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He would often give people genuine answers even throughout whatever back and forth. I can understand the ban because it could become a net negative if he ended up driving people off again.
Relying on being approached is selecting for certain girls. You're already screening.
To me that is so much like Mr. Locario et al. It's like if the girl doesn't like you there is another one who does and she is fully interchangeable.
But here we see barney posting a FR of a preferred girl from the same night as a LR, asking how he could have gotten her. It's like 5/5 vs. 5/100. Same result? Yes and no.
Sort of... Depends on your goal. To me this is opposite from achieving "absolute abundance" which is the main goal of a lot of the forum guys. It's the ability to use your skill set to leave the house and replace the girl of any quality level (not just hotness).If you can actually get good looking girls to approach you consistently, and it leads to lays, isnt that the dream? I'd much rather go to the club and hang out with my friends and build social proof and get approached than go work sets if possible.
Relying on being approached is selecting for certain girls. You're already screening.
To me that is so much like Mr. Locario et al. It's like if the girl doesn't like you there is another one who does and she is fully interchangeable.
But here we see barney posting a FR of a preferred girl from the same night as a LR, asking how he could have gotten her. It's like 5/5 vs. 5/100. Same result? Yes and no.