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So a lady of mine who I fuck bareback used take birth-control pills during the period she was seeing me (on and off). She is generally a bit against taking unecessary meds and generally favour natural medication whenever such is possible (she is not "anti-meds" in the strict sense though). The lady in question's attitude towards such meds is also influenced by her own bodily ad behavioral response to them.
Birth-control may seem like a good thing, but we need not to forget that birth-control pills happen to be hormonal remedies. Which honestly is a bit scary when you think about it. It does affect her body and mood. This is nothing new as science more or less backs this up. It is known that birth-control pills tend to affect mood and behavior. Additionally, it can affect what types of men she is attracted to (well it is sweet of her being afraid of losing her passions for me!). Nevertheless, It is totally understandable if one is hesitant about taking meds that affects not only one's mood but also one's overall personality - especially when they are NOT necessary for your health.
To be deadly clear, this is not a girl who is trying to "sneak a baby" into her belly. Those exist, but that is not her. She is as much as a freedom lover as I am, and she would like to enjoy her beautiful youth baby-free.
If no alternative forms of birth-control is found, we will stick to condoms, but obviously that would feel like a "degrading" of our intimacy and is obviously less physically satisfying. But it is what it is. This is not something I vouched for, but her (but I agreed without hesitation). Again proving that she is not a a girl trying to get prego - so just take those ideas out of your head when responding.
So, the questions, to be straightforward, are:
- What other types of prevention can be considered - that happens to be non-hormonal?
- How safe are they? I prefer those who have a low likelihood of pregnancy. Abortion is stressful for us men, and emotionally (and also oftentimes, physically) painful to women, and we want to dodge those potential situations at all cost.
- However a less "safe" option (in regards to "chances of pregnancy") is not to be excluded so please share them too! (but please make sure you state that they are "less" safe (as in getting her pregnant). I could mitigate these pitfalls (with her agreement) by for example not ejaculating inside of her, etc. however, such will be less pleasant, but if necessary, it will be that!
- More importantly, if you have any experience with any forms of birth-control, no matter the type, please share!
- Now if you DO NOT know of ANY non-hormonal alternatives (as we still have not excluded hormonal solutions fully!), then share the ones you consider to be not only the best, but which also have the LEAST side effects on women's health, behavior and mood.
Everybody is welcome to answer, although the opinions of elders or individuals who I know have great knowledge on the subject will be favored.
Please, no speculation!
And no "just convince her to take them X form of birth-control... blablabla". That's not how I roll.
Thanks!
PS: All options will be discussed with at least one health professional.
Best,
Teevster
Birth-control may seem like a good thing, but we need not to forget that birth-control pills happen to be hormonal remedies. Which honestly is a bit scary when you think about it. It does affect her body and mood. This is nothing new as science more or less backs this up. It is known that birth-control pills tend to affect mood and behavior. Additionally, it can affect what types of men she is attracted to (well it is sweet of her being afraid of losing her passions for me!). Nevertheless, It is totally understandable if one is hesitant about taking meds that affects not only one's mood but also one's overall personality - especially when they are NOT necessary for your health.
To be deadly clear, this is not a girl who is trying to "sneak a baby" into her belly. Those exist, but that is not her. She is as much as a freedom lover as I am, and she would like to enjoy her beautiful youth baby-free.
If no alternative forms of birth-control is found, we will stick to condoms, but obviously that would feel like a "degrading" of our intimacy and is obviously less physically satisfying. But it is what it is. This is not something I vouched for, but her (but I agreed without hesitation). Again proving that she is not a a girl trying to get prego - so just take those ideas out of your head when responding.
So, the questions, to be straightforward, are:
- What other types of prevention can be considered - that happens to be non-hormonal?
- How safe are they? I prefer those who have a low likelihood of pregnancy. Abortion is stressful for us men, and emotionally (and also oftentimes, physically) painful to women, and we want to dodge those potential situations at all cost.
- However a less "safe" option (in regards to "chances of pregnancy") is not to be excluded so please share them too! (but please make sure you state that they are "less" safe (as in getting her pregnant). I could mitigate these pitfalls (with her agreement) by for example not ejaculating inside of her, etc. however, such will be less pleasant, but if necessary, it will be that!
- More importantly, if you have any experience with any forms of birth-control, no matter the type, please share!
- Now if you DO NOT know of ANY non-hormonal alternatives (as we still have not excluded hormonal solutions fully!), then share the ones you consider to be not only the best, but which also have the LEAST side effects on women's health, behavior and mood.
Everybody is welcome to answer, although the opinions of elders or individuals who I know have great knowledge on the subject will be favored.
Please, no speculation!
And no "just convince her to take them X form of birth-control... blablabla". That's not how I roll.
Thanks!
PS: All options will be discussed with at least one health professional.
Best,
Teevster
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