Restrain from arriving to seduction conclusions during down periods

[Skills]

We all go through bad streaks in pick up (i know a lot of you have been having just successes or just failures cause you have not been in the game long enough both tend to happen), life, break ups, relationships etc.... During those times no matter how much experience you have with social dynamics and women, life, relationship etc...... You arrive at negative type conclusions which sometimes you even share, or teach how tos' or reach erroneous conclusions ( in fact the most of the seduction community went red pill from this)....... I was looking back at some of my worst shit posts, and i noticed they were written during a down periods of seduction success, break up etc... When things like that happen your mind is not really there 100% and even if it is your vibe is not right, you are blindsided and you don't know it(the problem is that sharing actually helps you release all that from inside which helps, so i am being hypocritical cause it actually helps n a way)... So just restrain from conclusions and big decisions till the waves are gone and the tie stable.... The problem with this is that you have no idea is happening, again you are blindsided.......

 

[Starboy]

Could you clarify more on what it means to be blindsided in seduction and dating and why it invalidates whatever belief you had ? I'm somewhat of a harsh critic when it comes to failed outcomes with women. I will analyze what I did wrong with a particular girl,what I should've done, how I fucked it up and usually I arrive at negative conclusions.

 

[Skills]

Could you clarify more on what it means to be blindsided in seduction and dating and why it invalidates whatever belief you had ? I'm somewhat of a harsh critic when it comes to failed outcomes with women. I will analyze what I did wrong with a particular girl,what I should've done, how I fucked it up and usually I arrive at negative conclusions.

Im really giving up on women this time. I really hate them

I just not going to bother anymore. The depression I feel on a daily basis and inner turmoil I cant fuck with it anymore. Im so done. My biggest problem is operating without them. I mean I could never get them but I have to prevent myself from ever trying. Such bullshit creatures they are. They...

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[Fuck This]

There is an Ultramarathon saying "Don't make any decisions on an uphill" same idea.

 

[Skills]

This is for @Troy

 

[Vision]

Great post

 

[Skills]

actually i gave this answer somewhere in the forum that is a good sample of what i am talking about:

this post from people not believing comes down to different factors and it cause frictions on forums:

- so you have a group of guys that are older and have seduce younger women (they put effort in the way of attractive behaviors, or putting themselves on the right situation, or being charismatic or being perceived high status in the girls eye, or emotionally stimulating the girl and moving things forward or _______________ fill in the blank) and they have been in the situation that shatters others people reality....

^ i have been there at times, during low momentum arguing with guys with high momentum, reaching erroneous conclusions and doubling down on them, we all do it in the community even with success...

You have guys that are unnatractive, uncharismatic, wrong methodology, wrong structures, low odds behaviors and strategies.... Or even the right ones just doing it wrong cause of the period of learning...

- they go out and try and get massively rejected then reach wrong conclusions, get with other guys in the same situation reach same wrong conclusions... Puahate and black pill and some redpillers fall into this....

They come to a forum to argue and then sometimes we give erroneous answers to prove it can be done by extreme example "i knew a fat guy broke that got a 10 18) not that is not true but it comes across uncalibrated when discussing this type of topic, then other see it and "ridicule it" or take out of context, even if well meaning...

lets take a look at averagedaygamer after 5000000 post of cope, finally goes out with the young hot girl, that is somewhat open,

-he goes out, does stupid shit and running the date all fucked up....

"oh i did not feel chemistry" "too much age gap" and the rest....

then "See i was right all along"