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Yo, fellas!
I reconnected to a chick a few weeks ago. I met on a weekend evening on the steets a few years ago. Didn't close. Met up with her a bit later, managed to escalate to kissing if I recall but she was throwing up a lot of resistance so it didn't go anywhere.
Happened to come across her on my Facebook feed a few weeks ago. Reconnected, chatted a bit, turns out she is studying in my town.
I say, "Ok, we should meet up for a few margaritas before the summer is done with!"
She says "Yeah"
I've been busy with other more promising leads so I haven't texted her back for over a week.
Texts me today at a Friday evening around eight o'clock.
Her: Hey, what's up?"
Me: Ciao! I'm golden! What's up?
Her: Just chilling, what about you?
Me: Vibing at home still - some great parties tonight! Come by, let's have a few pre-drinks and head out! [plan was: A) Feel her out, if she's into me, try and escalate right her B) Take her to the party with me and see if I can get a virtuous circle of social proof going]
Her: I'm too tired today
Her: Where do you live btw?
Me: We'll bring you back to life
Me: Bordering downtown and the Valley
Her: I've already washed my make up and all
Her: Where are you planning to go?
Me: Well damn and I just needed someone to borrow makeup from and color my eyes!
Me: X-party
Her: next time
Me: Well, fuck, looks like I need to borrow someone's makeup at the party
Her: You'll be fine
Her: I don't know my plans tomorrow but what are you up to?
Me: Windsurfing but should be back to go back to X-party if it's any good today
Her: [asking me about where I surfing, then the converastion moves to me having wavesurfed when I was living abroad, and she is now asking me questions about all that; I've been replying with short bare-bones sentences to these questions]
In short, she texted me on a Fri evening, asked where I'm living at (!), told me with a bit of plausible deniability that she is free tomorrow evening (!) and now firing these boring fact-questions at me.
Oh, I scrolled down her Facebook feed, said she got engaged a year ago Could be a joke or something.
So, guys, what's your analysis of the situation?
I'll invite her over for pre-drinks again tomorrow evening or would you advise against it?
Regards,
Rakkum
I reconnected to a chick a few weeks ago. I met on a weekend evening on the steets a few years ago. Didn't close. Met up with her a bit later, managed to escalate to kissing if I recall but she was throwing up a lot of resistance so it didn't go anywhere.
Happened to come across her on my Facebook feed a few weeks ago. Reconnected, chatted a bit, turns out she is studying in my town.
I say, "Ok, we should meet up for a few margaritas before the summer is done with!"
She says "Yeah"
I've been busy with other more promising leads so I haven't texted her back for over a week.
Texts me today at a Friday evening around eight o'clock.
Her: Hey, what's up?"
Me: Ciao! I'm golden! What's up?
Her: Just chilling, what about you?
Me: Vibing at home still - some great parties tonight! Come by, let's have a few pre-drinks and head out! [plan was: A) Feel her out, if she's into me, try and escalate right her B) Take her to the party with me and see if I can get a virtuous circle of social proof going]
Her: I'm too tired today
Her: Where do you live btw?
Me: We'll bring you back to life
Me: Bordering downtown and the Valley
Her: I've already washed my make up and all
Her: Where are you planning to go?
Me: Well damn and I just needed someone to borrow makeup from and color my eyes!
Me: X-party
Her: next time
Me: Well, fuck, looks like I need to borrow someone's makeup at the party
Her: You'll be fine
Her: I don't know my plans tomorrow but what are you up to?
Me: Windsurfing but should be back to go back to X-party if it's any good today
Her: [asking me about where I surfing, then the converastion moves to me having wavesurfed when I was living abroad, and she is now asking me questions about all that; I've been replying with short bare-bones sentences to these questions]
In short, she texted me on a Fri evening, asked where I'm living at (!), told me with a bit of plausible deniability that she is free tomorrow evening (!) and now firing these boring fact-questions at me.
Oh, I scrolled down her Facebook feed, said she got engaged a year ago Could be a joke or something.
So, guys, what's your analysis of the situation?
I'll invite her over for pre-drinks again tomorrow evening or would you advise against it?
Regards,
Rakkum