No reply after the first date

[danbrazilian]

Do you consider it over and move on if she doesn't reply to your message after the first date? Or do you judge it case by case? I'm referring to cases where no sex or even kissing happened. Sometimes you just know there is no point in trying to persue her further, but I had this situation recently where I'm not sure. The date was not great, but it was not too bad either. So, I'm wondering should I text her again. And if yes, what do I say?

 

[MrVariety]

Normally you want to wait around 2 weeks and send a new message.

Don't mention that she has ghosted you. Text as if your previous text don't exist.

The best texts are those that are only understood by you two alone. You could reference something you have in common.. or talked about "How has your training been lately" ... maybe you relate something funny you did or saw that reminded of her... Or you can just keep it simple and ping her by something simple like "Hi! What's up? "

Never under any circumstances betray any emotional upset about lack of response. Unless you're being funny about it.

Mr Variety