Pussy, Pennies, & Purpose

[ChrisVirtue]

January 17th:
Friday Night:

With the flu behind me, I am feeling better each and every day, and not needing to take naps during the day any more. I do wake up today with an incredibly sore foot/ankle, possibly because I was walking so much on Thursday night. I take Advil to stop it, and it starts feeling a lot better.

I get a haircut today because I really needed one, and I’m trying out a new style where I let my hair bunch in the front. My friends were giving me a little shit about it, and it’s funny to think that there is social pressure when I change even just in the slightest amount.

Anyways, so my friend sets up a little pregame at my place where 4 girls show up. This is actually really nice because I don’t have to do shit and I still get the benefits from the party. This is the only type of social circle game I am really interested in, in Austin, where I am like the puppet pulling the strings and getting other people to throw parties for me.

The pregame is a nice way to warm up, and then we go out as a group. It’s very sparse at the first bar, next weekend will be way better since that is when UT comes back in session. Eventually I branch off from the core group. I’ve opened like 1-2 sets at this point, but I’m struggling with good, strong opens. I’m mainly coming in weak with weaker projection. The flu hurt my vocal projection progress, and I’m super excited to get back on track with doing my vocal warm up everyday.

We make it to buford’s, where I’m still opening but not hooking. The we go to the Ranch, where I continue opening and not hooking lol. It gets to almost ridiculous portions where I’ve opened most girls and almost none of them hook lol. Finally, we hit the street and street game starts to get me some momentum. I’m able to open + get in a little bit of a flow state, saying some funny things. I do get one really solid IG from a girl who just moved here to Austin, so hopefully I can get her out on a date.

It felt good to reach momentum, and I saw the potential that I still have lying in me. It definitely sucks that I had the flu, but that is in the past now (thank god) and it’s time for me to make the decision to work on developing what I have. I’m really excited to go back on the upward spiral, and I’m excited to see just how high my potential truly is!

Things I did well:
Hosted pregame at my house
Went out without my phone
Went out without a group
Opened 20+ sets
Reached momentum towards the end of the night
Did my vocal warm up
Got a haircut
Got lots of dope IG stories at the pregame

Things I could have done better:
Eye contact warm up
Could have done my journaling
Could have taken my vitamins
Opened stronger with more entitlement

Lessons Learned:
Vocal warm up is crucial for me to reach my potential
Using pregames to warm up is great, when I am not in momentum

 

[ChrisVirtue]

January 18th:
Saturday Night:

Had a game meetup tonight where I gave a talk. I didn’t really plan much to say, and it showed lol. I basically just tried to seem as certain as possible during the talk, and it definitely lowered the bar for the level of content necessary to entertain a crowd.

After the meetup, I spent a while convincing my one friend to go out, which kind of sucked the energy out of me a tad. It was odd but after the meeting I had a tough time removing myself from the people. I simply love to talk and don’t want to stop once I get going. But, the truth is, I can just as easily meet new people and talk to them.

I went out to west 6th again and Buford’s was packed as fuck. My opening was still a little bit off. It was difficult for me to project as well as I wanted to and I didn’t feel as entitled to girl’s attentions, especially if they were in mixed sets. We were in a big group of all guys from the game meetup, and this was actually pretty fun, to watch guys approaching and it was motivating me to be bolder in my approaches. I did get a few decent sets, one girl who would have been down to make out, and another girl later who we pulled to a different bar, but then we left her to find my other friend.’

This nagged at me throughout the night because this girl definitely wanted to hang out with me, and I could have stuck with her and at least seen where things went. She was pretty cute. Anyways, I ended up pulling these two Mexican chicks, but they left pretty quickly after I pulled them because one of them was in a bad mood for no reason.

Things I did well:
Gave a speech completely unprepared (threw myself into the fire)
Went out without my phone
Did my vocal warm ups
Convinced my friend to go out
Opened 10+ sets
Got IG of hot girl
Pulled girl to different bar
Pulled 2 set back to my place
Washed my face before bed

Things I could have done better:
Could have done my journaling
Could have gathered my thoughts a little more before the speech

Lessons Learned:
If I don’t do my journaling, I can feel lost on my purpose
If I have a hot girl who’s into me, I should at least stick with her until I get bored. I should never leave a hot girl who’s into because of someone else, it should only be my decision
If I don’t go out solo 1x/week, my game gets weak

 

[ChrisVirtue]

January 23rd:
Wednesday Night:

Took 4 girls out to dinner tonight, just me and 4 girls. Thought I’d write a mini field report about it because I learned some things about my behavior in this situation.

The context of the dinner is that I help people grow their social media, and was chatting with one of these girls to see if I could help her. Then, the other 3 girls, I had met one of them at the bar this weekend and then she brought 2 friends with her.

Anyways, the 3 girls were late and went directly to the restaurant even though the plan was for them to all meet at my apartment and then walk over. This annoyed me slightly, and then it was cold as fuck outside so I was chilly on the walk, should have worn a hoodie under my jacket. Me and the girl I’m friends with walk over and then see the 3 girls all sitting at a big table.

I walk over and instantly I become aware of the fact that I’m expected to LEAD this entire situation. I’m supposed to be the proactive force that gets the vibe going in the right direction. This is something I’m somewhat unfamiliar with, and initially I get a little too shy, when it would have been better to treat the beginning of this dinner like a cold approach opening a set. Aka, be very loud and get every one’s attention one by one. I didn’t do my vocal warm up today, so I was less loud than normal, so I want to make sure I do it next time.

Anyways, it starts off a little awkward and less smooth, but pretty soon I get more comfortable and start “holding court” a little more with the girls. I get a lot of logical questions, and I try to answer them with jokes which cheers up the mood. Overall, it was very chill, and there was not really any pressure to perform.

The one girl who brought her friends is very flirty/sexual, and I’m sitting next to her getting some proximity touching. I’m thinking she’d easily bang tonight if I could get her back to my place, but I do a poor job of screening for logistics. It turns out that she drove her car with all of her friends, so there wasn’t anyway it would have worked out.

The dinner was chill, and after the girls left, the one I liked asked me for my number over IG and started texting me with some clear flirty intent.

Things I did well:
Set up a dinner with 5 girls and 4 girls showed up
Went to the dinner and had a good time with good food
Got the one girl attracted enough so that she’s now texting me
Future projected well
Didn’t use my phone too much
Got a good IG story of the dinner

Things I could have done better:
Could have gotten more/better IG stories (although it feels kind of awkward getting stories with girls who I’ve haven’t hung out with more than a few times.) I want to get better at making IG stories and getting comfortable talking into the camera in general.
Could have entered the dinner with more leadership and acted less shy
Could have gotten logistics early on so that my brain at least knows what is going to happen
Could have done my vocal warm up

Lessons Learned:
Continue practicing talking into the camera for my IG stories until it becomes natural and flowing and then I can start creating more skits with the girls
Dinner group dates are VERY chill, and a great way to build status and attraction with multiple girls at once. It saves time because it’s like having 5 dates at once. It builds a lot of comfort with the girls and makes it so I can bang any of them!

 

[ChrisVirtue]

January 24th:
Thursday Night:

Went out to a private party tonight where a guy gets a downtown venue and gets about 100 people to show up. I went with my friend (a guy).

It was definitely a good experience. It was more of a social networking event than an actual party and there weren’t many hot girls there. Most of the girls were 25+ . There were a couple cute girls though.

I felt awkward and uncomfortable at first going to this type of event, because I’m mainly used to bars and clubs where I can say anything or do anything, approach anything in any way I want.

This event was much more of a social circle thing, and there is social pressure to avoid coming into the event and “taking it over” socially, especially since I don’t know the host. I really should have talked to the host tonight, which I was admittedly nervous about doing... I have been telling myself recently if something benefits me and makes sense for me to do, then I force myself to do it no matter how uncomfortable I feel. So, I had this thought process regarding the host, but when I went to talk to him, he was dancing with a girl and I definitely didn’t want to interrupt that lol.

Anyways, I did get some good networking in, connecting with some guy who is crushing it (making $100k+/m) who I might do business with in the future.

In this context, I actually knew a few people at the event which made it easier because saying hi to these people gave me a “home base” of people to talk to and help get into a flow state. I treated it more like a networking event, just trying to talk to everyone, and I wasn’t doing that much gaming. I was probably talking a little to much and it would have been better to get people to qualify/invest more.

I did run into a girl I banged a while ago, and she is a great connector of people, very fun and engaging girl. I ended up pulling her and banging her, even though tbh I’m not too excited about her. I kind of just did it to get the reps in. So overall, the event was a good practice for “networking-style” game vs cold approach.

One thing I realized is that guys are really easy to talk to, all I have to say as an opener is “how’s it going”. They don’t require as much intent in an opener as girls do, although I suppose I can open girls like that as well. I prefer more entitlement on my openers though and moving fast to an “us” narrative.

Anyways, it definitely shows me that networking is an interesting thing to work on in addition to normal cold approach, and I will keep practicing it and the way I present myself and my business.

Things I did well:
Went out to a private party
Talked to 10+ girls there, and got intros to the girls I liked for the most part
Took a couple IG stories
Pulled + closed
Found a dope taco place pretty close to me that is open until midnight
Washed my face the morning after
Got some IG closes
Connected with a guy who makes $100k/m

Things I could have done better:
Still figuring out how to use my phone in social settings. I sometimes want to check my messages while I’m talking to people but I see that kills the vibe and makes them get bored sometimes. Need to not text people while I’m at these events unless it’s necessary
Want to get better at pulling out my phone to record IG stories. I have a goal to put myself face on camera once/day for my IG story to keep getting used to it until it becomes really natural and less try hard
Could have opened more aggressively
Could have connected with the hosts a little more

Lessons Learned:
Make sure to look for an opening to connect with the hosts as soon as possible and throughout the night. Get this connection over with early so that they can think of me as someone who belongs there for the rest of the party
Networking events are similar to cold approach, except with less pressure on the open because it’s a social circle context, just open every person who looks interesting
Start recording my 1 IG talking narrative/day, so my phone becomes a strong ally instead of an enemy

 

[ChrisVirtue]

January 25th:
Friday Night:

After last night I am pretty tired, only getting 5 hours of sleep after banging that girl. It made me think, I would rather have simply slept more hours than even hook up with her, and that’s more so due to the fact that she annoys me with her negative vibe than anything. But, sex is a human drive, so it is good for me to get it when I can.

I go out to West 6th tonight with a guy that reached out to me from our community here in Austin, TX. He is a complete newb, and pretty weird guy overall, but I take him under my wing and give him a mini-bootcamp. I am in an overall flow state right away from meeting so many people the night before. I am riding high, and one thing I notice is that I am probably talking too much. I’m falling symptom to being so “on” with my words, that I just want to talk, talk, talk, and I don’t get others enough of a chance to open up and qualify/invest. It reminds me of one of Jordan Peterson’s rules for life, which is “listen as if everyone you meet knows something you dont”. I’m definitely not doing that so I need to become a better listener and hold eye contact while I’m listening.

My eye contact overall is doing quite well, due to the eye contact videos that I am practicing with. It is feeling more natural and I’m able to think more clearly while holding eye contact.

On West 6th I’m able to open pretty easily and consistently. I’m doing somewhat bold opens, putting myself into situations where girls reject me. It definitely pushes me to be in state. There are a lot of PUA dudes at my favorite bar, which is good and bad. Good because I can talk to them to get in state and have wings if needed, bad because they distract me from my game somewhat. But, overall it is a net good thing. It’s also really good because it gives me comfort knowing that I can go to that bar alone without my phone on any Friday/saturday, and still find wings. This is quite awesome actually, and already is giving me confidence to go out solo consistently in the future.

I don’t get any really great sets, other than running into the girl I’ve been DMing who I met last week. I’m actually trying to hire her as a personal assistant, and she’s pretty hot and cool, so we will see how that goes.

As the bar closes, we head outside, and I open a 3 set pretty smoothly, and then intro my wing. One of the girls leaves and then we are left with 2 girls who are both pretty into us. My girl was pretty damn hot, and very intellectual/into entrepreneurship. We try hard to pull them to my place, but the other girl is being difficult, so we eventually agree to drive to their place and after party there. It was interesting because it reminds me of the Robert cialdini influence method of asking for something big, then settling for something small.

We all drive in my car to their place, and end up playing spin the bottle for almost 3 hours. The girls are very prude, saying they’ve each only slept with 1 dude, which is pretty weird for being 22 years old.

We head home, without banging the girls, although I’ve projected a day 2 pretty solidly with my girl so we will see how that goes.

Things I did well:
Went out without my phone
Wrote this field report BEFORE going to bed
Went out on a Friday night when I felt some desire to stay in and work
Pulled hot girl
Opened 10+ sets
Got into momentum well
Took newb under my wing and changed his life
“Collected” another girl for my container event

Things I could have done better:
Could have talked a little less and made girls qualify/invest a little more
Could have qualified myself a little less, I was in reaction/qualification mode a little too much
Could have styled my hair before going out because it looked like shit, but it was good to show that I could do well with my hair looking bad
There were a few intimidating sets with hotter girls that I could have opened

Lessons Learned:
Talking a lot early in the set is fine, but I should aim to switch into qualification mode after about 5-10 minutes, where I get them to continuously open up more and more into deep qualification and vulnerability.
Always use firm touching with girls, never some gentle weird shit
I can go out alone no problem on Friday and Saturday, and I will see my friends at the bar

 

[ChrisVirtue]

January 26th:
Saturday Night:

Tonight was quite interesting. I got invited to DJ at my friends pregame, and I said yes, even though I don’t really know exactly how to DJ.

I was able to execute so well and find an amazing way to DJ, I’m honestly shocked at how good I was. I think I have a real solid ability with DJing and could maybe even get gigs downtown if I wanted to lol.

This goes to show me, that if I say yes to something, it will put myself in a position where I am forced to do it. Now, I feel like I could DJ any time any place, and that is a new skill set I bring to the table. I also learned that next time I want to bring a PA mic so I can talk to the crowd while I am DJing. That would be sick and would allow me to get lots of status. We are hosting a Valentine’s Day party so I’m definitely excited to DJ that one as well.

This day was odd in that I didn’t complete any of my good daily habits. I think I was nervous about the DJing and I also waited until the last minute to get things set up. It is hard to explain, but it is honestly insane what I accomplished tonight, and it just goes to show that by trusting everything will go well, things do go well.

I need to take this same vibe to creating videos. Put myself in a position where I am forced to do them, and knock one out first thing after my morning routine.

After the pregame, I drove a very cute petite Latina back to my place where we were supposed to meet up with her other friends, but they didn’t show up, so I tried to bang her. I was completely sober and it was kind of awkward and while she liked me and we made out, she wasn’t DTF.

So we went to the bar and found her friends there. My game was on fire, I was approaching super well, and probably could have pulled another girl, but I stuck to the one I had already tried to hook up with (probably a bad idea, because she already denied me once).

We pulled them back, and I spent 30 min tryna bang her, but she left me with blue balls

Last thing:
Me and my friends got a late night dinner at the dinner, and I forced myself to open a cute 2-set there because I was nervous to do so. I am crushing it right now, I need to keep up this momentum because my game will be legendary if I keep pushing it.

Things I did well:
Learned how to DJ in less than 30 min time investment
Had a sick DJ set at the party
Pulled a hot Latina chick + tried to bang her
Opened really well with girls at the bar
Closed a new client today
Only drank .5 drinks

Things I could have done better:
Could have gotten better IG stories of me DJing
Could have meditated + journaled
Could have shot a YT video
Could have given up on my first girl and pulled + banged another
Could have done a better job escalating on the first girl. I moved things too fast, it would have been better if I went to the bar with her first for a bit.

Lessons Learned:
Meditate asap in the morning
Shoot a YT video asap after morning habits
Don’t make my move on a girl until she has properly invested. I should tease her physically by going in for the make out but not giving her it, building that sexual tension by teasing her until she wants to fuck me badly

 

[ChrisVirtue]

February 16th:
Saturday Night:
Been quite some time since I went out for a full night of cold approach. I’ve been very focused on making progress in my business. And, I have definitely made progress although I still am dealing with quite a bit of procrastination.

I also struggle to find a consistent routine and sleep schedule. I’m not exercising much, and not living much of a balanced life, which definitely annoys me. I know that I CAN find that balance this year. It is possible.

And, it makes sense that I’d be working more this year. And then hopefully next year I can live this more balanced life.

I put lots of pressure on myself to succeed in all areas, and it can be a little overwhelming and I think that’s what causes my procrastination.

Anyways, it’s saturday night, and me and 2 wings head out to west 6th. I start off struggling to open, but being with wings helps as I see them open. It’s funny how it feels cringey at first until I start opening and then I realize that everything is ok. I didn’t do my vocal warmup, which means my projection was limited.

I get in one good set with a petite light skin black girl with huge tits and she is really into me, but giving me a lot of shit tests which kind of throws me in my head. I do open more girls, although I’m not feeling very entitled. It’s probably just due to lack of practice.

Funnily enough, an older girl straight up invites me to go home with her, but she’s not that hot so I decline. Then later in the night i want to bang her haha, but I can’t meet up with her. It’s probably for the best bc she wasn’t that hot, but I do think it is good for me to get in the habit of having as much sex as possible to get in that sex flow state.

Things I did well:
Went out for a full night of cold approach
Got this black girl obsessed with me
Got offered to bang a girl lol
Opened a decent number of girls

Things I could have done better:
Go out more consistently
Get to bed earlier
Do my morning routine habits right away in the morning
Do my vocal warm up

Lessons Learned:
On the weekend even with my game being off there is still a high chance of getting laid as long as I keep opening until I find a girl with decent logistics
My morning routine dictates my happiness, the faster I can get it done, the more epic the day will be

 

[ChrisVirtue]

March 14th:
Saturday Night:
I feel very compelled to write a field report right now because I am slightly confused about how to interpret last night’s events.

I DJed a party at my friends place, which was pretty frustrating because the speakers didn’t work at first. But, now I’m realizing this is my fault because Rick is an idiot. I don’t even want to deal with someone that unresourceful. He is just a leech.

Anyways, once the speakers were fixed, things went a little bit better. One girl actually attacked me while I was DJing and that was pretty funny. She wanted to smash, but I didn’t really know where to take her. So someone else ended up banging her. The girl was hammered and not really my type, so it was probably for the best, but it still makes me feel a little tinge of regret to pass up on sex. I like having sex, and I would’ve liked to bang her. So yeah, I do reject not seizing that opportunity. Which is ok. It’s a learning experience I suppose that I want to know my logistics of where I could bang on premises at any party I go to.

Then, I went out for a bit. And my game was on quite a bit. I’ve realized that “proof not promises” is huge for me. I like to do the scary or less permitted thing until my brain has proof that there is no danger. For instance, I’ve been engaging with dudes more when I’m at and kind of being able to tool/destroy them. I think this is partially due to the leadership I possess in my business making me feel more like an alpha and more entitled to have people follow me.

Despite my game being on, I didn’t really lock in on any specific attractive girl. For instance, I had one girl pretty into me that most people would think is hot, but I left her when my friend was calling me. Overall, I like having wings when I go out, but I want to put myself in the driver’s seat. I want to be talking to the hottest girls that I can find and setting things up so I can pull them or future project a container event heavily.

I’m really excited to see my next progression in game. I know I’m going to bang the hottest girls of my life this year, but for now it is patience. I want to keep building systems in my business so I have enough money to live haha. That is the true gate to my next level of game freedom.

Things I did well:
Another practice session of DJing a party in the books
Learned to definitely buy + bring my own speakers if I ever DJ a party again
Game was on fire, opened without hesitation and had a very dominant frame
Had multiple girls attack me and want to bang instantly
Vocal projection was the best it’s been in months for me, due to me pushing myself to be as loud as I could go during my vocal warmup
Happy I went out in general
Didn’t drink

Things I could have done better:
Could’ve had an even more dominant frame in certain scenarios
Could’ve kept opening until I got in a set with a hot girl, and then stuck with her for a while
Could’ve gotten to bed a little early

Lessons Learned:
Proof not promises is so crucial
Pushing myself during my vocal warmup unlocked my projection, and unlocking my projection unlocked my expressiveness
Let go of the jealousy and instead trust my own path
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