Greeting's fella's. Glad to be apart of this forum. I would like some assistance for a potential gym pickup. I would also like to state that i'm completely new to this and this is why i'm asking for help.
Some insight into what has happened until now.
I'm not a bad looking guy and I guess getting my body into shape has only made me more attractive.
There is a girl at the gym who I guess has been checking me out for a few months. It was all subtle like once she was walking towards the gym exit when she suddenly turned around quickly and darted a look at me.
Last week, she made it very clear. I was sitting on the leg extension machine resting between sets when she goes and sits on the leg press machine. Now, from the leg press machine she has to lean forward in order to see me which she does. I stare at the space waiting for her to do it and when she noticed that I caught her, she immediately moves back.
Still on the leg extension machine, she gets up and moves onto the adductor machine which is directly in my line of sight. She then proceeds to turn her head towards me and hard stare me for 6-8 seconds. MY heart was racing at this point and I was caught off guard. I thought to myself that I need to approach her but I didn't.
Next time I saw her in the gym (a week later) I approached. I waited for her to finish warming up on the elliptical machine and I guess I caught her off guard because she had a confused look on her face. After she removed her earbuds, I greeted her and ask her how she was doing and introduced myself. She then said her name, smiled, offered her hand and said nice to meet you. Then she abruptly walked away and began doing her workout. The exchange lasted not even 10 seconds.
She is not very social in the gym, stony faced and seems to be very reserved. She comes in, does her workout and then leaves without saying anything to anybody.
Since I have been paying attention (since she stared at me), i've only been able to observe her coming to the gym on Thursday. I could swear she used to come to the gym more often, or maybe she comes on different times on different days.
I'm not sure how to proceed with this. I would appreciate advice from more experienced fellas.
Some insight into what has happened until now.
I'm not a bad looking guy and I guess getting my body into shape has only made me more attractive.
There is a girl at the gym who I guess has been checking me out for a few months. It was all subtle like once she was walking towards the gym exit when she suddenly turned around quickly and darted a look at me.
Last week, she made it very clear. I was sitting on the leg extension machine resting between sets when she goes and sits on the leg press machine. Now, from the leg press machine she has to lean forward in order to see me which she does. I stare at the space waiting for her to do it and when she noticed that I caught her, she immediately moves back.
Still on the leg extension machine, she gets up and moves onto the adductor machine which is directly in my line of sight. She then proceeds to turn her head towards me and hard stare me for 6-8 seconds. MY heart was racing at this point and I was caught off guard. I thought to myself that I need to approach her but I didn't.
Next time I saw her in the gym (a week later) I approached. I waited for her to finish warming up on the elliptical machine and I guess I caught her off guard because she had a confused look on her face. After she removed her earbuds, I greeted her and ask her how she was doing and introduced myself. She then said her name, smiled, offered her hand and said nice to meet you. Then she abruptly walked away and began doing her workout. The exchange lasted not even 10 seconds.
She is not very social in the gym, stony faced and seems to be very reserved. She comes in, does her workout and then leaves without saying anything to anybody.
Since I have been paying attention (since she stared at me), i've only been able to observe her coming to the gym on Thursday. I could swear she used to come to the gym more often, or maybe she comes on different times on different days.
I'm not sure how to proceed with this. I would appreciate advice from more experienced fellas.
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