Hello forum members.
I've been on and off this forum for the past 7 years, even when it was still the Girlschase boards (and a reader for nearly 10 years). Forgot my last login, so I made a new one here. Girlschase is by far the biggest reason I am where I am today.
Now with that out of the way- here's my question for the more experienced and what I have to say:
My "stats":
1. I'm a brown man, a mix of Pakistani and Egyptian.
2. I've slept with 70ish girls, honestly don't know the exact number. No, not all of these girls were my exact type. I'd say maybe 5 were the kind of girls that are trophy worthy. 5 were absolutely not worth it. The rest fall somewhere in the middle but attractive. I'd say maybe 10-20 of those were from dating apps.
3. I would consider my game Upper intermediate / Lower advanced. Enough to where people tend to inflate my ego by asking me how i talk to girls or calling me a player, but not enough to get the kind of girls I want consistently. I'm on the path to mastery, it's a life goal.
4. I'm above average looks wise, but it took alot to get there. Rehaul on fashion, set myself apart from other brown people with tattoos and piercings, blended in with American culture. Even got a Rhinoplasty to fix my nose as it made me look dopey. Still working on my diet and body every day.
My ideal girl, looks-wise (I won't mention personality here, because I can screen for that in set):
- Blonde/ dirty blonde skinny and fit white girls. cliche, I know lol
My question towards experienced guys (even more so if you're brown and experienced):
How do I take it to the next level so that I get with the girls that I really want, consistently? How do I get access to blonde white girls, consistently? As a brown man, I have a CLEAR disadvantage on dating apps- even though I'll go on the occasional date with a white girl because I'm fairly decent looking, it's no where near the amount my white, latin, and black friends get.
Trust me, I'm fighting nail and tooth every single day to avoid going down the depressing victim mentality hole but it's starting to frustrate me that I'm only sleeping with my ideal girls (looks-wise) very, VERY rarely.
I want to date more hot, white blondes. How do I do it? Pure cold approach? Integrate into their social circles?
Thanks in advanced.
I've been on and off this forum for the past 7 years, even when it was still the Girlschase boards (and a reader for nearly 10 years). Forgot my last login, so I made a new one here. Girlschase is by far the biggest reason I am where I am today.
Now with that out of the way- here's my question for the more experienced and what I have to say:
My "stats":
1. I'm a brown man, a mix of Pakistani and Egyptian.
2. I've slept with 70ish girls, honestly don't know the exact number. No, not all of these girls were my exact type. I'd say maybe 5 were the kind of girls that are trophy worthy. 5 were absolutely not worth it. The rest fall somewhere in the middle but attractive. I'd say maybe 10-20 of those were from dating apps.
3. I would consider my game Upper intermediate / Lower advanced. Enough to where people tend to inflate my ego by asking me how i talk to girls or calling me a player, but not enough to get the kind of girls I want consistently. I'm on the path to mastery, it's a life goal.
4. I'm above average looks wise, but it took alot to get there. Rehaul on fashion, set myself apart from other brown people with tattoos and piercings, blended in with American culture. Even got a Rhinoplasty to fix my nose as it made me look dopey. Still working on my diet and body every day.
My ideal girl, looks-wise (I won't mention personality here, because I can screen for that in set):
- Blonde/ dirty blonde skinny and fit white girls. cliche, I know lol
My question towards experienced guys (even more so if you're brown and experienced):
How do I take it to the next level so that I get with the girls that I really want, consistently? How do I get access to blonde white girls, consistently? As a brown man, I have a CLEAR disadvantage on dating apps- even though I'll go on the occasional date with a white girl because I'm fairly decent looking, it's no where near the amount my white, latin, and black friends get.
Trust me, I'm fighting nail and tooth every single day to avoid going down the depressing victim mentality hole but it's starting to frustrate me that I'm only sleeping with my ideal girls (looks-wise) very, VERY rarely.
I want to date more hot, white blondes. How do I do it? Pure cold approach? Integrate into their social circles?
Thanks in advanced.
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