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I have a question about pulling when logistics make more sense to go at the girls place. This is based on a situation that happenned recently.
A good friend (who is pretty good with women) had a tinder date before we meet in a lounge bar. He brought her with him, and told me that during the time spent with her, he didn't feel something could happen between him and her (she was pretty hot by the way). So we where the 3 of us in the lounge bar.
We drink some glasses and I talk a bit with her there. Then the 3 of us change venue to go to a club. There we drink some more glasses and dance.
While dancing and speaking with her, I feel that maybe something could happen with her (there was physical proximity when we talk together, at some point I could feel her tits pressing a bit on my chest while she was telling me stuff). I talk about that to my friend who give me his approval to try something if I feel like to.
We left when the venue close around 4am. I propose her to share a Uber with me since our place were in the same directions, while the place of my friend was in an opposite direction.
The problem was that her hotel was before mine, so I had to tell the uber to drop her first, otherwise it would have been weird.
During the Uber ride the discussion was pretty lame, but I think this is because in my head it's was already game over because I had no clear idea how I could pull her, so I had sort of checked out of the seduction process at this point.
Once arrived before her hotel, she spent some time thanking me for the Uber ride before we say goodbye, maybe she was waiting for me to try something. I will never know because I had no idea on how to try to pull at this point. I just say goodbye to her.
So what is the best to do in these kind of situations where we are in the Uber before the girl's place: just grow some balls and ask her to invite me? Propose her to go drink something at my place even if we are before hers?
A good friend (who is pretty good with women) had a tinder date before we meet in a lounge bar. He brought her with him, and told me that during the time spent with her, he didn't feel something could happen between him and her (she was pretty hot by the way). So we where the 3 of us in the lounge bar.
We drink some glasses and I talk a bit with her there. Then the 3 of us change venue to go to a club. There we drink some more glasses and dance.
While dancing and speaking with her, I feel that maybe something could happen with her (there was physical proximity when we talk together, at some point I could feel her tits pressing a bit on my chest while she was telling me stuff). I talk about that to my friend who give me his approval to try something if I feel like to.
We left when the venue close around 4am. I propose her to share a Uber with me since our place were in the same directions, while the place of my friend was in an opposite direction.
The problem was that her hotel was before mine, so I had to tell the uber to drop her first, otherwise it would have been weird.
During the Uber ride the discussion was pretty lame, but I think this is because in my head it's was already game over because I had no clear idea how I could pull her, so I had sort of checked out of the seduction process at this point.
Once arrived before her hotel, she spent some time thanking me for the Uber ride before we say goodbye, maybe she was waiting for me to try something. I will never know because I had no idea on how to try to pull at this point. I just say goodbye to her.
So what is the best to do in these kind of situations where we are in the Uber before the girl's place: just grow some balls and ask her to invite me? Propose her to go drink something at my place even if we are before hers?
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