Nightgame: My experience when going directly for the hot girls versus socializing with everyone at the venue.

[KnownUniverse]

hook up culture is dying/dead. Perhaps it peaked in the 70s (free love era) and has been on the decline ever since.I remember how fun and wild clubbing used to be 20 years ago when I turned 18; everyone was getting drunk and being were much less inhibited. Sluts were everywhere. Now everyone is sober and prudish.

 

[Teevster]

hook up culture is dying/dead. Perhaps it peaked in the 70s (free love era) and has been on the decline ever since.I remember how fun and wild clubbing used to be 20 years ago when I turned 18; everyone was getting drunk and being were much less inhibited. Sluts were everywhere. Now everyone is sober and prudish.

Sorry to hear that.

-Teevster

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

However, I also have noticed that there is a lot of biases around when beginners and intermediates tries to assess whether a girl is a waste of time or not. Maybe she is a bit cold and grumpy. You assume she is hard? but what if, once you crack the initial phase, she ends up having pristine logistics and no resistance to sex. Was she hard?

Or maybe she is hard, but you have perfect logistics and perfect setting to run the type of game that is required to "crack her".

Many examples here. This is why I think going for the early game screening thing as a default, may not be so wise after all - at last not all the times. It can easily turn into a cope/crutch.

I wrote about this subject here and here.

Meant to get back to you but life has been crazy and hectic in previous weeks, sorry about that man.

Interesting way you put it here.

You also say your Game "peaked" when you were in your 20s, do you feel like you get laid less now in your 30s because of age or what? Interested to hear how the Game changes in your opinion once a guy hits his 30s as I am about to turn 32 soon.

 

[Teevster]

You also say your Game "peaked" when you were in your 20s, do you feel like you get laid less now in your 30s because of age or what? Interested to hear how the Game changes in your opinion once a guy hits his 30s as I am about to turn 32 soon.

Nah, the answer is quite simple: with age comes other responsibilites (and other interests) and thus I am not going out 3 times a week, and staying out for 10 hours like I used to (my body cant handle it no more). So being less active, means less practice, means less sharpness.

But overall, I feel like I get away easier with things nowadays - I get more for free. So the whole thing that the 30's is a man's prime makes total sense. Pick up has never been easier. So I kind of need less "game".

-Teevster

 

[Velasco]

But overall, I feel like I get away easier with things nowadays - I get more for free. So the whole thing that the 30's is a man's prime makes total sense. Pick up has never been easier. So I kind of need less "game".

yes this matches my experience

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Nah, the answer is quite simple: with age comes other responsibilites (and other interests) and thus I am not going out 3 times a week, and staying out for 10 hours like I used to (my body cant handle it no more). So being less active, means less practice, means less sharpness.

But overall, I feel like I get away easier with things nowadays - I get more for free. So the whole thing that the 30's is a man's prime makes total sense. Pick up has never been easier. So I kind of need less "game".

-Teevster

I see what you mean. I am more of the opposite though. Spent my 20s working 70+ hr weeks and saving so much money to the point I can lose my job and last 3 years at least on living expenses. However, I kind of relied too much on the apps for getting laid and did not put in the work on Game so I feel like I am almost in reverse and making up for lost time.

 

[Teevster]

I see what you mean. I am more of the opposite though. Spent my 20s working 70+ hr weeks and saving so much money to the point I can lose my job and last 3 years at least on living expenses. However, I kind of relied too much on the apps for getting laid and did not put in the work on Game so I feel like I am almost in reverse and making up for lost time.

Well, not too late to learn. But be patient. It can take some time before it really clicks. The learning process is not linear. It is normal to not get much results for a while and you may not see progress despite putting in the effort. And then suddenly it clicks and you reach a whole new level asap.
-Teevster

 

[Skills]

Between 33 and 38 were my best years... Again most guys if they take care of themselves should look at least 10 years younger... If you are in your 30s and look in your 20s you should be able to get all the way down to 16 were is legal... with the advantage of more reps and experience and bit more money... All that makes imho 30s the prime years for any seducer... I have said that a million times..

 

[Swati]

Between 33 and 38 were my best years... Again most guys if they take care of themselves should look at least 10 years younger... If you are in your 30s and look in your 20s you should be able to get all the way down to 16 were is legal... with the advantage of more reps and experience and bit more money... All that makes imho 30s the prime years for any seducer... I have said that a million times..

could you elaborate more on the nuances between 20-30-40-50, around 60+ IDK how often my dick would still work.... I feel like wanting to fuck like a rabbit was best during 20s or being my smoking habits decreased my sex drive

 

[Skills]

could you elaborate more on the nuances between 20-30-40-50, around 60+ IDK how often my dick would still work.... I feel like wanting to fuck like a rabbit was best during 20s or being my smoking habits decreased my sex drive

I mean everyone is different... But 20 to 30 you are trying to figure out what works banging a lot of girls and going to school and entering work force post college... looking for way to leave home from parents... You got short term relationships and or rotations... usually you don't really know what you are doing trying to figure out what works...

If you do good with women you may get onitis somewhere and get serious and or married... Some get girl pregnant...

Usually after ltr doesn't work they come back again in the 30s and kill it cause is the prime and probably make a bit more money than 20s sex drive is still high, but after a while usually after 35 they start getting bored and want ltr or marriage or kids..all their wings getting married and or ltrs..

40s sex drive come down and they do more like app games or venues targeting older crowds, and slowing down or leaving the game... A lot settled down like janka..

Again none of that has to be like that there are a lot of outliers... Which is a few of the guys in the forum... But most go to red pill movements or denounce pua..

I think Chase has better break downs since he interact with more seducers than i... I am also an outlier among outliers lol...

But yes chase better than me with sociology stuff...

A lot of married men cheat, or get pros or sugar babies... Double lives..a lot kead women on if i had to hear from my female friends, he is in a middle of a divorce/separated just living together he is just waiting to leave and I get a dollar i would be a millionaire...

 

[Teevster]

could you elaborate more on the nuances between 20-30-40-50, around 60+ IDK how often my dick would still work.... I feel like wanting to fuck like a rabbit was best during 20s or being my smoking habits decreased my sex drive

Sex was definitly better in my teens and 20s

 

[Swati]

Sex was definitly better in my teens and 20s

you were one of the lucky few that got to enjoy it during your prime playa