I'm pretty hesitant to buy a couch. I'm moving out of this small apartment in a few months.
Right now, I have a TV next to my big bed and also two tables (one for work, one for eating). There's not much room for a couch/TV setup on top of that.
1. What would you recommend in terms of setting up the bachelor pad to deal with this? I know the girls chase article suggests getting her on the couch by the TV and putting on world news and music but I guess I really don't want to spend 200$ to buy a couch just to use it for a few months and displace one of my desks that I use.
2. I could also ask her to join me in bed immediately to watch the TV. How would you ask a girl to join you? How would you phrase it? I feel a bit awkward about it.
Man: "Hey, let's go watch some TV. I connected my computer to this TV, come here " ( I get onto the bed)
>>Alright and now I am hoping she will get on the bed next to me and it doesn't trigger any resistance
Woman: "I don't know, getting in bed with a guy I just met.."
Man:"[motions her to over] Come on, its nothing, we'll watch some TV
I actually don't have any TV cable setup. Just a computer connected to a TV and internet for Netflix, etc.
3. When you bring her back to your place, is it a bad idea for you two be sitting next to each other at a table? It seems less ideal than a couch where you two are laying back but if she refuses to get in the bed, it may be my only choice
Not making excuses, just kicking around some ideas and trying to make the best of the options/trying to think of some alternate options I'm not considering
Right now, I have a TV next to my big bed and also two tables (one for work, one for eating). There's not much room for a couch/TV setup on top of that.
1. What would you recommend in terms of setting up the bachelor pad to deal with this? I know the girls chase article suggests getting her on the couch by the TV and putting on world news and music but I guess I really don't want to spend 200$ to buy a couch just to use it for a few months and displace one of my desks that I use.
2. I could also ask her to join me in bed immediately to watch the TV. How would you ask a girl to join you? How would you phrase it? I feel a bit awkward about it.
Man: "Hey, let's go watch some TV. I connected my computer to this TV, come here " ( I get onto the bed)
>>Alright and now I am hoping she will get on the bed next to me and it doesn't trigger any resistance
Woman: "I don't know, getting in bed with a guy I just met.."
Man:"[motions her to over] Come on, its nothing, we'll watch some TV
I actually don't have any TV cable setup. Just a computer connected to a TV and internet for Netflix, etc.
3. When you bring her back to your place, is it a bad idea for you two be sitting next to each other at a table? It seems less ideal than a couch where you two are laying back but if she refuses to get in the bed, it may be my only choice
Not making excuses, just kicking around some ideas and trying to make the best of the options/trying to think of some alternate options I'm not considering