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Curious for opinions, especially from the older members. Just something I've never really thought about before.
If you meet someone who is beginning their journey, let's say in the 30-40 age range, and they want to have kids some day, what exactly do you think their life should look like as the years go by? What milestones should they shoot for and when?
The life of an average modern man looks something like this, right:
- Teenage years: Start building experiences with women - lots of mistakes
- Early 20s: Fewer rookie mistakes, approach gets more refined
- 20s: Serious relationships are probably most likely to happen here
- 30s: First kid is probably during this time. Maybe late 20s, maybe early 40s, but around here
So how does this change if someone is a rank novice and virgin later in life? Do the milestones just bump down by 10-15 years? So if a 15 year old ain't having a kid until about 15 years into the future, should a 30 y/o virgin not expect to be ready for a kid until 45? In other words, will he need the same general amount of time to learn everything he needs to to be successful with women and life? Would he pick things up faster?
I know these questions are kinda ridiculous since none of this is set in stone, but hopefully it makes sense what I'm getting at.
Thanks everyone!
If you meet someone who is beginning their journey, let's say in the 30-40 age range, and they want to have kids some day, what exactly do you think their life should look like as the years go by? What milestones should they shoot for and when?
The life of an average modern man looks something like this, right:
- Teenage years: Start building experiences with women - lots of mistakes
- Early 20s: Fewer rookie mistakes, approach gets more refined
- 20s: Serious relationships are probably most likely to happen here
- 30s: First kid is probably during this time. Maybe late 20s, maybe early 40s, but around here
So how does this change if someone is a rank novice and virgin later in life? Do the milestones just bump down by 10-15 years? So if a 15 year old ain't having a kid until about 15 years into the future, should a 30 y/o virgin not expect to be ready for a kid until 45? In other words, will he need the same general amount of time to learn everything he needs to to be successful with women and life? Would he pick things up faster?
I know these questions are kinda ridiculous since none of this is set in stone, but hopefully it makes sense what I'm getting at.
Thanks everyone!