Quick Excuses to Hangout

[Rakehell]

I need a quick plausibly deniable reason to hangout. I have this girl who’s ready to link but she wants smoking to be our excuse to link up. Feel like thats a pretty bad precedent and I don’t even smoke weed but i’m drawing a blank on a different reason for us. Truth be told I hate dates because I feel like they aren’t necessary sometimes, so I don’t wanna be like pull up to *insert food or drink place*.

 

[StrayDog]

Under what contexts did you connect with this babe? Sometimes it can be tricky to know exactly on what grounds the connection stands. The devil is in the details of course. Is there a pretty strong lover precedent set already? I mean, she is clearly gunning for an activity that is generally done in the confines of ones personal abode. So this can certainly be taken as a good sign/ jumping off point. If the grounds on which you connected feel thin, and you are struggling to think of other (simple) commonalities perhaps something like:

"Well, I don't really smoke. Sometimes feel the vibe but it really all depends. We can always take a walk though. It is absolutely sublime out right now"

Then invite her to your place to walk in the neighborhood

Or even a simple "not really smoking much these days. Your welcome to indulge yourself though. Swing by and we'll kick back in my luscious yard"

 

[Ambiance]

I recently bought my first THC pen after reading @Teevster's article about always having your place stocked with stuff useful for getting/having girls over (which also includes bunch of different alcohol, snacks, condoms, lube etc). While I am like you in that I don't want to indulge in marijuana regularly or even semi-regularly, I regret not getting it sooner because it is an easy "in" with stoner chicks.

If this girl is giving you an easy way to get her alone with you (smoking weed), I'd say go for it so long as being around weed is acceptable to you. Don't worry about precedent; this girl seems like she already is a stoner, so either bang her once/twice or make her just a fuck buddy if stoners aren't your ideal girlfriend.

You also don't need to actually smoke with her. You can instead drink, or once she is over tell her you decided to stay sober for whatever reason, or even fake taking a hit.

 

[Rakehell]

I recently bought my first THC pen after reading @Teevster's article about always having your place stocked with stuff useful for getting/having girls over (which also includes bunch of different alcohol, snacks, condoms, lube etc). While I am like you in that I don't want to indulge in marijuana regularly or even semi-regularly, I regret not getting it sooner because it is an easy "in" with stoner chicks.

I’ve had one before, personally like them better than actual marijuana because they’re more convenient and it doesn’t smell. Easier to control the high too.

Thing is I don’t have my own place, my only logistic is my car or their place, and she isn’t smoking in my car lol.

Long story short
I ended up asking her if she liked movies. She said yes. So I suggested we just chill and watch a movie which she agreed to.

Thanks for the suggestions though you guys

 

[D. Gately]

Glad you got Netflix and Chill to work.

It's pretty easy to text a girl a pic of a nice bar you're at and tell her to come meet you for a drink. Shows interest, dominance, fun, you're social & know where to post up, etc. If she really can't make it she'll usually start qualifying herself to you so you don't forget about her.

Works solo or if you are already out with friends. I prefer solo for gaming.

 

[Rakehell]

Glad you got Netflix and Chill to work.

Thats exactly what came to mind for me to make the suggestion. I figured since the phrase netflix and chill was so played out I could just rephrase it without getting resistance.