also, find myself discarding girls as not attractive enough.
I am being social with many people in general, but I'm not learning much there. A couple of encounters to process:
One very young has a sexy smirk as if she just did something nasty. Let her pass without following.
One blonde catches my attention. Keep walking. Loose her while wondering if she's in company of that older lady.
After walking every level twice, feel uneasy thinking how staff notices "this guy just walking around all the time". Skip mall.
A block down, notice group of girls potentially cute. A couple of yards off from their position, there's a girl sitting. As I start walking, that girl gets up and takes a crosswalk to get over to my side. Already past to crosswalk myself, stop, decide to not keep following the others, turnaround and see the girl leaning on streetlamp facing me, eating snack. Again discarding as not super hot, smile and say "enjoy!". She smiles back with mouth full slightly nodding as if to say "thank you".
Close to bus stop, notice possibly cute girl in peripheral vision. Without looking, give her time to pass and see me. Turn and catch her looking, head turned towards me, gleaming smile, brushing hand through hair. She's beeeautiful. Seems to get on another bus. Thoughts race in my head and I fail to say or do anything.
Another girl standing around seemingly a bit lost. Again, I discard her, for not being super hot. I want the one I just saw :/
In bottle blonde, fashionable loose black clothes gets of bicycle and starts walking close behind on the sidewalk. Step aside to let her pass. She thanks me in an overly kind manner. I remark something and walk on.
As I get off automatic stairs, a woman shouts "Hot Bastard!". Don't dare to look until further away when I cannot make out any details. Socially awkward, but kind of respectable.
Hard to digest not having acted on that one beauty, but guess I'm a looker. Will ask the forums if anyone can relate to the most interesting opportunities being so seemingly fleeting and for tips on making them less surprising and overwhelming. Also, I wonder if it's really just looks and a good walk that gets me those interactions?
Instead of discarding, if girl is roughly the type I want, will remind myself that I'll just try to become friends or to have options or simply to give her a chance to show what she's got going for her.
For my "paranoia", I'll add browsing through some stores at the mall.
Besides that woman blurting out her attraction, there was that guy that tries to chat up random passerby and one guy screaming at his girl angrily ... and here I am worrying that walking around looking for girls is weird ...
Some lines derived from today:
[For heavily pierced girl] "Cool style!" Thanks
"How did you develop it?"
[For smoker in deserted park] "Is that of the good stuff?" blah
"I guess you work around here?"
[For bicycle girl] Thank you!
"So what's on _your_ schedule today?"
[For foodie] [Smile]
"Did you cross the street to be closer to me?
[For beauty] "Wait! Don't get on that bus!" Huh?
"It can't get faster than 50 or ..." (well probably no girl knows that movie any more)
For you who read up to here: Feel like letting you down on, again, not opening those "WOW" girls.