FR Powerful epiphany, desire to succeed and no more excuses

[fsc]

Re: FR/FU: A powerful epiphany, desire to succeed, and no more excuses.

I was not specific enough with my post.

Sorry, I just had to lulz. I'm not mature enough to let this opportunity slide.

Alright, I'm done for good. This is too poisonous and harmful for my ovaries. Bye everyone

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Re: FR/FU: A powerful epiphany, desire to succeed, and no more excuses.

After putting a lot of thought into it guys, I have to say that I am done. I don't believe that I am adding much value to this forum and I don't think that what I am doing is too conductive for my goals. My FR went a bit over the top with its language and wording but after having put that time into going out on those nights and actually getting over my nervousness by actively talking to women, I feel kinda bad about what has happened. TBH, I just wanted someone to evaluate my actions and approaches rather than telling me that I am mentally sick and need to spend more time on the internet. It truly took a lot for me to go out alone on these nights and I wrote the FRs with the hopes of guys commenting and giving me actual advice on what actions to take rather than telling me to take time out and work on my mental psyche. I am not wasting these years and this opportunity I have in life on the internet while some guy uses my field report as his stand up act. As a user here in the past few days, I have felt very disrespected and this place has not been good to me or for me and neither have I to it for it.

I have spent far too much time on internet forums reading a gazillion different game resources in the past year to waste another minute watching yet another PUA video. My attitude is also dividing this community to an extent and I don't want to be that guy either. I am going to officially announce this as the post where I leave as me posting does not add value to the community and this entire field report has turned into some massive argument.

Peace out guys, everyone have a great time with their pickup goals and I will just have to rely on myself from here on out.

 

[Raqimus]

Re: FR/FU: A powerful epiphany, desire to succeed, and no more excuses.

She said she usually costs about $500, and you can ride her multiple times while you have her.
Front shot here
Shot of her back

I clicked this, I am sad now.

 

[Smith]

Re: FR/FU: A powerful epiphany, desire to succeed, and no more excuses.

After putting a lot of thought into it guys, I have to say that I am done. I don't believe that I am adding much value to this forum and I don't think that what I am doing is too conductive for my goals. My FR went a bit over the top with its language and wording but after having put that time into going out on those nights and actually getting over my nervousness by actively talking to women, I feel kinda bad about what has happened. TBH, I just wanted someone to evaluate my actions and approaches rather than telling me that I am mentally sick and need to spend more time on the internet. It truly took a lot for me to go out alone on these nights and I wrote the FRs with the hopes of guys commenting and giving me actual advice on what actions to take rather than telling me to take time out and work on my mental psyche. I am not wasting these years and this opportunity I have in life on the internet while some guy uses my field report as his stand up act. As a user here in the past few days, I have felt very disrespected and this place has not been good to me or for me and neither have I to it for it.

I have spent far too much time on internet forums reading a gazillion different game resources in the past year to waste another minute watching yet another PUA video. My attitude is also dividing this community to an extent and I don't want to be that guy either. I am going to officially announce this as the post where I leave as me posting does not add value to the community and this entire field report has turned into some massive argument.

Peace out guys, everyone have a great time with their pickup goals and I will just have to rely on myself from here on out.

lol sorry this post turned out like all your other posts mate. But it sounds like you're just going to ignore all the advice written on here again. So I hope you do take some of the advice on here about your attitude and mindset. There's a reason most of us point that out. It's always working on yourself and going out at the same time. It's never one or the other. When you're coming from the right frame of mind, it helps a lot not just with your results, but also your self-esteem. That's why I also recommend RSD Tyler. He's like the only person I follow for game on youtube. Watch it and judge it for yourself. I feel like Oh Pry is trying a little too hard to say RSD is a scam, without giving a solid reason why that is. You can't blame Tyler for mental masturbation lol If you feel like he's not helping, then stop watching it and go out talk to girls. Good luck bro!

 

[ray_zorse]

Re: FR/FU: A powerful epiphany, desire to succeed, and no more excuses.

Weighing in here as a dude who largely improved himself via external game while eventually experiencing diminishing returns and looking to inner game, it's still not something that I take seriously enough thus holding me back a bit still.

Yes, 90% of what is needed here is solid external game advice put into practice via experience in the field. YET, that other 10% cannot be neglected. I simply cannot understand Altair's attitude in that he has been told dozens of times that writing a post headed "I am a 22yr old virgin who sucks dick with women" WILL MAKE IT TRUE. There is a simple and easy fix. DON'T FUCKING WRITE THAT, EVER. I feel really fuckin frustrated, it's like the dude who goes to the doctor "Your diet is terrible, you need to cut out all the McDonalds, KFC and other fatty, sugary foods... then you will need a certain amount of fat so you can add avocado and nuts, for your sugar you can eat one piece of fruit in the morning"... comes back "Did you cut out McDonalds and KFC?" "Nope! But I'm eating avocado, nuts and fruit every day!"... I mean shesh he's actually named me as a dude he respects and I am happy about that, but cherry picking my advice is wrong!

Anyway Altair, stay or leave, whatever, I will be happy to try to help in future, but either way if u keep putting yourself out there night after night you cannot fail to slip her the D sooner rather than later. There actually does come a point where you know what your sticking points are and further FR / discussion / advice isn't that helpful until you get past them. So I am sure you will do fine with your own resources. Be kind to yourself though

Ray

 

[Eternity]

Re: FR/FU: A powerful epiphany, desire to succeed, and no more excuses.

She said she usually costs about $500, and you can ride her multiple times while you have her.
Front shot here
Shot of her back

I clicked this, I am sad now.

Man what a sexy blonde! I want a ride!!!

In all seriousness, can we please lock up these threads, they are getting repetitive as fuck. Want to read something else other than some dude who wants to fuck only blondes and has a love/hate fascination with them like they something especial. They are not, go for chicks who like you OP and are cute or wallow in self pity, we all here have better things to do than waste our time and words only for you to say no one here helps. Shit, i think you are the only one in the forum who has personal advice from tribal elders, Chase, Franco and every other respected member ( I'm not including me). I propose giving this caliber of advice to someone who will take the advice gratefully and is willing to field test it. Anyone interested raise your hand and sign up!!!

 

[Aquila]

Re: FR/FU: A powerful epiphany, desire to succeed, and no more excuses.

Just enjoy life and have fun interacting with other human beings, seriously.

This might be hard to swallow, but sleeping with hot blondes will not solve the problem, you might think you can be validated just because you finally managed to bed that one hot blonde girl, but you'd be kidding yourself if you think you can turn your life around just by sleeping with that one hot girl. Nah, you'll still be the needy and bitter person you are, and ironically the hot blondes that you are attracted to can smell this neediness from miles away.

Of course, how can I, with no credentials what so ever, dare to even give you advice?

 

[Marcellus]

Re: FR/FU: A powerful epiphany, desire to succeed, and no more excuses.

I would honestly and with no hate intended, like to know what this guys problem with black people is? What have we done to you Altair? It just sounds like you dislike our race and an explanation would be nice.

 

[Grand Pooba]

Re: FR/FU: A powerful epiphany, desire to succeed, and no more excuses.

Altair -

Your BIGGEST issue, not only in getting girls but I am sure it happens elsewhere in your life, is that you are stubborn and you need to be right, about this:

At that moment, I kinda had these beliefs in my head that she was only with him because he is black. I had a moment in my mind where I wished that in the future there comes a time where I run into attractive white girls that have a fetish for guys that look Arab, Indian, Pakistani, Asian, or browner Latino. Got me back to thinking if I saw just one exotic looking guy with a really hot blonde slut, it would kill all of my limiting beliefs permanently, I know it would.

Everything you write you try to prove to yourself AND to others that you need to be right about this:

My life has been bad circumstances, in most cases I know I would have had a chance to get more hot pussy than a rich frat boy but I did not have his circumstances, if I did then I would dominate.

Not only do you believe you've had bad circumstances, you believe that YOU are a bad circumstance! It's fucking hilarious.
Once you can turn off this attitude and truly believe that YOU CAN DO IT with everything you already have, you will win at this game and land a hot blonde. And the only person standing in your way right now...is YOU! Stop standing in your own way, dammit!

I'm a 6'-0" Pakistani guy, pretty skinny and brown, and my last serious GF was a hot ass bottle blonde. You can read about it here:
https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=5&t=6494

EDIT: Since you wanted to see "one exotic looking guy with a really hot blonde," I am happy to send you pictures of us when we were together.

 

[Franco]

Re: FR/FU: A powerful epiphany, desire to succeed, and no more excuses.

Locking this thread.

Altair,

How you choose to proceed is entirely up to you.

As for a full explanation of what's going on here, you're attempting to finally make these changes after being on these boards for over a year. That's fantastic, and writing Field Reports is what we've always wanted you to begin doing. However, for some of the members here, it feels almost "too little, too late" in the sense that they aren't really willing to help you until they don't see an ounce of poisonous mindsets in your post. We've seen it for the entire year you've been here, and most of the members are so tired of seeing it that it's hard for them to give you purely objective advice when they continue to see the negativity in your reports.

So, if you want to truly receive the help of the board members here, you need to make a Field Report that is completely objective and working toward improving your game. It can't contain material about "I saw this white guy doing great with this one blonde that gave me a dirty look" or "I saw this Indian guy get made fun of at the bar" or anything of that nature. None of that helps you, and none of that helps us -- and at this point, as is obvious, it only angers members who've been seeing it for so long.

If you can write a Field Report that contains nothing about your poisonous mindsets and instead focuses solely on your game, your approach, what was said by you and the girl, and how you can improve, then I think you will receive different (read: helpful) responses from the members here. If you don't think you can do that, then maybe this is not the place for you.

- Franco