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ocantu1987

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ray_zorse said:
Actually I thought it was fucking awesome the way you called her out and persisted, gotta look for the small victories man, this gets a huge thumbs up from me :)
Ray

thanks man. Yeah thats a good way of looking at it. I cant give up yet.
 

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Just noticed that last bit about bulking up, well yes, fundamentals always help, but don't forget it's mainly about your behaviour (conversation, sexual/chase frames, posture, eye contact, sexual vibe). You can get pussy man, just believe in yourself, that if you went out right now using the skills you will learn in the coming months, you could bring a lady home no problem. It's simply a matter of working hard and smart.
Ray
 

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thats right man, i got to quit putting pussy on the pedestal, become a stronger version of myself. will keep approaching :)
 

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man just got banned from a website called roosh v, i have been reading "bang" by roosh and thought I d join the forum since they read the same book. I thin k this is what did me in

"hmmm thats sounds cool man, i never thought about that.

There is a restaurant next to my house that has a dj once a month. Ive been there tons of times but have failed alot due because I cant dance and theres maybe 1 young girl out of a bunch of senior citizens, so I end up asking only 1 girl to dance the whole night wich pisses me off as I feel needy.

the last time I was there I danced with a big tit white girl twice, I then invited her to take a shot with me, then she didnt know how to take a shot (wtf, was she underage?) I couldn't find anyone to dance with and I ended up asking her again and she gave me a big no.

Still pisses me off to this day, and I ive been rejected tons at that place that ive said why go back? haha

not trying to sound negative man, but im thinking Im doing something wrong. any tips?"


mentioning an underage girl was the nail in the coffin haha omg I do not mess with underage girls, i danced with that girl because I thought she was in her 20's. She didnt know how to take a shot wich gave her away, but still I did not mess with her lol. They gave me no warning.

well I have girlschase still I hope I dont get banned from here. Gonna get back in the field soon.
 

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Im BAckkkkkk! lol went out tonight with a goal to approach at every bar I went to get me loose again, and despight taking 2 months off for bullshit reasons, I approached pretty confidently haha I had a little anxiety but I crushed it.
Still reading "Bang" by Roosh V and I like his book alot although he was an asshole for banning me from his website for stupid stuff. I used his time constraint on every set and it worked every time.

so @ 9:30 i put on a polo shirt brown dress shoes, and blue jeans and head out to the first bar wich is 30 miles away erghh, I swear ill move down there to improve my logistics haha anyway I arrive at the bar, I was feeling sleepy as hell for some odd reason so I ordered a coffee because Im taking a page from radeng and going sober game, I call it going "samurai."

in reality ive been abusing alcohol lately and want to cut it down, so I was sober all night haha. At the bar I didnt see any sets to approach except I noticed every fucking waitress had DD tits oh my god =D I thought this is not a coincidence the owner purposely hired them for their tits haha all natural by the way, I dont spit game to "Hired guns" although I love huge tits and I may have to talk to them.

I left that bar and went to the bar next door called "bombshells", it was jam packed, with plenty of hotties. I went to the bar to get some water and notice a cute latina with her fat friend at the bar I opened them.
Me: hey, having fun yet? *sarcasm*
Her: oh yeah *she smiles*
Me: how do you ladies like this bar, it is really crowded tonight
Her: yeah blah blah blah *cant remember what she said*
Me: ive never been here before cant believe I missed this location *lied here, ive been there already*
Her: yeah blah blah blah *fuck cant remember*
her:*waitress gives them their shots* well see you later
me: Ok *I sat back down and looked around some more*

I notice 2 latinas sitting at a table and approached. Cant remember much again, but ill do my best.

Me: hey ladies having fun yet? *sarcasm*
Her: yes!
Me: Im Oscar
Them: Ashley and Blank *cant remember her name, but she showed interest in me*
Me: *grabbed a chair* I cant stay long
Blank:eek:h ok
Me: So where are yall from?
Her: Whaat!? *it was fucking loud*

Blank couldn't hear me so i grabbed a chair and sat right next to her.
She was giving great signs asking me questions while playing with her earrings smiling. She asked the basic boring questions and I tried to be witty,but the noise fucked things up for me.

Her: what do you do?
Me: I live off the land
Her: whaat!?
Me: I live off the land, you know grow marijuana *serious face*
Her:eek:h ok
Me: haha just playing, did you really believe me? lol
her: well yes lol

Ill skip to interesting parts

Blank: *talking to her friend* perhaps we could hear better over there
Me: lets move over there *attempted a move*
Blank: no thats alright, there are no seats available.

Her: im a teacher
Me: oy yeah math?
Her: yeah i teach 5th graders
Me: so that means you got a bachelors?
Her:yep!
Me: haha thats good, im still struggling to get my associates
her: whaa shes got her bachelors too you should join the club *she points to her friend, I did engage her a lil bit*
Me: haha you are the kind of girls I would have cheated off of in high school haha
Them: haha *they got kinda of serious all of a sudden*

Blank looked away towards the direction of a swoll dude who btw had zero ladies around him lol. I told her...
Me: that swoll dude over there is checking you out haha *made this up*
Her: whaat haha no. *She looked and gave a not interested look*

After this blank kind of died down, I guess I said some thing wrong haha She was giving me great signs, also her friend was cold at first, but she warmed up to me.
Repartee was great with this set, I had them laughing at everything, but got to remember not to be a clown.

Anyway, I went for the number close on blank despite her mood swing.
Me: we should hangout *get my phone out to hand it to her*

SHIT TEST! I was ready for this actually, I looked up some comebacks to this as I get this alot. I used to believe girls that said this, but now i think they lie like a motherfucker all the time. She was giving great signs, she had single written all over her IMO
Her: I have a boyfriend
Me: its okay Im not the jealous type *sarcastic smile*
*try to hand her my phone*

Her: No I have a boyfriend lol *she was smiling*
Me: you look like you can have two *sarcastic smile*
*try to hand her my phone*

I stop myself and tell her and her friend good night and leave. Im thinking right now why the hell did I leave? there were plenty of chicks around. I think its because i would be embarrassed if these girls saw me approaching other sets. Fuck this, no more of that shit, I will stick around next time ;)

went to ojos locos sports bar and scouted the area, plenty of tables and I see 2 latinas sitting alone, I wait for a boyfriend to show up and none, time to approach.
Me: hey ladies having fun yet? *smile, got this opener from Bang. My boss also says this alot too*
Them: yes!
Me: how do you like this bar?
Them: its cool :)

They start asking questions about me and according to "bang," this is a sign of interest, So I give time constraint again without their permission and grab a chair. Didnt know the girls chair had her purse haha the chick oh ok sit down and removed her purse from the chair, sweet.
Me: Im Oscar
Them: Ivonne , Kenya
Me: what yall celebrating
Them: Blah blah blah

they asked the same boring questions

Kenya: so what do you do?
Me: Im an autocad desingner
Kenya: cancer designer??
Me: haha yeah im helping to find the cure to cancer lol
Them: lol
Me: so are ya'll teachers? *that last set. that chick was a teacher lol*
Them: LMAO teachers!? lol nooo
Them: are you a teacher?
Me: who me? haha Im a coach ;)
Them: lmao

skipping to the good parts.

Them: what that your drinking? *glass of water*
Me: oh what this? this is everclear going beast mode tonight *sarcasm*
Them: lmao

Me: so how old are yall?
Ivonne: 26
Kenya ummm 24 *she looked older haha*
Her: hmm are telling the truth *sarcasm*
Kenya: lol
Them: how old are you?
Me: hmm guess? *I smiled*
Kenya: 29 *Im 28*
Me:eek:uch! lol
Them: 21 lol *cause its a bar*
Me: what hmmm maybe not, im drinking water and I could be 18 just look old haha
Them: lol

things died down quick once the waitress asked if they are ready to order food, they ordered and started kinda blowing me off answering their text and giving me one-word answers. hmmm why does this happen to me??? I did use a pheromone spay which can cause attraction in women, but I think can cause this too. Ever time I use "Instant jerk pheromone" I get a confidence boost and women show more interest in my approach. Im thinking i may drop these pheromones and I will order a cologne. Pheromones can work in my experience, but not all the time. They can make guys hostile towards you quick too.

Me: *look at my watch* oh shit looks like its past my bedtime *playful sarcasm*

I decided not to go for the number because they blew me off beforehand.

Me: Well Ill leave ya'll ladies alone.
Them: By nice meeting you

as I walked outside I saw 2 white girls walking towards the entrance and I instantly approached from the front.
Me: hey ladies ya'll gotta let me buy you drinks lol *bullshit of course, im broke*
Them: ummm well its her birthday
Me: are you girls single?

the hotter girl pointed to her friend who looked nerdy

Her: shes single, but im not *serious tone*

they start walking away all shy'ish
Me: hold on let me talk to yall

They keep walking

Me: aint ya''ll gonna let me introduce myself? *sarcasm*

they went inside lol

overall I had fun, Im not as rusty as I thought and im feeling the desire to go out to meet women as Im doing nofap 30 days porn/masturbation free. Nofap gives a boost in confidence as well as a desire to be social with everyone including guys. As well as make you horny lol I also believe your body exudes pheromones from the testosterone boost that nofap also gives, although im not turning heads. Its an on and off thing really. Last 30 day streak i had, a girl could not keep her eyes off me, I think women can sense your loaded gun lol

My new motto is "A woman is my only release."

I got to keep approaching, no more breaks for me or maybe take a week off every now and again, but not 2 months lol.

I plan on daygaming tommorow and shoot for as many numbers as I can. Definitely got alot of work to do to fix my game, im great at being brave at approaching, but i havent got results yet. Hopefully soon I can post up a LR ;)
 
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ocantu1987

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thanks for the help radeng. Yeah im definitely going for more numbers like you say. Having fun is so important I realize now haha I like to tease girls alot and making comebacks on their shit test feels freaking awesome lol.

On chase frames radeng, how do you do them, can you give examples? ive exhausted all my articles this month

Ive been reading a little bit of your journal and noticed you do mediation. How has mediation helped you radeng? ive heard it helps you keep out of your head when doing pick-up. Might want to implement for myself.

btw congrats on leveling up here radeng, you've racked up a bunch of lays man :)
 

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@Radeng: cool man I will add chase frames for sure, I appreciate all the help. You are helping me improve my game alot man.

Just got back from daygame and it went quite well although i did get some harsh rejections too haha no big deal though. I was in desperate need of a haircut but went out anyway with what I got (shirt, jeans), it did effect my confidence a little bit seein how much of an afro i had. Next time I got to be fresh shaven, and fresh cut it does wonders for my inner game.

went to Academy to see if their were any girls, i saw 1 who was around alot of people and I chickened out. I walked around more and saw nothing until I was leaving. I saw two latinas, 1 of them was talking on the phone and the other ws not. I chickened out again.

went to barnes and noble and didnt notice much until I saw a latina with short shorts reading a book. I was chickening out again erghh haha went to see the batman comics then I said here we go fuck it! walked over there.
Me: Hey, excuse me youre cute.
Her: thanks....

I left, after that. Warm up done, on to the mall.
As I walked into the mall I saw a nice thick chick with a pretty orange dress, but I chickened out again or maybe I worry if their husband is around lol. Kept walking and I saw a white girl texting sitting at a table
Me: Did you get my text? *smile*
Her: um no *she was smiling*
Me: haha im Oscar, whats your name?
Her: Juliana
Me: Nice name, what are you up to today?
Her: nothing taking a break from work
Me: where you work at?
Her: across the street
Me: ok cool are you single?
Her: um no its kinda of complicated, but I do have a boyfriend
Me: Ok have a nice day

I was still trying to get warmed up, man my tongue was much looser last night at the bar and I didnt drink haha

I saw another cutie walk towards me, i came at an angle approaching at the front
Me: excuse me hey

She waved her hand at me to fuck off ouch lol

Went to the chick shop called forever 21, I saw a thick white girl shopping.
Me: Hey I saw you from over there and I like your outfit
Her: why thank you *she was smiling*
Me: Im Oscar
Her: Brittany
Me: what you up to today?
Her: just shopping
Me: your half german right? *Roosh line*
Her: no half mexican lol
Me: for real me too oh wait no im full mexican lol
Her: lol

her girlfriend came up, I said hi to her and just said fuck it.
Me: *tapped her arm* well you have a nice day
Her: you too

I went upstairs on the escalator. I saw a big tit latina man she was exactly my type. she had tattoos like me, dressed sexy showing some cleavage. My best approach today.
Me: Hey i saw you from over their and i think youre cute, what are you up to? *eye contact was good and i said it in low voice*
Her: thank you *her face lit up*
Me: Im Oscar
Her: Anna *Fuck i dont actually remember if her name was anna, why do I keep forgetting names*
Her: Austin?
Me: No Oscar haha I get that alot
Her: oh yeah lol
Me: what you dong today?
Her: oh nothing just shopping
Me: you look bored
Her: lol *she lit up again*
Me: so do you live around here
Her: yeah in League city

skipping to the good parts, my eye contact and smile was on and she was asking me questions smiling.

Her: what are you doing today?
Me: me just shopping too although I saw you and had to talk to you, pretty brave of me huh? *solid eye contact*
Her: yes lol *her face lit up again, nice*

Me: what do you do
Her: secretary
Me: thats an important job too
Me: do you go to school around here?
Her: yeah san jacinto college
Me: me too I went to san jac for a semester
Her: wow really, cool lol

Her: what do you do?
Me: I live off the land... you know sell herbs *sarcasm*
her: lol *smiling again*

Me: Does this sound like an interview ? *being sarcastic again*
Her: no lol

Me: we should grab a drink some time
Her: sure!

I hand her my phone.

Me: Put your number in *not asking, telling ;)*

She put it in, and she also called my phone without me telling her to.

I saw her phone and said
Me: damn thats a big ass phone
Her: yeah lol

Me: well nice meeting you :)
Her: you too :)

I didnt shake her hand or give her a hug, maybe I should try a hug next time I get a number????

Got out of forever 21 and walked the mall again. I saw a petite black girl walking towards me, she isnt my type but I approached anyway

Me: hey, I thought you were cute and had to say hi
Her: oh thank you
Me: what you up to today?
Her: looking around you know
Me: you look bored though
Her: lol
Me: your hair looks nice btw
Her: thank you
Me: where you from?
Her: La marque
Me: oh yeah I live in texas city, boring place huh? do you travel just to party *la marque is right next to texas city*
Her: oh yeah, im actually moving to houston
Me: nice
Me: so are you a hair stylist?
Her: haha no
Me: ahh ok your a kung fu master haha
Her: lol you know it
Me: we should grab a drink some time
Her: sure.
*hand her my phone*
Me: put your number in
Her: ok
Me: ok nice meeting you, btw since you know kung fu you could kick my ass if im not a gentleman haha
Her: lol right

Didnt dig this girl, but my eye contact was strong with her. Just practice

I walked around some more and saw 2 smoking hot latinas walking towords me. I went to my default 2 set approach

Me:*stepped in fron of them* hey ladi...umm ladies , you shoul...should let me buy ya'll a drink *I was stuttering here, wtf*

She looked at with a mean ass face, and said something that sounded like fuck off ouch! lol
2 guys witnessed this and I played it off because they looked at me like I was crazy.
Me: haha guys I was just fucking around haha
Guys: ah ha ok

I shouldn't care what people think, but this approach felt embarrassing.

went to another mall closer to my home town and it sucked, no single girls walking around. Im thinking i will stick to approaching girls by themselves only, groups are tough haha although at a bar its no biggie for me.

well thats it. I was not as loose tongue as last night, I aslo didnt wear any pheromones haha although i feel they do assist me with the self effects i get. I will experiment with them but not get crazy

I was also walking around with a water bottle on all these approaches, I think it did good for my body language lol

texted both girls with an icebreaker.

Latina with them tits haha
Me: hey nice meeting you save my number-oscar ;)
Her: same to you :)

I dont remeber if her name is anna or not dont know what to do if i text her again, and i dont know her name haha what do i do????

African american girl
Me: nice meeting a kung fu master. save my number-Oscar ;) *dont know where i came up with kung fu master haha kinda silly*
*no reply*

i think i will start doing night game on friday nights and daygame on saturdays every week. Any where else i go if i see a girl (grocery stores etc.) I will approach! I hope thats enough, although i get stronger after every approach.

Dang daygame is for the the true warriors haha it is tough but Im going to crush it ;)
 

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Smashing it my brother, this was very heartening to read, makes me feel like quite a pussy in comparison, great stuff ;)
Ray
 

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ray_zorse said:
Smashing it my brother, this was very heartening to read, makes me feel like quite a pussy in comparison, great stuff ;)
Ray

thanks ray. Ive reread my journal and I was amazed at my progress.
 

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radeng said:
Ocantu,

Yes, amazing work here! Dude your confidence is inspiring, keep it up.I feel exactly like Ray here. haha if I had half the approach confidence you show here, I can't even imagine how much more pussy id have right now. Its coming man, keep it up!

I also stole your line last night for what might have been one of my smoothest number swaps ever.

Saw three extremely sexy girls walking to the club. I was alone, and the hottest one was behind the other two texting as I walk up beside.

me:did you get my text yet?
her:*surprised* haha no!
her friend in front, also hot:OMG I've never heard that one before
*both girls in the front beam at me*

Honestly forget the exact convo, I was very in the moment. But everything from my lips was butter at this point. I also, ignored her friends who looked bitchy but were basically so impressed with that line and the fact that I didn't break circle for them that they just kind of looked dumb struck goofy smiling at me.

me:haha where are you heading tonight.
her:we are going to the xxx club.
me:Oh great, I am waiting on a friend and we are going in too.
me: But I have to wait here for them, so give me you're number and I really will be texting you next time. *handed phone*
her:*Laughs* and says OMG ok I will but only because you are so smooth
me:Is that all I am to you?
friend:You better give him your number!
her:Well you're pretty cute too! *puts number in giggles and walks inside*

Anyway, preesh for the line! Don't know whats going to happen with her because the interaction was so short, but we've been texting and I am feeling confident about getting her out for drinks now.

This is my new favorite line hands down for a girl who is texting!

Radeng

Awesome man! I got that line from Johnny berba infield videos haha he always used it on girls texting on their phones.
 

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Gonna work on some chase frames. I just thought of one I could have used a while back on a girl which made me crack up haha

Her: So how are you like James Bond?
Me: Cause I see alot of action ;)
 

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Messaged latina big tits from the mall on monday @11:00am

Me: Hey anna, hope your day is going well, was thinking you and I should grab a drink. Whats your schedule like?

*She didnt reply until the next day @4:30pm lol*

Anna: Hey sorry for not responding

*I was going by roosh V Text giude and he says match their response times, and I was going to wait a whole day myself, but she sent another text @8:15pm*

Anna:Hey

*I decided to respond*

Me:sup

*1hr later lol*

anna:Do you have instagram?

*I waited 30 minutes because it was getting late. Dont know much about instagram, maybe she wanted me to be one of her horny followers lol*

11:31pm Me: na too many girls were asking for shirtless pics of me it got weird, so i got off ;) *erghh i think this was so lame lol*

*30 minutes later haha she was also matching my response time clever girl*

12:01am lol wth *she sounded rude their*

*it was getting late and remembering what chase says about text, its best used to set up dates i went for it*

12:15am so how about drinks on friday @8pm me and you sexy? ;)

12:30am I work weekends

I could use feedback here guys, but at the same time im adopting abundance mindset. Im getting better at this haha 85% of me does not care if I lose this girl or not lol I was always afraid to lose girls in the past, but I read tymes thread on abundance and realized just how many big tit latina girls are everywhere (other girls too) and I can just keep daygaming.

This girl didnt give me a counteroffer wich roosh says is a sign she doesnt want to go out with you, so I let it go. Im thinking NEXT!

never did message the black girl, she is not my type haha
 

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thank you thank you thank you radeng! man are you a professional PUA? haha :)

I agree on everything you said. i will do exactly what you said here.

yeah my wannabe chase frame didnt pan out, still got to practice.

I actually did sent her an icebreaker 2 hours after we met

good call on calling her sexy, ive done that alot with other girls haha will stop that.

So yeah man im moving on to the next girl, but what should i do if she text me again? I am already about to delete here number haha
 

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gotcha will do, thanks radeng.
 

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speak of the devil radeng she texted me again just now haha I guess its a great sign? so ill persist like you said
 

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Anna texted me out of the blue yesterday haha

9:03pm Anna: hey
Me: what u doin :)
Anna:working wyd
Me: nextflix watching dexter u ever seen it? *going for a little rapport, last girl i dated loved dexter as much as me*
Her: no ive heard of it though, ive been on a nextflix binge for the past days
Me:eek:h yeah what you been watching
Her: attack on titan
Me: any good? sounds like its for nerds lol
Her: lol its an anime, its really good. im kinda a nerd *a hot latina that watches anime, I would have never thought it*
Me: anime!? u a fan of dragon ball z? *I loved that show when i was a kid*
her:never got into dbz, was more into things like inuKvothea and naruto.
Me:haha cool I like that. not many girls are into that
her: :)

I didnt ask her out there. I made a judgement call there and just texted a lil bit. I think she still is not sure about me. Today I decided to follow what radeng said and go for it.

today 6:32pm me:anna sup u stayin out of trouble ;)
6:33pm her: never
7:13pm I cant seem to come up with something clever to convince you to go out for a coffee with me lol your working weekends but when are you free? *that sounded weird haha i spoke my mind really*
7:15pm her: im off mondays tuesdays and thursdays
7:21pm me: ok great! coffee this tuesday

I was at the pool hall getting ready to play in the league and i started checking my phone constantly to see if she responded haha dont devolop one-itis oscar, abundance, abundance, abundance.

I left my phone in my car because of this and just played pool. When I was done, here is what she said...

8:48pm her: sounds good
9:54pm me: Ill text you then and well iron out the details :) *thanks radeng*

lets see what happens. hard to tell from text messages but she sounded non-enthusiastic. I think ill be fine as long as i keep going to sarge! I want to get more numbers, she is just one girl, so friday-night game saturday daygame. Hopefully i have enough money for the date if it happens lol im broke.
 

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Just got back from some mall daygame and it sucked lol didnt get any numbers. I went direct on all of them and girls told me "my boyfriend is around here" i got that several times. only 1 girl was warm to my approach but she mentioned her boyfriend haha

1st mall i visited was pathetic i saw hardly any girl by themselfs or I would see a hot girl with her kid. I approached 1 latina and good god her breath stank like a son-of-bitch haha she looked decent though.

I saw one girl from my past and she looked at me. I asked her out in college but she flaked.

I saw another girl from the pool hall at the mall who is smoking hot, but 17 years old haha thats what my pool buddys told me.

Lots of jailbait today, i started around 2 in the afternoon

The biggest thing to happen was I saw Anna lol. She was with a guy who was following her around I suspected it was her boyfriend. I think she may have saw me, but not sure. I was going to follow her a lil bit to see if i was right that it was her, but she vanished strangely enough.

So 2 things here
1. she told me she works weekends, but i saw her at hot topic with her man browsing
2. that guy has to be her boyfriend, good looking guy to be with her and following her around like a puppy dog

I thought about nexting her but i told myself that i am not looking for a girlfriend, i just want to fuck. So if she goes out with me tuesday i will do the best i can to bring her home, fuck and peter north her face lol

i also have been hanging out with an old buddy of mine Its been 5 years. I grew a little jealous of this guy cause he is a social beast, he makes friends so easy that its crazy. I went to a dance class with him and all the girls loved him. I didnt get any attention at all and a part of me grew jealous of this.

I caught myself and said "wait maybe i can learn from him" he can also introduce me to some girls or something, it would be big for me since I dont hang out with people my age and always struggled to make friends. Hanging out with this guy will finally make me have a social circle and i dont have to go alone to bars anymore.

I will be a good friend to this guy and ignore that stupid jealousy i feel haha im actually better looking than him IMO :)

well we are going out tonight to a bar and some salsa dancing. Today sucked, but I was ready for this. PUA is not easy, it can be tough on you mentally, but I will not quit. I set a goal to keep sarging every weekend for 12 weeks then take a week off! that way i gain a ton of experience and not take breaks like i always do.

this is week 2 of 12
 

ocantu1987

Space Monkey
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just got back from hanging out with my buddy and things were ok. I met his friend (a hot latina) and she ignored me until my homeboy (marcos) introduced me. things started off slow, but little by little things started warming up. I made friends with this guy sitting next to me, he was a cool dude.

I decided this time to drink. I was trying sober game, marcos changed my mind. Its crazy how this makes a difference.

everybody left and i was a little drunk, but i was grinding literaly on a latina. I was going all out on her. putting my hand around my waist, her ass on my cock, and her big breast touching my chest. Man it felt so good, but i make it hard in my mind. these girls didnt want to dance with us after that haha man it feels like bringing girls home is hard to me. Marcos is a social beast but he didnt know how to go about this.

Im trying to figure out how to "attract women" by outside factors such as "Nofap" etc...I decided that theses pheromone sprays i use are bullshit. They work, but girls give you mixed signals most of the time. Im throwing them away and adopt the styles of the greats! Narrow J, richard the latina hunter, and my homeboy radeng. I am positive theses guys dont use pheromones sprays.


Never giving up! I will win. 12 weeks is my goal and quitting is not an option. "Till I Collapse"by eminem is a song that relates to me.

Social circle vs Cold approach? :)
 

Zoro

Cro-Magnon Man
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Hey Ocantu,

If you want a nofap accountability partner. PM me.
 

ocantu1987

Space Monkey
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signed up for tinder although dont have a clue what to do to get more results lol I was thinking its cool to have on the side, but "the cold approach" is better ;)
 
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