NG situations - I need some advice

[weekendwarrior]

Hi guys I went out last weekend and found myself in situations I didn't know how to handle. I had similar problems in these situations before so I need to improve to capitalise on the chances.

Situation 1
I turned up early, the dancefloor was half dead. There was a hot chick I liked on the dancefloor so I went on with my mates. Within a few minutes she danced over with her friend both holding onto each others arms, looking at each other and they both bumped into me a couple times. They didn't stick about long after before walking of. No idea how to open them, they seemed very closed off in a tight circle. (Very loud club, didn't think verbal would work well)

Situation 2
The same hot chick from situation 1 ended up near me on the dancefloor again but had her phone in one hand, drink in the other and seemed very wrapped up talking to her friend. She didn't seem bored or looking away (how to spot a chick not involved in her group). The club was very loud so didn't think verbal would work but couldn't get much of a vibe from her. It just seemed to much of a coincidence she popped up near me a few times but she was always closed off with her body language. Should I have just opened?

Situation 3
I was coming back from the "guys room", this hot chick was on her way to the "chicks room" and she puts her hands on me while walking past in the corridor. Half innocent I'm sliding past and guiding myself, half I'm going to touch you while I do it because I'm interested, I mirror and do the same with her putting my hands on her hips and I could feel/tell she was interested (her hands run over me, huge ioi). Her friend was behind her and ushered her through. I debated pulling her back but figured I'd see her later in the main room (I seen her earlier near the bar). I didn't.

How could I have done better and made the most of these? Thanks guys!

Warrior

 

[weekendwarrior]

More situations!
Hi guys I went out at the weekend which presented more situations I need to get better with. I went out with two friends that I realise don't know anything about chicks. They weren't wingmen and I was flying solo.

Situation 1 @DoWhatWorks (I mentioned this situation earlier)
On the dancefloor there was a group of 4 really hot chicks dancing. I locked eyes with one and we started to vibe, I merged with her group and started dancing with her. We talked a little and she asked for my name, another one of her friends took my hand and I started dancing with her and the first one introduced us.

All 4 girls seemed interested and I was dancing with them all in turn. I won the group over and was playing it safe not escalating to much with one in front of the others while I looked to isolate one. Within 30 seconds of seemingly winning over the group they went back to dancing with each other while I was just about ignored. I didn't really see an opportunity to move faster but I guess I didn't move fast enough.

Situation 2
(Almost identical to a situation on my last post)
A really hot chick was heading to the bar or the "chicks room" while I was making my way further on the dancefloor. We were vibing to the song that was playing, she run her hands on me while she walked by, I took her hands and we danced a little. Her friend behind her ushered her on, she run her hands on me while she walked by. Again I thought about pulling her back but figured I'd see her again. (I seen her a few times before this) but it didn't happen. I should have learned from the last time!

I feel these are wasted opportunities, what could I have done better and made something of these chances? Thanks guys!

Warrior