Post sex block

[Viper]

Had this girl seduced her and used sexual prizing to get her all excited about sex ,it worked I got laid not the best sex, I wanted to go for round two she told me had pain below the belly button,tried to fool around but seemed like she wasn't into going another round she asked me if I had someone then told me about his abroad boyfriend,it was cool I didn't judge or anything I was cool but I didn't talk about my status I took her to the bus station and she left,we chatted a bit, later texted her she was quiet ,move on tommorow no replies,I called her to realize I was blocked , checked her Whatsapp also blocked can someone tell me the reason am not that Into her but it's good to know that something was up

 

[DarkJedi]

Sounds like she might have got guilty about her bf post-sex. Nothing you can do in that case.
Also, were you pushy about round two?

 

[Viper]

Nah as soon as I sensed resistance,I turned to cuddling,sadly no sex,just talking,sensed she was off all the way though,

 

[TomInHo]

she wasn't into going another round she asked me if I had someone then told me about his abroad boyfriend,

Seems like she was looking for a replacement. Because why would she care if you were seeing someone?

It was cool I didn't judge or anything I was cool but I didn't talk about my status

Good and bad. You didn't have to tell her you were seeing someone, but she probably was curios if you were. The vibe that could have eased her nerves was I'm open to exploring whatever happens but not in a rush

I took her to the bus station and she left,we chatted a bit, later texted her she was quiet ,move on tommorow no replies,I called her to realize I was blocked , checked her Whatsapp also blocked can someone tell me the reason am not that Into her but it's good to know that something was up

Yeah because it was an ONS. she figures the sex was just okay and there's no potential future with you so why bother. Plus you also said you're not that into her so she could probably read that in your subcomms

All good because you can't win them all and sounds like a combination of guilt and sex regret.

 

[Viper]

Seems like she was looking for a replacement. Because why would she care if you were seeing someone?



Good and bad. You didn't have to tell her you were seeing someone, but she probably was curios if you were. The vibe that could have eased her nerves was I'm open to exploring whatever happens but not in a rush



Yeah because it was an ONS. she figures the sex was just okay and there's no potential future with you so why bother. Plus you also said you're not that into her so she could probably read that in your subcomms

All good because you can't win them all and sounds like a combination of guilt and sex regret.

Guess I just gotta let it slide,thanks man just seems weird I guess ,always thought that after sex attachment gets more ,

 

[TomInHo]

Guess I just gotta let it slide,thanks man just seems weird I guess ,always thought that after sex attachment gets more ,

No

After sex the game is not over. They are still assessing you for a fling or long term value. Usually takes about 3 bangs before they are sold on you. Meaning it’s still possible to fuck it up after sex

 

[Karea Ricardus D.]

Sounds to me like your comfort game is lacking... with good comfort game you should be able to get repeats and never get stuck in ONS

 

[PaulieFlyn10]

Sounds to me like your comfort game is lacking... with good comfort game you should be able to get repeats and never get stuck in ONS

I've had a similar issue with op before.

Do you have any tips or resources on comfort game

 

[Viper]

Sounds to me like your comfort game is lacking... with good comfort game you should be able to get repeats and never get stuck in ONS

Yeah,I agree with you there bro, I don't know I always feel weird like what's the right move to do,there was this one girl in a weird way become an fwb, after this one time when we have sex happily, emotionally told me that she was feeling something special some feelings for me,me being a dumwit asked her what kind of feelings(smacks head) t she then just closed off after that,I mean we had another round but, checked her a few days later to meet up, straight up told me that she is seeing someone I shouldn't contact her anymore,weird how all those orgasm went down the waste just like that

 

[Karea Ricardus D.]

I've had a similar issue with op before.

Do you have any tips or resources on comfort game

Tons of resources about that, MM is solid, I'm sure Chase has stuff on the blog about it, for example his "deep diving" material.

I described my comfort game briefly at the end of this post.

 

[POB]

Sometimes women only want sex for validation....then they bail, just like us.
That said, I think this was not the case here.
The fact that she was in pain, and you didn't acknowledge it, was probably the deal breaker.
Pain below the belly button usually means her channel or her uterus got bruised during sex (very uncomfortable for them).
Either you are blessed down below, or she has a shallow channel (or both).
When women say they are in pain during or after sex, stop everything and address it immediately.

 

[Viper]

Yeah dumb of me,I didn't think of that I guess, made the no 1 mistake,I didn't focus on her I was all about me,(smacks head)

 

[POB]

Yeah dumb of me,I didn't think of that I guess, made the no 1 mistake,I didn't focus on her I was all about me,(smacks head)

Don't beat yourself, we block everything when we are horny.
I had the same problem once....she got into terrible pain after doggy.
Offered to take her to the hospital, but she said no.
Never saw her again, but we are still facebook friends.
If she associates you with pain, no matter how gentle you are, she is gonna bail.

 

[Viper]

I guess that's what the block was for,I used to have an ex who told me when I was hitting it to deep and told me to slow down,so I usually went in gentle not going that deep ,surprisingly the front part of the vagina is very sensitive,just thrusting in the front part you will feel her contraction ribbing, clenching your dick less enjoyable for you and gives you more control on sensation ,but for her some amazing stuff,

 

[POB]

IME, going too deep and too hard is a no no with new chicks.
Even with a medium sized cock you can def touch her uterus, depending on the position.
Imagine someone moving your internal organs...that shit will hurt.
I'd save it for girls who are already comfortable in bed with you.

 

[Viper]

IME, going too deep and too hard is a no no with new chicks.
Even with a medium sized cock you can def touch her uterus, depending on the position.
Imagine someone moving your internal organs...that shit will hurt.
I'd save it for girls who are already comfortable in bed with you.

Thanks for the insight brother truly appreciate it POB

 

[PaulieFlyn10]

Tons of resources about that, MM is solid, I'm sure Chase has stuff on the blog about it, for example his "deep diving" material.

I described my comfort game briefly at the end of this post.

Hey man

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